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Englishman in Switzerland.

Experienced Dom with a sense of humour :o)))

I've been in several BDSM relationships and am now thinking about looking for something new. Not too sure exactly what I'm looking for. Am I looking for total control, or am I just looking for a normal relationship where BDSM is an element. I've done both before and I suppose it would depend on who it is that I meet, and how much they capture my attention.

Yes I can be a complete sadist, but I can also be very caring. It doesn't have to be about pain. Domination is not just about pain. I've helped a few people start out in BDSM, so I have experience in taking beginners with low pain thresholds and helping them find out where they're limits are and where it is that BDSM fits into their lives.

Still, no matter who you are and what you're looking for, please feel free just to say hi. I live in Switzerland, but work a lot in Germany and am in the UK quite often.

Oh and I do speak German quite well too :o))) Obwohl mein schriftlich sprache könnte besser sein......

btw, I find it HIGHLY amusing, that you're not allowed to post explicit pictures, but in the adverts on every page there are ....errr....explicit pictures.

last note - Sometimes I might just say hi as your profile interests me, and therefore I might think your personality interests me. I like just saying hi. If you don't want to converse, please say so. It's only polite. Thanks
7/28/2009 1:22:13 PM
Well, new job, new country.

So far things going well, although I'm breaking a serious amount of employment laws with the overtime I'm doing which has kept me from logging on here.

Sadly, when I did, I was bombarded with spam messages.  Honestly, do people not even read up on the site they are spamming before they send messages??

5/11/2009 9:00:22 AM
Feb up with the endless amount of fakers on here.  Seriously people?  Don't you have better things to do?

So, in an effort to seem somewhat more genuine, I'm going to re-post a pic of me up here.  It won't however be a face pic.  I've said on my profile why I don't wish to put my face on here so please accept and understand that.  I will excange one however once trust has been established.
4/27/2009 8:31:45 AM
Different day, same gripe.

If I say hi, or make a comment, it's only polite to at least acknowledge the fact that I've taken the trouble to write you a personal message, not just cut and paste something.

Feel free to say "hi" back or at the very least "thanks but no thanks!".

Grrrrrrrrr
4/24/2009 11:03:34 AM
Oh dear god it's so quiet.....  Still, working on the move is keeping me busy.  Trouble with Europe is all the red tape when it comes to moving....
4/20/2009 4:50:12 AM
Well it looks like I'm moving again.  This time Switzerland is on the cards.  Oh well. 

Not really seen much happening on this site of late.  Anybody alive out there?  :o)
4/2/2009 8:35:33 AM
The sun is shining.  'Tis a glorious day.  And I just got my car back from the f***ing Abschlepdienst.  oh well.

Why oh why am I stuck in in the office when I should be on a lovely walk deep into the forest with a lot of rope, a lovely sub and some "toys"?? :o)))

A Biergarten is also good right now too :o))))  Oh happy days.
3/24/2009 11:24:33 AM
So then, after having not only a close call where I found somebody on here that I know at work, the pics have come down.

I have no issues with people showing their faces, however not really wanting the world and his dog (especially not the dog :o)) to know what I'm like out of the office or pub, I hope you understand that I don't slap pics up in public.  I do have them to share, but only once we've spoken.

3/20/2009 8:57:56 AM
Again, another person I know has told me that their pictures weren't approved as they were too explicit.

How laughable is that?  Do the administrators not see the adverts for other sites??

Oh well.  Another week has come and gone.  Rather an interesting one to be honest with you.  It's a damn shame I'm not in a position to play with anybody at the moment, as there are some really great people that I've met and chatted to.  Maybe things are looking up after all!
3/15/2009 11:18:35 AM
Well another day, another hangover.  I really think I'm getting to old to stay out until 5am 2 nights in a row.....

Apart from the feeling of being totally dead the next day, it's playing havoc with meeting anybody that's nothing other than vanilla!!  Still, that's why we have the internet I suppose.

Oh and I'm NEVER drinking Jäger again,,,,,
3/13/2009 9:14:11 AM
One thing I really can't stand is rudeness.  Sometimes I find profiles interesting and will just say hi.  It's never a standard "nice tits" or "kneel for me" type rubbish, but actually a genuine hello.

If you do not want to respond with anything, it's much more polite to say "thanks but no thanks" than to just ignore the message.  I've taken the time to be polite and couteous.  Please respond in kind.
3/12/2009 2:38:52 PM
Oh dear GOD!!!  Why are there so many 18 and 19 year olds who are saying that they have "low or no" limits??  There's no way somebody that young can be that experienced can there??  Oh right.,...there it is....."tribute required"....  I get it now.....

You gotta love fantasists, however I can't wait to find a site for some real people!

Sorry to rant....
3/12/2009 8:46:11 AM
Interesting week so far....  Lots of things to do at work and bugger all time to do them.  Hey ho.   After being on this site for about 2 weeks now, I've met a very interesting person for coffee and had the most captivating chat, but that's about it so far.  Yes you read that correctly, coffee and a chat.  Just because I'm down here as a Dom male (and I don't show my face to the world), doesn't mean that I'm going to come up with something like "kneel B***h".  Ok, ok I might (lol), but only once I get to know somebody :o))))

So please, I'm not looking for some random play or to live out a fantasy I've got.  This is me, this is my lifestyle.  I take what I do seriously.  Good conversation with good people is also appreciated.  :o))
Epiphanie
 
 Age: 29
 Alomo, Utah