ShinyBoy27


ShinyLittleChA Female Submissive, 43, Greeley, Colorado	shinydragon Male Dominant, 29, Athens, Ohio	Shinywrap Male Dominant, 34, Long Beach, California

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	About ShinyBoy27 <<<<<UPDATE>>>>> I have found a wonderfull submissive woman, on this site, who is also my partner and soon(ish) to be wife. We have been together for 2 years now. This profile is now purely to keep me in touch with goings on. I will answer any relevant respectful e-mails and will happily offer advice to others if they choose to contact me. I will not partake in ANY activities/sessions with other submissives, I have found my 'one'. =============== Ok, my profile is going to cover 2 scenarios, of which only one will be in effect at any point in time. Both have a large degree of flexibility and are approached in a friendly and constructive manner. I will cover them both first and then put some more general gibber gabber in afterward. :) Scenario 1: (Temporary, non-committal, non-exclusive) This is a session, fun and learning scenario for all involved. For people who are looking to explore and expand into some of the more spicy activities, or for newcomers who want a caring introduction to things that moves at their pace. There is no long term commitment and formalities are limited to suit each individual Dominant-submissive situation. I will not limit myself to one submissive in this situation and I will not require someone to session exclusively with me. Please be aware that all scenario 1 submissives will be dismissed once someone is accepted into scenario 2. Scenario 2: (Long term commitment, exclusive) All of my criteria for a scenario apply to both parties. So just as anyone being accepted for this scenario agrees to be exclusively committed to me, I also agree to be exclusively committed to them. Any submissives in scenario 1 will be dismissed when someone is accepted into scenario 2. This person will be committed to me as my submissive/slave (the exact definition depends on who the individual is and the agreed nature of their long term relationship with me) and will wish to engage in both D/s and vanilla activities with me. While im extremely flexible on a great many things from personality type through activities and on to hobbies, there are a few things that will help ensure that we get along. I don’t expect anyone to like all of these, but having an interest in some will help in a relationship with me. These are: -A love of nature, walks in the woods, camping/camper vanning. I have an especial fondness of the Lake District and try to go each year. -A love of animals, especially the 4 legged variety. :) My personal favourite animal is the Cheetah, while far from the top of the food-chain and bullied off of kills by many other big cats and predators, they have evolved one single very special ability to almost perfection. I view them as focused, strategic, elegant and beautiful. -An interest in pagan ideals and the old world, especially Witchcraft. With myself this is in relation to an appreciation of nature mainly, but does also extend further. Gaming, PC and Xbox. -Computers, as im an IT Professional of 16 years some geekyness comes with the package. :) -A hate of football, I simply can’t stand it. Others are welcome to enjoy it but I actively avoid everything to do with the violent (and highly devolved) religion of football. -I can happily listen to many types of music but especially like Rock music and dislike Dance music. No doubt you’ve noticed that none of these are BDSM related, that is because while D/s and/or BDSM will obviously feature prominently in any relationship with me, it is the general connection between two people that must be there for that relationship to survive and grow. BDSM Info: I like such a wide variety of interests, activities and scenarios that it would be almost impossible to find a submissive that could cover every aspect. It also isn’t a requirement as im just as happy in any of my liked scenarios over the long term. To me it’s the connection with the submissive/slave in a long term mutually rewarding relationship that counts. I can be extremely caring and soft, enveloping someone in warmth as I guide and build them up as a submissive. I find this to be a very close and personal form of D/s. I can also be strict and controlling, showing the same care and love while providing a much more ridged path with far more memorable deterrence’s when you deviate from it. Both of those extremes (for lack of a better word coming to mind) are comfortable living side by side inside of me, and I am perfectly content with embracing only one of them. Whatever you are interested in, you will always find me friendly and approachable. Activities: (not a complete list) Some people hate to see a list of activities/fetishes, I think it helps people to see another part of you so can only be good for someone trying to figure out if they want to contact you or not. -Flogging (a fav of mine) -Slave Training (to be clear, I don’t mean turning someone into a doormat… I encourage the persons personality to grow and retain an individual nature during this) -Hoods -Gags (a fav of mine) -Bondage (a fav of mine) -Feet/Boots/Shoes -Latex -Breath Play (a fav of mine) -Electric Play -Cupping (need new set, will be purchasing soon) -Knife Play (used as a prop and for gentle contact on the submissives body, at the heaviest, used for a light scraping feeling) -Sensation Play (good when used during flogging to contrast to soft and soothing) -Verbal Humiliation/Dirty Talking -Hair Pulling -Scents/Smells -Body Worship -Forced Orgasm/Orgasm Denial -Watersports -The Dark List (Most people need not worry about this, I will only reveal and engage in Dark List activities with those who im convinced are interested in such.. These are not just edge play activities, but involve consuming twists in their application that make them deeper than most can grasp… To reassure you all, ALL ACTIVITIES ON THE DARK LIST ARE TOTALLY LEGAL). To summarise: You will find me friendly, caring and very approachable. I offer only the best in discretion and expect it back. Im looking for someone who’s love permeates both the D/s and vanilla side of a relationship, someone with a true heart, if you will. I love to have a good laugh and bring a sense of humour to all situations, both D/s and vanilla. I know the former sounds a bit sappy, especially for a Dominant, but I do have deep feelings and will choose carefully who I share them with long term. To help me get an initial look inside of you, when you contact me, please tell me what your favourite animal is and why. Thank you for taking the time to read my extended waffling.

Well, I hung around past when I said i was leaving before due to promising conversations with a couple of people.

Once again everything has gone dead.. .. beginning to think it would be easier to get a dog for companionship.

I have been on CollarMe for years and its been ok but I have to leave it for quite long periods of time to let it settle down and my tollerances recharge, especially with regards to the less than desireable types on here. I am fast approaching my tollerance threshold again.. At the start of May I will be switching to an alternative site where you can pay to help show yourself as genuine, and turning this profile off. This tme even the genuine seeming people who ive exchanged very nice messages with have gone quiet as soon as any kind of minimal verification is suggested. It seems that CM is getting little bit worse.

It strikes me that its been quite a while since ive update my photo and could do with adding a couple more.. So I will be taking careof this in the next few days.

Its funny... ive been on this site for a long time, and I often seem to find myself with no-one to talk to who is worth the time of day... So many fakers, both subs and Dom/mes..? So its always nice when once in a while someone really nice comes by.. even if only for a chat.. THANK YOU... you know who you are :) ..

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