SilkBlossom

So many people on here think dominance is about being snotty, arrogent, and overly agressive. Boy could you be more obnoxious and wrong??

Nothing turns me off, then selfish, overly agressive people that like to adress themselves as Alphas and expect respect to be dished over and given without giving anything in return. Seriously, what is wrong with you?

A real 'dominant' does not need to be pushy, snotty, obnoxious and selfish to get what they want. A real 'dominant' knows how to get what they want by being respectful, seductive, and manipulative in a fun, and classy manner.

Seriously if you don't have class you have no respect for yourself and all you appear to be is just someone who thinks a sub is an object to give you an orgasm when you feel you need one. Thats called a whore in my personal opinion, not deserving anyone's respect and needs to be in therapy.

So many men, forget that domination does not mean having an easy sex toy to get blow jobs from. If thats what you think a sub is, your not really a Master, your a horny little boy.

I wish  had some excitement tonight, it's such a beautiful night out with the sweetest breeze. If anyone else happens to read this and is local, send a message, guy or girl!

I think I may have a bit of an obsession with brides and anything bridal related.

Also, I love changing. As you can see in my photos, ive been a redhead, a blondie, and finally back to my original color which is brown. I also have had blue hair, pink hair, and black hair with red streaks in it.

Another thing of mine is I love dancing at home, and singing as if no one is listening.

About my Dominant side- Some random thoughts

I have more experience as a domme than I do as a submissive. I have played online, on the phone, and in person. I prefer to dominate females because I find them to be more complex, filled with personality, and desires. I used to dominate a lot of men but found them all to be rather simple minded and boring to dominate. They all seemed to blend together after a while with a couple of acceptions here and there.

I haven't dominated anyone in a really long time and I haven't had any desires or fantasies involving domination. Maybe it's because I haven't met the right lady for this, I don't know really. But when I used to dominate I was always the sensual domme. Everything I did, was with class, taste, and slow sensuality and seduction. I don't think a woman needs to lower herself by being vulgar, abusive, and nasty to get what she wants.

I always cared about my pets, their desires, wants, and needs, and I never wanted doormats or money slaves. I do love being spoiled though by the right person and love being treated like a Princess but im really not into blackmailing or getting what I want through those means at all.

Don't confuse my class and sensuality, or my friendliness and kindess for weakness. It is most certainly not. I don't let anyone walk all over me and I have strict boundaries and limits. I am not an easy person to please. I am fussy, picky, selective, and I know how I like being pleased. It will be a training process, a learning process, and a fun one at that. I am strict but fair and do punish when and if I need to.

That is all for now, maybe more later.

About my submissive side - (Some random thoughts)

For many years now ive had submissive fantasies.

Mine are pretty exteme.

The thing is I have no desire to be submissive to anyone on a 24/7 basis and this is where me and others go wrong. Secondly If I am not sexually attracted to a man; I have no desire to submit to him at all. Nextly, if I'm not in love, you will never have my body, and I will never care to please you in any way whatsoever.

Friendship, Respect, Love, then Play. I don't do casual play, to me casual play is like casual sex, many enjoy it and are fine with it, but I'm not. I'm a very private person and im very picky, fussy, and selective about with whom I share myself with.

This means something good for you. What does it say about a person who plays with and screws everyone they meet? It says, that your not really special, your just another face in the croud.

Nextly a man that expects complete submission with no limits is not for me. I am not willing to bend on hard limits, nor am I willing to give up my fantasies for his fantasies. Which means if we are not compatible then no power exchange can possibly happen.

I AM selfish at times. I have needs and I want my needs fufilled. If they are not fufilled I will leave, period. It's isnt all about you, it's about 'us'

Now im finally going to list some of my fetishes on the left, which I've left blank for a long time!

On another note I tend to feel my submissive side lay more with males. I rarely, if ever have felt submissive towards another female, in fact I usually feel like an Alpha female when in the presences of other ladies, which is why I won't do well with a man that would not put me as his 'first' or 'alpha' pet. I am special, and expect to be treated that way, and in return, I can submit very deeply, fully, and completely.

I have never thought about submitting to a couple but id consider it as it would be a completely new experience for me. Another thing a dom would have to consider, which is why I don't and can't do 24/7 is that I'm not always feeling submissive and sometimes I really have to get away from it and be in control, and dominant for a while. In my daily life I enjoy this greatly. Thanks for your understanding.

Some random facts about me

 My favorite flower is a Sunflower and I grew one over 6'0 tall by hand.

 If my soul were a color it would be a rainbow but my favorite colors are red and pink

 I prefer mermaids over fairies any day, and I identify with the water Siren

 I think Pegasus are cooler than unicorns

 If it isin't cute I won't buy it no matter how functional it is, and if it doesn't come in a cute or pretty version I will decorate or paint it