I'm still to work out where i fit into this all. I have only ever had one true BDSM experience. It was the most exciting, thrilling and exhilarating experience i have ever had. I am forever grateful the the lady that teased out the confession of my dark secrets. If I have viewed you site and not sent a message its probably because there's a lack of courage when it comes to typing any type of correspondence.
For as long as i can remember i have been fascinated by human nature. I enjoy knowing how people work. This is even evident through my choice of lifestyle as a restaurant manager. I am looking for a foot up as they say so please get in touch if you are willing to help a lost and confused kinky person with no one to speak too.
The longer i look the more difficult it becomes. I'm losing faith and considering going back to hiding there feelings and getting on with it!!!! is that a good idea??!!!

In real life i love to surf. Its not the most convenient of hobbies and there is only limited oppertunity. There isn't many breaks in the center of Scotland. Otherwise i'm into music, playing and listening. I have a love for food as i worked in the restaurant for may years. I enjoy eating good food and drinking the best drink. I love wine and have a knowledge of cocktails and mixology. I have had an upbringing in the countryside so love to spend many hours outside. If there is anything else you would like to know about my vanilla life or otherwise please just ask. Oh I also have a strong appreciation for pencil skirts!!!!!