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Male Dominant, 40, Southeastern, Massachusetts
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Male Dominant, 43, hartford, Connecticut
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Male Submissive, 69, NYC, New York
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About SeeksKindredSoul
This is long but I want you to understand where I am coming from.
Is it just me or does it seem the world is pretty fucked up?
Everyone declares their right to pursue happiness and yet so few are
actually happy. We work harder than ever but seem to have less and
less, both materially and emotionally. Everyone has their hand out (or
in your pocket) wanting to "get paid" and yet no one will take
responsibility for themselves, let alone others. Single mothers,
dead-beat dads, masculinized women and man-boy slackers abound.
Something has gone seriously wrong with our lives... but what? I
have an answer. One word: feminism.
For as long as I can remember, the message that men and women
are "equal" has been drummed into our heads. Men are told they
are oppressors and are unneeded in a womans life (except perhaps
as a sperm donor). Is in any wonder then that so many men are
irresponsible and indecisive? Women are told that they can "have it
all" and "be it all" without a man. Do you know any women that do
or are? Me neither.
All of this is a grand lie, a hoax, a ponzi scheme that promises a big
payoff but leaves you bankrupt, and we are its victims. The proof is
the wreckage that lies before us. Like a killer tornado, feminism has
torn though society destroying everything in its wake.
The argument that men and women are "equal" is absurd and,
frankly, if you disagree then you have never met a person of the
opposite gender. Men and women have different body chemistries,
different hormones, even their minds work differently. They are not
designed to be the same but to "complement" one another, together
creating one whole.
Do not confuse this with misogyny. I do not hate women any more
than I hate my feet or hands. But I don't want to live my life opening
pasta sauce jars with my feet and walking on my hands. As hands
and feet were designed for different roles, so too were man and
woman. Fotunately, hands and feet do not have independent wills. A
woman, however, does; and that will must be broken and subsumed.
And so I seek a kindred spirit who, like me, longs for a return to a
time when a man vowed to cherish, protect and keep his woman and
she in turn vowed to love, honor and obey him.
Where a man takes responsibility: he provides for his woman, he
protects her, he cherishes her love and commitment to him, and,
when he deems, corrects and disciplines her (without fear of the
legal system intervening)
Where a woman serves her man, not because he has beaten her
into submission, but because it is her deepest wish to do so:
because she respects him and honors him and sees herself as an
extension of him.
Where a man's home was his castle, where his word was his bond
and his word was law. Where father knew best and he ruled his
household with loving but absolute authority. Where his decisions and
discipline were accepted with grace and gratitude.
You may call me a dreamer and say that I fantasize about a world
that never was. That may be true, but in my soul I know that I am not
alone and that many women, even if perhaps secretly, long for the
same things. If you're out there, I hope to find you.
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If you haven't run away yet, a bit about me:
I am old enough that I have had the time to consider life and know
exactly what it is I want. My age brings experience (yes, this is not my
first rodeo), knowledge, patience and both emotional and financial
stability.
I am 5'9', 152 lbs and am in excellent physical condition (I do 300 push
ups a day). I proudly have worn the same pant size I have since my 20s
(31-32 depending on the cut and whether or not it's after the holidays)
and I have all my hair. I do have a full beard which I hope is not a
problem for you. Before I grew my beard I was often told that I looked
like a cross between Richard Gere and Bruce Willis. Frightening, I know
(LOL) but most women seem to find me attractive. Personally, I don't
see the comparison but...
Do not misunderstand anything I said above to mean that I am a softy or
that I am just trifling on the fringes. I am neither. I am 100% Alpha Male;
strict, demanding and always in control. TPE control. I am fully capable
of and willing to use, um, stern measures but I also understand that the
true eroticism of a D/s relationship is in the mind
I am thoroughly experienced in the administration of various corrective
measures, including the application of pain and will not hesitate to employ
whatever techniques I deem necessary for training, punishment or simply
to remind a woman of her place in the order of things. Being experienced
means I know how far to push the envelope.
Discretion is an absolute must. No, I am not married, but my position in
society requires that I proceed with a modicum of caution. This means
two things:
First, I will not provide you a picture of my face until I am comfortable
with your sincerity. Let me say that again: not until I am comfortable
and not just because you are and certainly not after just our first
conversation. If you cannot trust me for now that I am a decent looking
fellow without scars or disfigurements then, no offense taken or meant,
but I think you need to move on.
Second, if we connect, outside the home we must appear to everyone
as perfectly "normal." You must be the absolute model of modesty and
propriety. Like they say, "what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas." If e
xhibitionism is a deal-breaker for you then, no offense taken or meant,
but I think you need to move on.
I am not looking for chat sex, phone sex or cam sex or "hook ups".
Those are fine as long as they are leading somewhere. I am looking for
a committed long term relationship. If you are not, please move on.
I don't expect you to be "model beautiful" but I am seeking someone
who is at least reasonably attractive and reasonably fit. Looks do matter
-- up to a point -- no matter what anyone says. I generally prefer
women/girls around my age or younger but I would certainly consider
someone not too much older. I will consider women regardless of their
experience, both having their advantages.
That's all I can think of for now. I will add more if it occurs to me. Please
feel free to ask me any questions.
A final note: CM is, unfortunately, chock full of fakers, frauds and posers,
particularly men pretending to be women (still can't figure how that gives
someone their jollies, but...). That being said, if we do connect, I WILL
ask you to establish your bona fides. If that is going to be a problem
for you, you need to move on.
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