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Pleased to meet you.
Just venting and sharing here...for amusement, yours and mine. Nothing else.
xxxxx
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Now this is something interesting (and so typical).
Until I had my pic on this profile...I recieved zillions of messages. Mostly one-liners saying: Your hot! or that: I can do things to that body.
Since I took the picture off...I have had 3 messages in 3 days.
First of all...CM promotes having a pic to increase the chances of contact. Well...it means quantity of contact rather than quality.
Secondly, the 3 messages I had after profile went pictureless, were actually intelligent messages...'talking' sense. Rather than hormonal wannabe's wanting to stuff your holes within 15 minutes of saying hello.
So...you know, I am happier with quality of messages nowadays...so there we have it! |
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I have taken my picture off - cause I get spiked when I recieve one-liners from pic cruisers.
GRRR!!! |
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I have been thinking...
Like LOVE, the concept of POWER EXCHANGE is much misunderstood.
To me most LOVE stuff is choice-based. We decide to fall in love. Hence the concept of love at first sight and finding the soul mate and all that mush falls into a deep psychologically based cognitive/association discussion.
LOVING people are often very loved...and most probably just flow into a relationship and probably the relationship lasts. Such people and such relationships are not so common in the modern world.
The rest of us...complexed hybrids of media and peers upbringing, are not innately loving. Hence we have those moments of subconcious decision-making: wow this guy talks in a nice tone, wow this girl has a hot body, wow this man is just like my fantasy guy etc... and then we start a kind of obsessive process of thought and behaviour and that we call being in love! And that, my friend, rarely lasts.
To me...power exchange is something like that too.
The innately dominant or submissive people don't even need to come to these sites to express their needs.
Every aspect of their lives is a power exchange...because that's their nature. They attract situations and people which suits them. And most probably they end up with a partner which is their appropriate counterpart.
Other times a dominant character might 'see fit' to behave submissively or the otherway around. For example, you bite your tongue and allow your boss to BOSS you about without you responding dominant because you need to keep the goddamn job working for the asshole.
Here though...or in general BDSM trend (yes trend!) most of us decide to be sub or Dom...again mainly due to our associations.
Every individual's sexual world...is a special place. The word 'intimacy' is mostly associated with it. Intimacy is private, secret, and usually as beautiful as it is taboo.
Here...people exist in that 'intimate' world.
Reality is not intimate.
Hence most of us here...have DECIDED to talk much ballony - about our needs, ways and nature!
ROFL
(Want to write more but I have pulled a ligament in my hand and it hurts...so I will continue another time)
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Amaziiiing!!!
Look at the top of your Collarme page and see what it says.
Mine says: The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet.
Does yours say the same?
I have recieved umpteen messages in the past couple of days apart from one, all of them were written with intention to recruit me as their 'thing'.
Some were unbelievably explicit (Is this a kink too? To write such stuff and send to total strangers?) - some are details of how that man dominates and his 'way', these type are mostly well written and interesting.
And some, just send two words or half a sentence...charming or what???
I have seen dating sites...they advertise themselves as such.
Also there is meat markets...they too have the visual and wording to indicate the purpose.
But here...a 'community' to me means a community...for all sorts of things...and not just to find a soul mate/whipping object/wife/sub/slut or whatever.
Why do I get the feeling that unless one is actively seeking to be used, being here is a waste of time?
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