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shadowdancer777

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If You are one of the internet Domly Doms or creepers looking for free cyber sex or someone to exploit, please move on. i am very serious about my lifestyle choices and do not have time for such nonsense.
***IF you have never been to a munch or lifestyle event and don't know any members of the lifestyle community in real life, then please do not contact me.***

If all of your profile pics are of your dick it is a very safe bet we are not compatible.
i am seeking a long term relationship but my focus is just meeting people in real life for right now. i am a plus size girl (size 18) with long blond hair. i will get photos up as soon as i can locate them on my computer. If i am not fast enough You can check me under the same name on on fet. my face is not in any of my photos due to my job. Be assured there is nothing wrong with my face and if you are a real kinkster living anywhere in the Mid west i can steer you towards someone who can vouch for that.
i am into D/s and Power Exchange. Sex is just icing on the cake. It is the cake that is important to me. If that is not your kink we simply are not going to get on very well so please don't contact me for sex. i enjoy many different kinks, but i don't enjoy them with random people. i need the Domination and energy exchange, and that takes a fairly strong personality with a strong Dominant presence or unique energy. If i don't respect and trust you it is simply not going to happen. i don't do random hook ups, i don't swing, and i don't do cyber slave. Please do not ask. The lifestyle is not exclusively about sex to me. i am not bi but enjoy playing with Female Dominants when the energy is right. Always looking for road trip buddies to events. Hit me up if you are thinking of attending one of the regional events and want to share expenses. Specifically Tryst, St Louis Events, Michigan Events, Chicago Events, MadTown Kinkfest, Columbus Ohio Events, Indy Events. I have been in the lifestyle for over 9 years and know lots of people all over the midwest. If You have been around very long, i probably Know someone who knows You. >>>>What i am looking for >>>>> i added this earlier but it is lost. Due to the limited search fields on this site i feel the need to add this. Photos, i can not show my face in my photos online due to my job. i can send face pics. i do need to have a face to continue any conversations past the initial screening. It is just too hard to talk to someone without a face. (Need photos available) Dom, i am not bi but enjoy playing with Dominants of both sexes. Mean girls have a very unique energy i greatly enjoy. i do not believe a female would be the right partner for me in a ltr relationship. (Play Male or Female Dominant) Age, i have nothing against young Dominants but feel that their life experiences would not match well with mine, in the same vein a Dominant that is much older than i is not likely to have the same activity interests. (age 30-65) Height and weight, i hate to have this issue but it is what it is. i have a hard time with a D/s dynamic with someone shorter than me (including myself in heels) so i need a Dominant taller than myself. Weight is not an issue but mobility is. i am active and have hobbies like camping and hiking. i need a Dom that is able to do those things with me. Health issues apply in the same way. (Height over 5'7" and somewhat physically active) Profile, Must have completed profile. There are thousands of things to consider in a power exchange relationship. If you aren't interested in providing a starting point we probably aren't compatible. (Must have completed profile) Cam, No i am not a sex cam girl. i understand there are sites all over the internet for that. (Not looking for cyber sex) Location, I am looking for someone in my general area. (100 mile radius) i am not interested in a cyber relationship unless i found someone to fill a very small niche i have for a bedtime ritual to help me with my task centering while i am unpartnered. i am also interested in Dominant play partners for area events that may not live near me. (Looking for local Dom or regional event Partner) Events, i like attending many regional events and my outreach would encompass those areas if the Dominant was interested in attending events with me. Those events include, Tryst, Chicago events, St Louis Events, Columbus Ohio events, Michigan events, Indy Events, Wisconsin events, and possibly others. (Want Dom (or just friend) to attend regional events)

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11/28/2016 12:37:15 PM
Only here a couple of weeks and already getting very discouraged with this site. It appears there is very little of the active community here. Many on this site don't even know anything about the active community or rl D/s dynamics. 

It is like someone printed a collarspace link on the back page of "50 Shades of Grey". 

11/12/2016 2:28:27 PM
If you are the kind of person that is going to get all freaked out when i ask you who you know in the community then....

RUN FORREST, RUN

...because i am going to ask!

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FemmeHierarchy
 
 Age: 50
 Edwardsville, Illinois