shadowmastertx


ShadowMaster Male Dominant, 52, North Las Vegas, Nevada	shadowm Male Submissive, 32, Ljubljana	shadowedknight Male Submissive, 23, London

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	About shadowmastertx I seek a slave for long term ownership, not just a hook up, and I have discovered I can't play with my toys if I break them all. I am therefore looking for one who enjoys serving, and understands that serving my desires can includes feeling pain for my amusement. Some would call a sadist. I enjoy using a slave for my pleasure. I enjoy the sound of a whimper caused by the sting of a paddle. But there is far more to a D/s relationship that knowing how to use a flogger. I believe society has it all screwed up. While I have no argument with equal pay for equal work, the concept that men and woman are equal is as absurd as Coke and Pepsi both being the same thing. Woman were meant to be ruled. So it has been for many years. Woman were meant to be owned, controlled, and obedient. For this, the male caveman shared the bounty of his feast. Today should be no different. A woman should be obedient, offering all that she can do, including catering to any desire a man might have of her. Her place being second to his. Her time belongs to him to use or waste as he desires. Her life is his to enjoy. For this, her master protects her, values her, and owns her and in many ways, gives her purpose. It is this first word that many wanna be doms over look.. "protect" It is a dom's duty to protect his slave so she can serve him. He should not expect to whore her out unless he can raise bail if she is caught.. or hurt, etc.. But, she should be able to trust that if he did tell her to do so, he would have her back.. So many here want to take but not give back.. To those wanna be, I say "shame on you". For his care of her, she accepts that she strives to bring her master value in all that she is, and the understanding that she is in fact owned. And, for this, her master has a duty to accept the responsibility of that ownership, and not just waste it on selfish blow jobs on command. A slave must know her service benefits them both, or that he will reward her, or it becomes a unsupportable relationship. If you feel this is what being a slave means to you, and that this is what your feel a master should be, then say hello.

My thoughts:
A submissive requires more attention than the average girl. More structure. More rules. More security, focus, time. It is a lot for the master to take on -- but them, a slave gives up a great deal when she offers her submission to a Dominant.

That trade off - she gives up power in exchange for her Dom's respect of that power, and her trust that he will protect her choice to offer her obedience.

I read this today, and can't help but agree.. "A great man once said, everything is about sex. Except sex. Sex is about power.? - Frank Underwood, House of Cards.

Quote for the day..
"Tell me what you regard as your greatest strength, so I will know how best to undermine you; tell me of your greatest fear, so I will know which I must force you to face; tell me what you cherish most, so I will know what to take from you; and tell me what you crave, so that I might deny you."

-- unknown author

Really says a lot about a D/s relationship. Many will tell you the slave does all the work, and that a master simply sits back and enjoys it.

To those I say stop reading trashy novels. A D/s relationship is a lot of work for both parties, but the rewards are also greater then any vanilla relationship. A master helps his or her slave to be stronger, even while the slave helps the master live better.

Dominance isn't worn like a uniform. It's ingrained in you. It's in your blood. Dominance is about the transfer of power. Being a teacher, a mentor, a protector.

It isn't about tossing orders and being harsh, although that can be a big part of it. It's about knowing what you want, and demanding nothing less.

But to be clear also, what many seem to be looking for is not a master, as much as it is a person to take control, without the care or power exchange. For a power exchange to take place, one must give, and one take. If one takes and gives, it's a relationship.

I read this quote, and thought it worth repeating..

"Being a slave is a choice you make and once you are owned you have no more choices in life."

An interesting quote, and perhaps very true. Yet many will never be able to surrender (or accept the surrender).

No limits slave? A funny term.

A friend of mine once told me about a mistress who met a no limits slave. She stripped him naked, except for a tight fiting pair of underwear, and bound him, and then put him in a box.

She then added a ton of lady bugs to the box. The slave started screaming that the bugs were biting him.

Her reaction? "Then close your mouth before they get inside of your mouth slave"..

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