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About ScrnNm4Info
ISO compassionate Dom male. Educated, secure,stable, and of the understanding that a lady needs discipline to retain her character. Not into torture or humiliation. Not seeking to relocate or become a 24/7 slave. Spanking, paddling, toys, a strict disciplinarian is a must. Seeking longterm descreet friendship with fringe benefits.
I am a novice sub. Have yet to meet a Dom. Very picky as I am seeking trust, honesty and a willing disciplinarian. He must enjoy an intellectually equal yet, eager student. To become a better person thru discipline is what I seek. Intercourse and toys a plus.
I am an intellgent stable woman. Long blonde , blue eyes, slim..a bit deviant, and defiant..which I hope you will help me overcome. |
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Took a much needed break. Began a short term relationship that went nowhere. For all those out there even remotely interested in me, please take me seriously when i say i am NOT interested in becoming a slave, becoming a 3rd wheel or hiding from your wife. Honesty , that is my policy....what i seek is in my profile....if we are not a match and you are looking for someone to live in your basement, it's not me. i am sure you have points you will not waiver on.....these are mine.....i am seeking a well educated, secure man that is interested in my mind as well as my body. An intellegent conversation goes well with a night of fun.....if you disagree...pls don't try and sway me. |
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Still trying to get back on track. i am still seeking tho i have had some good contacts. i just seem to tired to keep up. i am going to take a little break in my search and focus on the office(which is in dire need of paperwork attention). Seems i have spread myself a little thin and need to recouperate. i hope anyone interested can understand that a break is a good thing. Hopefully it will refresh me. |
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I am writing this so all who think I have been slacking in my repsonses will understand. I recently got back from a 10 day business trip. I thought I had jet lag when infact I have the flu. I am hoping to feel up to par shortly. I am sorry for the delays. |
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All I want for Christmas is my new Dom.....I have been very nice this year.....well...mostly nice(smile). Are there no potential Dom's out there that appreciate a sub with intellect? I seek a Dom not only for sexual pleasure and servitude but, also an intellgent secure man I can just plain have fun with. I have been lucky enough to find some wonderful contacts that have developed into online friendships but, alas...no Dom. I am begining to think the Jax area has little to offer and I may have to travel to find what I seek :(. I was really hoping to find a local Dom. That would be wonderful. Someone to meet for coffee or a show as well as extracirricular activities :).......well the search continues... Maybe if I am really good I will find one before the New Year. To all those that are seeking.....I wish you well....to all those who have found.....Damn, I am jealous.....LOL. Seriously....Happy Holidays to all and Don't drink and drive. |
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Tis the season......yes I am happy....no I haven't found a Dom. Unfortunately just seasonal joy. But seriously....I have met some amazing people thru Collar....being so busy this time of year is not the best time to choose a Dom to petition either. I am continuing to make contacts. Some of whom I hope to kindle frienships with. Like minded people are always the best to be around(smile). I am hoping that maybe next month I will have time to attend a munch. Diversity......that is what I find in this community....so many interpretations on this or that type of relationship. I have found some Dom's very much enjoy an intellegent confidant sub...then others are threatened by that......I just think that no matter what type of relationship you have...it has to be a mutually pleasurable one. I am also hoping to find my happiness with a Dom....not finding only his. Some think I am arrogant...for this....I apologise...It is not my intention. I happen to be a staright forward kind of gal...honest, open and like to use my mind. There is quite a difference between Domineering and Dominating...I find anyway....open to friendships as well as potential Dom's....Happy Holidays....I hope you get what you want for Christmas. (SMILE).
Jan |
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Word of caution to all subs seeking a Dom. If you are approached by a man from St. Augustine Fl. that claims to be x military, unmarried and the owner of a construction company.......run. I don't think this man would know the truth if it hit him in the face. Lies are easily found out and very hard to keep. I got a very good piece of advice tonite that I would like to share.....If a Dom finds his control in domineering instead of Dominating...the only happiness you will find is his. I continue to seek, happily. One quick note...I seek a Dominate/submissive relationship...not...a Dominate/slave relationship. Respect for my mind is as important as respect for my desires. If you are a Dom that is threatened by an intellegent submissive,........no response neccessary. |
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Typical response..again. He is not married and owns a company...Reality is...he is married w/ 3 kids. Works construction...all which wouldn't matter had he been honest. Sadly I continue to seek an HONEST Dom. I am in no hurry as the right choice does take more time. I am encouraged by a few upstanding members of this community. Otherwise I am slammed with the rest. It is hard to see who is real and who isn't. I am looking forward to becoming a member of my local community and the success of finding my Dom will go hand in hand with that. Until then I patiently wait...in the corner if you request.....:) |
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I have met a few really interesting people during my journey into this lifestyle. These people I would like to thank for thier advise and honesty. I am still seeking the right Dom for me. I am sure someday I will find him or him me. I am looking forward to finding even more friends within this community. Like minded people if you may. On the other hand.....many Dom's that contact me are either married and looking for an affair or the value of honesty has completely passed over their heads. It seems silly to me that these people think begining a relatioship on lies would result in anything other than disappointment.....I certainly am not one to judge but, being a liar is NOT a quality I seek nor can I respect someone that bases a relationship on them. A bit of advise if I may.......all lies will be found out at one time or another. Why not just be honest so as to leave the door open for the most important aspect of this lifestyle.......trust. How can you expect a sub to have any respect, honor or trust for you when you begin with a lie. I am not seeking to become the "other" woman, unless of course she is aware of it. If you are married...say so. Anything can be overcome with honesty. |
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Disappointment is where I am now. I have had another vanilla meeting with another propective Dom. Unfortunately he seemed preoccupied with his needs and wants and wasn't interested in the least of my desires. I seek a Dom that is confident enough to allow negotiation of scenes and understands that trust and obidience is earned....not given at the drop of a hat. Thru this journal I hope to show that I am an eager worthy sub, not desperate and comfortable with taking my time to find the right Dom. Not every Dom is suited for every Sub. Mutual gratification is what I am looking for. I will continue to seek for the right Dom and hope that the right Dom will continue to seek me :). I am a novice sub with much information and no experience. Therefore I seek an experienced Dom to guide and guard me thru the future. I am also seeking like minded people in my area to associate with. |
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My first experience.....he is a nice guy, I like him but, he is definately not a Dom. :(. Are there any REAL Doms out there in NE Florida? I know there is a Dom at the end of this rainbow. Seek and Ye shall find is not really working for me at the moment. However, I will continue my search and believe the best will come. Here we go again:
I am a novice but eager SUB. I would say I am a Natural Sexual Submissive with definate SAMmy tendecies. A bottom for sure. Seeking the right Dom for LTR...not live in, not 24/7....a friend with fringe benefits you might say. Until then.....I wait patiently... |
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I have yet to find my Dom. It's is sad but true. While seeking my Dom I have dona alot of homework into the D/s lifestyle. I can say that I am a Sexual Submissive Natural Sub , with SAMmy tendencies(smile). See....I told you I have dome my homework. I am seeking a secure intellegent Dom who can see me as his intellectual equal while guiding me with discipline and helping me find and follow my limits. I hope to find a Dom that can guide and guard me through the future. Although I am a novice sub, I am an eager sub. |
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BTW I am having difficulty adding pics, I will figure it out tho. |
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11/12/03 I have met alot of very interesting people on this site. Many I will keep contact with and some I may not. I am happy to report that I may have found my Dom. Being a novice it is hard to jump into a descion. I want my fisrt to be my last.
I am hesitant to meet. A little affraid. I must say that some of you scare me too. LOL....any suggestions for a novice , should she choose to meet her first Dom, would be much appreciated.
Remember, I said, I may have........
Still looking as no contract has been signed |
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