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About ShrewNeedsTamer
Update 11-06-09: I've opened up an online adult novelty shop, and I'd really like for you to check it out. There's BDSM stuff, candles, toys of ALL sorts (for HIM and HER), lotions and bath stuff...the list goes on and on. There's even some seasonal items on there too, as well as costumes!
http://www.sextoyfun.com/?a=woans
Thanks!
A few things about me:
I am wanting to find a DaddyDom. I want a relationship like that. I am VERY much so a baby girl, and I am looking for the right man to help me fullfill MY fantasies. :)
I am seriously new to this...so tread lightly. I've never done any of this stuff before.
I am a BBW. If you don't know what that means....I'll tell ya.
You should keep on walking, I am not for you.
Had met someone on here, that played me good, and left me hanging. If you're not "REAL", I don't even want to bother talking to you. Be careful tho, because eventually, it all comes out in the wash. I WILL find out. And just remember...what comes around, goes around.
To me, this is the way a "Daddy Dom" is described.
What is a Daddy Dom:
A Daddy Dom is the most tender of all Dominants. He loves His adult little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissive's best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesn't mean that he gives into her every whim. There can be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He as to be able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. And yes, at times he does punish her. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than her, but he will always do what's best for her.
He helps her set and reach her goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her improve herself to the the best she can be, not for HIM but for her! He's not just looking to maker a better submissive, but a better person in general.
He becomes many things in her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND? a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him!
He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing all alone that He can't! SO? it is up to him to prepare her for whatever life may bring her way, and be there to comfort her when things go wrong. Knowing she will run to him when she becomes overwhelmed or frightened by the harshness of life. The Daddy Dom listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to him, to her they are real and he will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and he is her "Knight In Shining Armor".
The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves Him enough to open herself up so totally to Him. He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. She is His little on, and he loves her unconditionally.
There is nothing more satisfying to Him than to see her succeed, to watch as she grows as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments almost as much as she does herself.
He will cuddle her and show her the tenderness she craves when she needs it, when she feels unsure of herself He will whisper encouraging words for her. When she feels ugly He will reassure her how beautiful she is to Him....when sh is scared, He will be her saftey net, her medium against the world if need be. She is His pride and joy. His main comfort in life. His reason for living. His pride in her shows in the tender loving way He cares for her. He is the only ont for her...her Daddy!
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Okay..so, the guy that I met on here...and started "dating" etc...wow. What can I say. It was "on again-off again" the whole time. He "claimed to be a dom",? but he wasn't. I had more control over the relationship than anything. I think I am going to die an old bitter lonely women because of pricks like him. He hurt me, used me, and discarded me like I was a piece of yesterdays garbage. And I don't mean that in a BDSM way, either. Practically the whole time he was dating me, he was dating another woman....or women, I am sure I'll never find that one out. On top of that, he was still married, living at home with his wife. You know, the fucked up thing about that WHOLE incident is this...I ASKED him if he was seeing someone else, asked him if he needed space, asked him if he wanted to stop dating...he kept saying "no" to everything. When I asked him about the woman I suspected he was seeing, he said that there was no one but a woman and he said that she was only a friend, and that she just "needed someone to talk to", because she was going through a custody battle for her young children. Situations arose, to where I was finally able to make contact with her, and I got to ask her ALL the questions I had been asking HIM. She confirmed EVERYTHING that I had suspected from the beginning. What I had known and suspected, she confirmed. I knew. I had known all along, actually. Funny thing is it was almost instantanious when I knew he was cheating on me. He came back to me changed. He was distant, not like he used to be with me. Apparently, he was telling her ALL the same things that he was telling me. About how after his divorce, we would buy a house, and get together. I think what he really wanted, was someone to support him. I am a full time live in nanny, and don't make much money if any. My pay is pretty much my room and board and some nessecities like gas etc. She had just graduated nursing school, so the decision wasn't too hard for him apparently. What's worse is, when I talked to her, she basically broke us up. He never had the gall to tell me? himself. I ask you, is that ANY characteristics of a Dom? I think not. At least not a good one. I think it's sad that men on here....and EVERYWHERE ELSE actually treat women like this. What gives HIM the God given right to even do that to another human being. I mean, if you don't want to see someone anymore, WHY can't you just TELL them? Why do you have to use your "new fuck" to do it?
So, if there's something that I can take away with me about all of this is this. Men are STILL assholes..will ALWAYS be assholes, and will forever more be known to me as assholes. Don't try to change me. You can't.
-=W=-
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Wow. Seems that things have changed. I am indeed no longer "single". I guess that situations change all the time, as do people. I don't know.
The man that "left me hanging", did indeed NOT leave me hanging, if that makes sense. Apparently, he wasn't "happy" in his situation, and decided to move on....with me. I know it probably sounds rediculous to some, but that's because you don't know me, or the whole story. I don't know. I don't really care, either. I just hope that things work out for the best for us. Just like I would wish for things to work out for all of you out there. :)
So far, we'll be living together for almost a month now. Well, it's been more like 3 weeks. Wish me luck...just like I wish you luck. Thanks....
-=W=-
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Here's a little tid bit for you. I met a guy on this site, and all was fine, until I started asking questions...and wanting to meet his children. We dated for about 2 months. Turns out, he was married. A week after he cut off all communication with me, his wife called me. She then proceeded to tell me that I had just had an affair with her husband. Wow. What a shocker. I really was. He said he was divorced, and that he had papers to prove it. Needless to say, I never pressed the "papers" issue, but I guess I should have. It's insane what guys will do just to "get a piece of ass". Don't get me wrong, I don't hold CM at all responsible for someone else's actions, I don't. BUT, just beware out there is all I am saying. You never know what you're going to come across on this or ANY other site. Thanks...
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