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Female Submissive, 71, daytona area, Florida
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Female Submissive, 47, Manhattan, New York
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About sensualdom101
I want to be honest up front: I am married and looking for a woman to be my "slave on the side." I am happy with and very much love my wife, but she is simply not interested, nor really capable, of giving me the submission I crave from a woman. This is not something she can give me and I understand and respect that. Yet, I am not willing to sacrifice the love, happiness, companionship and great vanilla sex I have with her. I want and need a woman that I can, at least while in scene, possess, control, bind, discipline, and call my slave. While my wife would prefer otherwise, we have spent endless hours over many years discussing this and I enter this search with her knowledge and assent.
Therefore, I am seeking an ongoing, but occasional, Dominant/submissive relationship with an attractive, feminine, relatively hwp, intelligent, sensuous and sexy submissive woman. There is definitely room for romance in the relationship I seek, but not the kind of love I share with my wife.
I am 41, attractive, hwp, physically active, in good health, in a professional occupation, financially secure, highly educated, intelligent, fun, playful, affectionate, caring, have a good sense of humor, interested in wide variety of intellectual and cultural pursuits, am worldly and well informed. I am a happy person, sane and emotionally well balanced.
As a Dom, I am strict yet compassionate. For me, it is the exchange of power, a woman's surrender, her gift of herself to my control that makes BDSM so powerfully erotic. I am not a sadist who gets into administering pain for its own sake, yet consider infliction of pain through corporal punishment one of several tools a Dom has in training and disciplining his submissive. I believe that there is nothing more physically beautiful than to see a woman in bondage whether by rope, leather restraints or chains. In addition to these things, I enjoy certain types of role play games, domestic service, sexual service, and sexual teasing. Above all, I crave the feeling of possessing and controlling a woman who has given herself over to me for the duration of a scene.
In a submissive, I am seeking a woman between 21-45, who is intelligent, highly sexual, feminine and attractive. Attractiveness is a very subjective quality and I find many types of woman physically attractive. Nothing is more important in this respect than the chemistry we feel when we are together. You do not necessarily need to be exactly height/weight proportionate, but I have not ever found myself attracted to a woman who would be considered obese. Intelligence in a woman is very important to me. You need not be formally educated, but should be someone who can engage in intelligent conversation, has somewhat sophisticated tastes, and is interested in the world around you. Femininity in a submissive is important to me - there should be something sweet, soft and vulnerable about you. At least in my presence, you will be the kind of woman who has a feminine hairstyle, wears make-up, wears dresses or skirts (never pants), feminine lingerie and heels (when you are allowed to wear clothes at all, that is).
If you are interested in an ongoing but occasional D/s relationship, write to me and tell me about yourself: about yourself as a person apart from your interests in BDSM as well as your BDSM interests and experience; and about what you are seeking in a BDSM relationship and from your Dom. We will start off chatting and getting to know each other a bit by IM or e-mail. If that goes well, we will arrange a meeting over coffee, and if we find that we have the kind of chemistry that makes us want to pursue things further, we can spend some time getting to know each other and take it from there.
This sort of situation would probably best work with a woman who is also in a committed relationship with a vanilla partner. It might also be a good arrangement for a woman who is new to real life BDSM, wishes to taste the feeling of giving herself to a Dominant and would be interested in training with an experienced Master, but is not ready to jump into a committed D/s relationship. |
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