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Seekfirmbutfair

Male Switch, 50, Barns, New Jersey
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Dominant Couple, 45, Glen Head, New York
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About Seekfirmbutfair

This life is about trust. To give yourself to another you need to trust them. I don't trust easily. I've been hurt too many times and deceived.

I am large, I won't hide that. But I can and will get slimmer.

I'm single and looking but have no expectations. I don't believe you can have kink without vanilla. I believe that there is a dom out there for me who I will devote my life to making happy.

Come talk to me if you want to learn the sub behind the size
No longer looking. Very happy with my life
Recent events have made me see quite clearly that I'm really not sure what I seek anymore. I am open to conversations but not looking to meet anyone...
This weekend I have been incredibly lazy. I am appalled by just how lazy. But I have found the person meant to make me a better me and for once the weight on my shoulders does not feel so heavy.
My favourite day of the year and it's never seemed so lonely
Sometimes in life you just need a rolo
Time heals all wounds, it also brings new ones with it. Recently fell for a Dom way too fast and got hurt when he rejected me. Rejection - if you attempt to do it with silence therefore taking the easy route, don't .... It's not fair on anyone.... Honesty will rip a person to shreds but once it's done the healing begins. Silence just lets things fester.

Currently in the land of naff wi fi

A little hurt by a friend. .....

Starting to wonder if my potential dom is just fantasy. 

Seeing how things go with a potential dom so just here to chat to friends. 

Unhappy and shattered. And wishing the particular friend I need to lean on would get in touch. 

One day I might find a decent dom instead of getting a casual dismissal. 

Ratty - I am truly sorry for being the nightmare pain from hell. I realise that I have lost you as my friend and that there's nothing I can do to get you back. Be safe, healthy and happy. 

What do you do when you feel like you've messed up so completely and there's no way to come back from it?

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