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About sikfuk32
An excerpt from my training notes for a slave I owned a few years ago...
I like to be called John. It's respectful and it is my name. But there are times when it is inappropriate. Let's learn a rule and then practice implementing it. These are the times when slave should not be addressing her Master at all. So no name is required. 'May I have permission to speak.' 'Thank you'. Slave may choose to call her Master Sir or Master should she wish to show her respect. But it is not obligatory, as master finds this artificial and unnatural.
And what will Master call his slave? Jane! For that is her name. Again there is usually no need for a name. Master may use the word slave if he wants to remind slave of her subordinancy. But that is his prerogative.
Grounds for punishment...
Slave will be asked to repeat things that Master has said, at random, on occasions. Failure to recall with accuracy will result in reprimand. Slave is always allowed to question what master means and is under a positive duty to ensure that she has interpretted his words correctly. There will therefore be no excuse based on language difficulties. If Slave is a good listener then this will be an easy ruling to follow. If Slave is a bad listener then she will soon learn to improve as punishment will be severe. There is always room for improvement in everyone, so slave must not see this training objective to be an attack. Listening is difficult and is something that can be learned. Better listening leads to better communication which leads to a better relationship. We all win.
Slave will not cover her body. When she is naked she will stand proudly with her shoulders back and her hands neatly put of the way. If Slave is cold then she can ask for the heating to be turned up as she should not be uncomfortable. Posture will be rewarded using negative reinforcement techniques. Attempts to cover her body will be met with punishment, delivered in a fixed but randomized ratio of 1 to 5. Being naked is easy. Being naked to bring another pleasure is an art form that slave will learn. Bondage may be useful as a negative reinforcement technique here. Slave can avoid bondage if she presents herself properly. Presentation of breasts, pussy and anus. Presentation of slaves beautiful shoulders... Such a turn on.
Slave will not argue with master... That doesn't mean master is always right. For he is not. And it doesn't mean slave is always wrong when she disagrees. But there is a way to present an opposing view. A methodology will be developed for the presentation of opposing views. This will help to ensure that arguments do net develop from disagreements and will provide both master and slave with a mechanism to ensure thatb they have both listened properly to the opposinf view and taken it on board. Master retains ultimate discretion in all matters howver. This longer term training objective requires some thought. It should start with a protocol whichb slave will use when she wants to raise an opposing view or to challenge her Master on any given issjue.
Collaring
Why is it important? Is it important?
We know why it is difficult. Collars are for animals. In fact this collar is for a dog. So it is very difficult for slave to wear this without feeling ashamed. But it does serve a useful purpose and has many benefits for slave. For example, when she is wearing it she knows that certain things are expected of her which are not expected when she is not wearing it. This means that she does not always have to adhere to strict slave protocol all the time. But it also gives master a way to invoke slave protocol. It would be interesting to be in the position where slave is is a bad mood and Master gives her the collar to wear. At the moment thisbwoukd cause a big argument. But can we get to the point when slave is proud to wear the collar at a any time?
Perhaps the collar is not the right one. Perhaps it could be replaced with jewellery. Or anything. But it is a good thing to train with as it is an extreme. If Slave can prove she will gladly wear her collar then it can be replaced with something beautiful or even just an idea. So for now the collar forms part of slaves training. |
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