Looking for like-minded individuals or couples to join us in play.

We are open to most kinks. We enjoy watching others play as well. 

Open to most dynamics, however do read both our profiles. I (as in scrat) will not submit to anyone but the Master. However I am open to topping another submissive. The Master is always open to play with other submissive’s.  We are also open to couples that just wish to enjoy our company and do their own kink while we do our kink in the same play space.

Our play is often sexual, well hell the play space is our bedroom.  However there are some limitations on the sexual side. It’s certainly not a free for all if that is what you are looking for.

If you are a female submissive wanting to serve the Master contact him directly.  

If you are a submissive male wanting to serve me contact me. I personally don’t want to hear that you are good at eating pussy etc etc since that is not what I am looking for. If I am going to play with someone its strictly power exchange etc.

We enjoy good wine and decent food.  Often open to a meal first. Pot luck dinners before the evening starts are a good way to relax and allow everyone to get into the head space.

To be considered contact either of us and arrange a coffee or wine somewhere in the middle of the traveling distance for both parties.  When you contact please state what you are looking for and what you can offer in exchange. 

Sorry no scat, blood or sharps.

No smokers.

We do have a private play space which is very well equipped.  Please ensure if you are contacting us that this is not the only reason…. We are not *dial a dungeon*.

Yes we can accommodate, but in saying that there needs to be an exchange where we are not always the ones providing the play area.  There is a considerable amount of effort and work that goes into putting on play evenings so the workload needs to be shared around and not always fall on us.  Maybe once in a while if you cannot accommodate you offer dinner out or maybe a hotel room. 

Looking for honest people, we will NOT consider anyone who is playing behind their partners back. If you can lie to your life partner about where you are going you can lie to us about stuff as well without hesitation.

If you have your partners consent to play we would be wanting to meet your partner for coffee from time to time to ensure everyone is still happy. 

We are looking for a real time play partner/s…. We are not interested in online or webcam

You must be unattached, your attachments just bring drama no matter how cool they are with you playing.  So even if your vanilla partner *knows* about your kink life please do not contact us.

We are NOT looking for a live-in-slave. 

You must be mature, if you are younger in age but can act like an adult we will consider you.  However it would be a matter of you proving it.

A sub/sub couple would be considered. 

Switches can apply as long as they are very clear that they will not switch with us.

If a single male or single female: be ready to play with BOTH of us.

Scrat is a BBW so if you have a problem with size do not apply.  

Limits are respected, we will respect yours and expect you to respect ours.

You will have to complete a BDSM checklist/BDSM yes-no list. 

Play can be varied, we have a dungeon to play in… but at times we may wish to visit your play space/home. So do not apply if you think that being our play partner means you do not have to host anytime.  Of course most do not have a play room but an invitation for coffee/dinner would be acceptable. Let’s be honest you would be visiting our home regularly so we would expect to be welcome in your home as friends as well. We do know how to behave!

Coming to play at our dungeon means you are prepared to be here in time to help set up and then after play clean up.  Scrat is not going to setup and clean up after you.  More hands means less work for all. If you want to just walk in and play and then walk out see a pro… it’s what you pay for.

Play can be intermingled with dinners and outings.  A lot can happen over a meal.

Check out our profiles, we DO NOT DO scat, needles or blood play.  We will not change our minds on these.

We are also happy to hear from like-minded couples who wish to work together to develop on-going friendships and enjoy play parties.   Read our profiles for more information.

Common Bonds April munch is coming up on the 21 April 2013

Location is only available to the group listing as usual

Munch date for September 2012 is the 30th..

usual stuff those on the yahoo lsiting get the address and time.

If you are not a member the details of the location will not be available.

If you wish to join Common Bonds just ask, be advised that if you do not attend munches you will be deleted from the group. We do not allow trolls to sit on the group listing.

We may wish to met you for coffee if you apply to us to join Common Bonds, yup we check out that you are a real person not someone hiding in cyberspace............

The munch date is set for July, Sunday the 22nd of July.

This is the munch for the South Auckland group of Common Bonds.

Contact Scratte for details if you are not already a member since the location and time is only sent to members.

Lovely setting for a chat/drink/meal.

We also change location often. It makes it more interesting for the attendees.

For the members of the Common Bonds Group there is a munch this Saturday.

The location of the munch has been sent to the members of the yahoo listing.

Looking forward to catching up again with our friends this weekend.

http://www.xtranormal.com/watch/8325689/the-meeting

this is not new but really good

“ Its the mad month of May so join us for a drink”

Service submissive required

We are looking for a service sub to train for our use in our dungeon.

Attention to detail is required.

You will need to be older than 25 years of age, apart from that age is not too much of a issue.

Have your own transport so you can visit and be employed.

You will need to visit at least once a week on either evenings or weekends as arranged.

Play and outings are available.

Once you have proven yourself to be trust worthly in both behaviour and honesty a lot can happen.

If you have used pro-dommes in the past, do not apply since we are not going to replace your paid entertainment.

Apply to Scrat in a PM explaining your past experiences and include an explanation of what you consider service.

(Only submissives able to regularly visit need apply, we do not do long distance or online play)

Aprils Munch date has been set, a change of location will also be in place for this munch

Details will be sent via the yahoo listiing to list members in due course.

The date for the March Munch has been set and will be sent with the location to all the yahoo list members.

So if you are already on the yahoo listing you will be receiving the details early next week for the location and time.

If you wish to join in with the munch just contact us and we will give you the link to join the yahoo group.

Its a South Auckland group, but in saying that we have members who travel large distances at times to enjoy a drink. So if a friendly munch is what you are after check out the Common Bonds Munch sometime soon

There will be a munch for Common Bonds in February...

Date is 19th of February

Details of location and time will be sent to the yahoo list members in due course as usual

We will be attending this munch since the hay is in,,,.

Since December is already here we will not do a munch this month. People are having to cope with the xmas pressure and family demands. Not to mention work do's for some. We want to wish all a merry xmas and a great new year..........

Munches will recommence in January 2012. With the warmer summer months skill shares will be arranged. Only those who are WELL known and regular attendees at munches will be admitted to the skill shares.

This is to ensure the security and privacy of those attending. So I strongly suggest some on the listing who have not yet attended any munches decide if they are really want to be involved in the get togethers.

Have a great xmas everyone.

Common Bonds had its monthly munch today and it was enjoyed by all. Still considering the December timetable to see if we can fit in another one before the New Year.

Common Bonds Munch will be held on the 22 October 2011, this is a Saturday and there is a venue change so you do not get bored.

Details will be sent of the location to the list members in due course.

Common Bonds South Auckland Munch for September will be held on the 25 September 2011..

Information regarding the location, time etc will be emailed to the list membership.

Remember we will be arranging skill sharing in the warmer months ahead, only those well known and regular attendees at the munches will be able to attend.

So to enjoy the summer months get along to the munches now, if you want more details of how to contact the Common Bonds group just read down the profile for the link.

Well everyone, the gossip is true we have been outed by NZ Scene people.

People who have in the past eaten our food, sat on our deck, called us late at night for so called emergencies.. wow what an emergency.. you wanted instruction on how to do a medical process that you lot had no business even attempting.. as I advised you.. why the fuck that was an emergency I will never know, oopps you wanted something so it was an emergency…I do wonder if you took the advice and backed off or went ahead with that one?

 You have called our home phone, you have called our mobile to trace us even when the children had already told you that we were out.. but your needs must be met immediately even by people you haven’t contacted in a very long time unless you consider the whinging emails via collarme….god forbid we wouldn’t turn the car around to go home to sort your shit.

Now you use your employment to amount an attack against our family, stupid people you thought you couldn’t be identified. Well there is a fuck load about us that you do not know, bugger, in the past I have spent years locating people who do not want to be found, years tracing so-called untraceable informants so the courts could do their job. So best you sit back and think that maybe there is a lot that you do not know about us.

I WILL SPELL IT OUT, YOU HAVE TRIED TO THREATENED OUR HOME and that means a threat against our family.

You are disgusting lowlifes, and those that hang on your coat tails best be aware these were people who tried to be-friend us, so if you are their friends I suggest you probably best stay their friends if you value your family’s safety.

Note: we were never friends, we held them at a distance since we had feelings that alerted us to the fact these were not people we wanted to spend time with…. Is that the crime you felt needed justice for? People keeping their distance………….

Bugger you really didn’t think very far past I will get them for not allowing me to do what I want how dare they say no to what I want.

This started in your place of employment by your own actions. …….. who did this, who brought the world of BDSM to your employment … OPPS YOU..

I know there are a number of kinkys pissed off by your actions, well guess what there are a large number of vanillas who also enjoy our home really fucked off by your actions.

OOPPPSSS you did not really think that people did not know about this, hell the number of vanillas that have carried items right into the Kottage, opps where were the drinks on xmas day........... vanillas and kinkys in the Kottage laughing and enjoying the family time.....

 bugger you thought it was a secret did you? What did you think to achieve, the packing away of our gear, not likely…………. We just took the official you had knock on our door right thru the Kottage.

We happily educated him to what kink was and that what happened in our home and how we decorate our home is our business. Guess what he agreed and called you lot GUT LESS BASTARDS

The next South Auckland Munch for Common Bonds will be held on the 23 July 2011.

Details of location and time will be emailed to all the list members in due course.

If you are going to contact us about serving or meeting us please take the time to introduce yourself.

We are not going to spend time with people who do not wish to communicate.

So think about what you want and express it, describe your experiences. What you liked or disliked. We are not mind readers and do not have time to waste asking the same questions over and over.

So INTRODUCE yourself.

hhhmm the group can be located by this link

http://groups.yahoo.com/groups/CommonBondsnz

We have created a yahoo group in an attempt to arrange munches for South Auckland people so they have less distance to travel to meet other BDSM people in their area

CommonBondsnz at yahoo

When membership grows munches will be arranged, although at the moment low key dates will be set for having coffees etc at local locations.

Drury which is close to the main Southern Motorway will be the first area to have drinks at. When the group gathers a few members suggestions as to other locations will be welcomed

Since we can't block some people viewing our profile we have removed all content to protect our privacy.

We will respond to private messages only..