Call me crazy, but i think that we all in some way connect with an animal, be it a pet or a type of animal we can't help but stop and watch in awe.

My good friend's animal is horses, she is a horse crazy girl (much like myself). They are as much a part of her as her arms and legs. With out horses she would be empty inside.

Her husband's animal is the wolf, a pack hunter with a beauty about them that is mysterous and a sense of honor.

i love all animals, my reason for living is horses, that is my true happiness in life. But my animal however is the tiger. The tiger is in my soul, my cat like nature to my loner state of being.  i am the submissive...

But i am also the tiger. Like those you see jumping and doing tricks that they were taught. You may be mistaken enough to think that those tigers are tamed.  Nobody tames a cat, least of all a tiger.  The tiger can choose to submit, if not only to make their lives easier in captivity. But i can say for sure, that tiger trainer knows that those cats are choosing to do what they do for him, and the second they stop choosing to do so, he could be in a bit of trouble.

Strenght in Honor,
Power in submitting,
Brains in beauty.

~j~

hello again Eeveryone,
i really don't know what to say today, i'm off to a munch sometime today, i'm more of a last min kind of person. oh, look someone is having a get together, sure i'll go.  Most days i a small idea of what i'm doing, but that usually changes at least 5 times before i go off to do things.

i'm really just wanting to go back to bed, had class this morning. like most mornings, i just find it a bit annoying to only have once class today, but i guess i can find more time to study now (heh, and look where i'm at..lol).
Anyway, i'm just floating around some more waiting for something to happen, as in my friends who get to sleep in to wake up. eh.

i don't always have great things to say, today i just feel like sleeping the day away and waking up in time to go out tonight.

~j~

Hello Eeveryone,
Most people take up this space with words to show how disgusted they are with this site and the people they have responding to their profiles or their messages they send out.

This is just my observation after a bit of time here, a short bit. i can say that for the most part i get a verity of people messaging me, and i send out/reply to a verity of messages.

Part of this site, and part of life, is learning to take things with a grain of salt.  Yes, something i am still working on, but none the less important thing to learn sooner rather then later.

i believe or have noticed something that i was taught and believe is true.  You get back what You put out.  (most of the time).  If i wrote how much i hate this or how much i hate that, one might think i am a hateful person, and i would mostly attract hateful people to answer/reply to me.

If i was to be nice, i'd get mainly nice replies; if i was rude, hateful, snide, sweet, relaxed, silly, i'd end up getting all those things back.

Now i shall refer back to my love in life, my passion, horses.  You can go to any hack farm and ride a horse for an hour or two. i do this (used to as of this month) ferquently.  i would go with my friend and we would ride with other groups.  while i was giving her and a few other's pointers on what to do and how to do it so that it would get a postive result.  There will always be one person in the group with a horse that isn't listening to them.

They yell and complain: "This horse won't listen to me!!"

Now these yells and complains make me chuckle, much like the yells and complaints of people on websites like theses.

The horse is an animal, that has a basic mentality.  It is a flight or flight (mainly flight) animal that lives in heards.  That is how they think. If those people would take a moment to look at themselves from the horse's point of view then they would see what the problem is:
Themselves.

They are pulling on the reins, "kick" the horse, off balance, and yelling. If i was a horse, i would do the same thing as their horse and think: "god, why did i have to get this human that doesn't listen to me??"

The point or moral of all this writing is this:
Most the time, when working with a horse or on a "dating" website, it's not the website or the horse that isn't working.
it's You.

~j~