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Male Switch, 50, Barns, New Jersey
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Male Submissive, 45
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Dominant Couple, 45, Glen Head, New York
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About Seekfirmbutfair
This life is about trust. To give yourself to another you need to trust them. I don't trust easily. I've been hurt too many times and deceived.
I am large, I won't hide that. But I can and will get slimmer.
I'm single and looking but have no expectations. I don't believe you can have kink without vanilla. I believe that there is a dom out there for me who I will devote my life to making happy.
Come talk to me if you want to learn the sub behind the size |
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No longer looking. Very happy with my life |
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Recent events have made me see quite clearly that I'm really not sure what I seek anymore. I am open to conversations but not looking to meet anyone... |
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This weekend I have been incredibly lazy. I am appalled by just how lazy. But I have found the person meant to make me a better me and for once the weight on my shoulders does not feel so heavy. |
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My favourite day of the year and it's never seemed so lonely |
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Sometimes in life you just need a rolo |
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Time heals all wounds, it also brings new ones with it. Recently fell for a Dom way too fast and got hurt when he rejected me. Rejection - if you attempt to do it with silence therefore taking the easy route, don't .... It's not fair on anyone.... Honesty will rip a person to shreds but once it's done the healing begins. Silence just lets things fester. |
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Currently in the land of naff wi fi |
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A little hurt by a friend. ..... |
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Starting to wonder if my potential dom is just fantasy. |
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Seeing how things go with a potential dom so just here to chat to friends. |
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Unhappy and shattered. And wishing the particular friend I need to lean on would get in touch. |
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One day I might find a decent dom instead of getting a casual dismissal. |
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Ratty - I am truly sorry for being the nightmare pain from hell. I realise that I have lost you as my friend and that there's nothing I can do to get you back. Be safe, healthy and happy. |
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What do you do when you feel like you've messed up so completely and there's no way to come back from it? |
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