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Released from my collar by my Mistress due to life issues She was encountering. I am back to seeking a long-term relationship with a dominant female.

Ultimately I may be seeking the elusive holy grail of a complete relationship with a woman who enjoys her dominance but who also wants a partner in daily life. My nature is that I am typically a very assertive male in my daily life, but very much enjoy deferring to a dominant woman in my private life. I believe the people I have served in the past would tell you that I am very dedicated, and very focused on their pleasure. I do as I am told and do not try to top from the bottom. In the past I have negotiated limits up front and then explored as my Mistress has deemed appropriate.

I am educated and professionally successful. I enjoy my life and feel that I have much to offer the right woman. I do have children from my previous marriage and am a dedicated father, but still have plenty of room and time in my life to dedicate to the service of a dominant woman.

I am someone who enjoys travel, conversation, dining, walking/hiking, reading, and many other activities. I enjoy being active, but also love to spend a nice quiet evening on the sofa with a partner, a movie, and a bottle of wine. I lead a busy professional and personal life, but also have plenty of room in my life to spend with a partner.

Ultimately, my limits and interests will be compatible with Her wishes. I do have a few limits, but will not outline my interests and limits here. This is not about my laundry list - it is about service, and I am highly attuned to this reality.
I make a good salary but am NOT a millionaire, and am not looking to support someone outside of the context of a 24/7 relationship. I have commitments each month that must be met, but after that I am very comfortable with my partner having the final say over any expenditures. Ideally, the woman I serve will also be a professional, and will enjoy what she does, whether or not she makes a lot of money.

I have had two relationships with women exploring their dominance, and am ready to commit myself to the permanent service of a woman. I believe I can be molded to meet your needs and wishes.

I am currently residing in Illinois, though am also exploring professional opportunities for relocation. Thus, if you are relocatable, it does not matter to me where you currently are if you have an interest - please feel free to contact me. For the right person and situation, I may remain in Illinois, but have a preference to move to the east coast.

Finally, please note that I am in the midst of a lifestyle change in terms of my exercise and food intake. I am losing weight and making good progress, but still need to lose about 50 or so pounds before I will be comfortable with my weight and my appearance. I am hoping to meet someone willing to get to know me while I complete this process... I don't believe that you will be disappointed.

I hope I have provided a decent look into who and what I am. I am serious about this lifestyle and know that I cannot move backwards into "vanilla" relationships again. I seek the guidance and training of a dominant woman and vow to put my best efforts into being the best servant possible. While I am a believer in general female supremacy, what is more important is your supremacy over me.

A final thought... this profile has been about me because I am trying to create a portrait of the type of servant I will be for the right dominant woman. I fully respect that this relationship will be focused on Her needs and what I can do to please Her, both in "vanilla" and lifestyle aspects. Although I am not "alpha", I am very assertive... I am no doormat. The woman who selects me as her slave will be choosing to own a complete and very healthy person.

I wish you success in your search, and hope to hear from the right woman.