shellbaby

About shellbaby

-Oscar Wilde-


I am a social butterfly first and foremost, I love meeting new people and making new friends. I am here to expand my social network and find people with like interests to hang out and go to events with. I do identify as mostly submissive in terms of a D/s relationship, but outside of that dynamic I am fairly outspoken and strongwilled.

I would also say the most physically obvious thing about me is the fact that I walk with a crutch. I have had Cerebral Palsy since birth, a condition that effects me physically but has yet to stop me from doing anything I put my mind to. I'm happy to answer any questions you may have about it :)

I have been involved in the bdsm scene on and off for over 10 years now, and am glad to say I have had a mostly positive experience with it. I feel that I have reached a point in life where I have identified what I want and need in a relationship, as well as what I don't. I have had experience with poly relationships, and while they taught me so much about myself, I am looking to share myself with just one person.
I would describe myself as a service-oriented submissive with masochistic undertones. The pleasure I derive from pain comes from a place of service and a desire to please. I am also passionate about boot blacking and boot worship, improving my knowledge and skills when possible.
I take a great deal of joy from making those I care for happy. To know that I have served well is one of the highest honors I can hope to attain. That said, the will to serve is something I consider sacred, and given to those closest to my heart.
I do enjoy pain to an extent, but would not consider myself a heavy masochist. I do like to push my limits as far as tolerance goes, I suppose I enjoy the challenge more than the pain itself. What can I say? I'm stubborn.
Outside of the BDSM world you can probably find me haunting the local bookstore or coffee shop. I love to go to concerts, from the small and intimate venues to upscale arenas. I'm passionate about music and have a pretty eclectic list of favorites.