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Pan Female Submissive, 52,  New Jersey
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pic is as of March 2013 ? ? I have been in this lifestyle for many years.? I have met people from all over, and have learned from what I like to call "old school" lifestyle people.? I find it isn't the same as way back.? Dominants aren't the type of Dominants that want to delve into the mind of a woman, who want to know her, know what makes her who she is. Instead they? just look for the next "play" session and who it will be with.? They take a woman make her theirs...and just because they take them to play parties, they label themselves as a Dominant.?? ? That isn't who I am looking for.? I'm a woman who is strong, who wants to be treated as a woman, and desires to be with a Dominant who recognizes that there is more to submission than sex and play.? While I do agree sex, kink and play are things I do want.? It isn't all I want.? I am looking for a connection, chemistry, a relationship.? Someone I can give up control to, and who I can lose any fears or inhibitions to.? I need to be with someone I can place my trust in and doesn't lie to me.? I? want to be used for sex, by someone who wants a relationship, and not just play, I want to be used for my mind and my soul and what I can offer to someone. ? I have no interest in getting to know someone here....who after making somewhat of a connection with me....moves on to add others.? If you say you want to meet me, mean it!? If you say you will meet a man and actually keep the promise to meet, and show up ? I desire to have that intense experience, to be with someone who encourages me, supports me, believes in me, and in return will receive the same. Someone who wants a challenge and challenges me in return, both mentally, emotionally and physically. ? I am a loyal person, with so much spirit.? I love to laugh.? I love museums, walks, picnics, making love outdoors, mostly making someone happy. ? I would also like to meet someone who allows me to be me.? What I mean is this:? Dominants and submissives are WHO WE ARE.? Top and Bottom and BDSM is what we do.? I desire to be in a relationship where I can show my total submissive side, but to also be encouraged to grow in other sides.? I look at play as just that.... play.? There is a big difference between playing with someone just to play, and playing with my Dominant.? I can explain more if we begin to communicate. ? If this interests you at all, please write me.? ? Please respect my preference that I do not wish to become involved with a married man, or attached in any way, even if its an open relationship.? I'm sorry its just my preference ? If you are not from the NE, please skip contacting me.? I don't have an interest in traveling by plane, train or automobile to see my Dominant.? I also do not have interest in a poly relationship of any kind.? I'm far to selfish to share...I will share on occasion if that is what makes my Dominant happy, but only as play, not as a relationship. I can't share attention, feelings or love with any other, and don't want my Dominant to want that either.? I want to be enough for Him. ? I prefer the PA, NJ, DE, NY area.. ? oh one more thing... I just have to say this .....if you have a picture of your cock in your profile...i need to tell you, its a turn off for most women and shows you are interested in only one thing.? For the most part, it doesn't impress us and we won't take you serious.? ? Ok all done.... : ) ? ? ? Thanks for reading.









 Submissive Female

 New Jersey






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

 Lives For:

 Hair Pulling



 Art Galleries

 Fine Dining



 Renaissance Faires

 Anal Play




 Orgasm Denial

 Speech Restrictions

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Amusement Parks

 Coffee Shops

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales

 Musical Theater

 Body Worship

 Breast Play

 Canes and Crops

 Corner Time

 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Fire Play



 Knife Play

 Massage (Getting)

 Massage (Giving)

 Outdoor Bondage

 Public Play

 Role Playing


 Wax play


 Curious About:



 1950s Lifestyle


 Needle Play

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3/2/2013 10:38:33 AM

I am a simple woman, I am not materialistic, I grew up in a simple and normal loving family. We didn't go on vacations, or have the nicest of cars. We shopped at thrift stores sometimes.  My parents did their best to make Christmas' memorable. 


Why am I writing this? Because while i'm human and of course like nice things, I don't "need" them.  I'm not use to luxuries and don't really know what it feels like to have them.  Therefore, it doesn't impress me if you have money and summer homes and fancy cars.  I don't mean to sound this in any other way than to explain that I'd rather be lavished with love and respect and honesty.  i'd rather know i'm appreciated for what I do for someone and the dedication I give.  I'd rather be the only one in a crowded room that you see.

Just a little PSA....




1/11/2012 8:25:44 PM




I might not be someone's first choice, But I am a great choice. I may not be rich but I am valuable. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm good at being me. I might not be proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I am proud of who I am today. I may not be perfect but I don't need to be. Take me as I am, or watch me as I walk away!!!



7/10/2011 3:26:19 PM



Why is it, that I have to prove I am submissive  and 100% sending naked pics of myself while conversing with someone for less than two weeks, someone I never met in person yet?  I guess I was just taught differently years ago.  I was taught you don't just submit because someone asks and because its what they want and expect.  Am I wrong here? 

7/7/2011 4:07:13 AM

July 7, 2011

Ok , this has to be said, its not pleasant but, I'm saying it anyway.


I will not engage in a sexual fantasy over the internet, at least not in the first several conversations.

I will not send you a picture of my body naked, or any body parts, until I trust you.

I will not give trust and submit to you during the first conversation, you have no right to command anything, or administer any sort of punishment when we haven't even met in person.


My fetishes are listed in my profile, that should tell you what I am into.  I don't mind talking about the likes and dislikes but I'm not going to engage in a demonstration over the internet during our first chats , if thats what you want, look for a prosub....


If you don't want to know about me, my childhood, my favorite color, what I like to do, my favorite movies, where I like to go, my family, my friends at first, then you don't get to know anything else about me.


I will talk the D/s aspect M/s aspect until I"m blue in the face.  While I am very sexual, it isn't all I want, those conversations will definitely come,but  not during our first chat, sorry


Gosh there is soooo much I have to offer and so much to me.  Why do some Dominants male or female feel the need to use someone without owning them, its hurtful....


ok thats it

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