SheepishWolf

We enjoyed a fun weekend at Frolicon this past weekend. Saw a few great shows and sat in a few good and interesting classes. And the battle of the parties was fantastic! Enjoyed meeting new people and sharing my floggers and dragon tails with them, especially the submissives that enjoyed being on the receiving end.

I keep coming across these profiles that state "please be height/weight proportionate." What exactly does that mean? And how can you decide if the person is "proportionate" just from a weight associated with a height? I'm 5'9" tall and tip the scales at 235, which would make me morbidly obese if you go by the chart that the medical world goes by since my max weight should be 175. I can't get to that weight without losing muscle. I know, I'm less than 1% body fat at 180 lbs. As it is, I am considered to be slightly overweight. My new doctor even agrees with that, and apparently do the eyes of quite a few women I know.

This past August, the third Saturday to be exact, I began trying to learn how to flog Florentine style. It all clicked while at Incognito on about the second Saturday of September, and I am now also making floggers to go along with that. I don't see me making floggers for pain.

If you contact me and say you are a sub/slave, then it is not a good idea to start telling me I need to change to make you happy. That isn't going to happen. I fired my first wife because of that. I had a great relationship with a young lady until she began trying to make me into someone I'm not, and she went packing. The only way you can possibly have a chance of making me change who I am is to make me a father, give me a child, but that duty is my wife's and hers alone for as long as she is wedded to me. It is up to you to know what you want in a top/master, and if someone isn't what you want, or has flaws, it is up to you to realize that and either move on or make changes to yourself to fit them. Topping from the bottom is not going to happen here.

Since I have had a few subs/slaves contact me wanting to test the strops I'm trying to make, I've decided to include some paddles as well. My sadistic side is enjoying playing with the ideas for this! Already have some lengths cut on two different width boards, just gotta shape the handles and decide what is going to get what. I'll post pics when I have something closer to a finished product on any of these projects.

If you are out of state, I will do my best to disuade you from asking me to work with you. I have had bad experiences doing that and don't wish to repeat that bad experience. I will be glad to exchange emails with you, but not take you under my wing. Sorry 'bout that gurls.