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Hetero Male Switch, 61,  Williamsburg, Virginia
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subdonna2008 LadyChallene serenity4celine buxombitch

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Last Online:


 Male Switch



 Willing to Relocate

 5' 8"

 182 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Female

Submissive Female

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Sub/Sub Couples

Femdom Couples

Friends Only

Online Romance

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Museums (Expert)

 Anal Play (Expert)

 Body Worship (Expert)

 Breast Binding/Play (Expert)

 Massage (Getting) (Expert)

 Queening (Expert)

 Strap-Ons/Packers (Expert)

 Historical Shows (Expert)

 Cooking (Expert)

 History (Expert)

 Classical Music


 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Fishing (Expert)

 CBT (Expert)

 Corsets (Beginner)

 Fire Play


 Leashes (Beginner)


 Orgasm Control (Beginner)


 Cybering (Expert)

 Writing (Expert)

 Female Supremacy

 Lifestyle BDSM (Beginner)

 Folk Music

 Rock Music


 Movies (Expert)

 Shopping (Expert)



 Canes and Crops (Beginner)

 Chastity (Beginner)




 Foot Worship

 Massage (Giving) (Expert)

 Medical Play

 Role Playing


 Watersports / Toilet (Beginner)

 Alternative Music


 Country Music


 Housework (Expert)

 Gardening (Beginner)

 Low Carb

 Curious About:

 Blindfolds (Beginner)


 Corner Time

 Local BDSM Community



 Masks (Wearing)

 Mental Bondage

 No Strings Housework (Beginner)

 Obedience Training

 Outdoor Bondage

 Plastic Wrap

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Serving as a Maid/Butler (Beginner)


 Vacuum Stimulation

 Wax play (Beginner)

 1950s Household

 Cuckolding (Beginner)

 Old Guard


 Victorian Household


 Travel (Expert)

 Electrical Play


 Hard Limits:


 Gas Masks

 Knife Play

 Needle Play

 Gorean Lifestyle


 Hip Hop Music


 Gourmet Cook

 Professional Chef

Profile updated June 27, 2011   I am looking for a local play partner who is fun and discreet. I'm looking for a kinky Mistress or submissive or a switch. I am attracted to someone who knows what she wants and can play in the Williamsburg/Richmond/Hampton Roads area.   There are some people on this site who can't remember when there wasn't an internet. I have lived a long time, fought in two wars and finished a twenty year military career before the internet was even invented. I've around the world twice. In other words, I came to understand BDSM only after I have been married and raised a family. Yes, if playing with someone who has been married for 35 years bothers you, then move on.  My wife doesn't play and is quite vanilla. That is why I am here on this site.   If you are a woman who understands the real world, then you are in for the best erotic experience you ever had. I love looking down (or up) at a woman who expects pleasure. Someone who has demands, who gets off with intensity and without hesitation.   I have a smoking fetish which means I get off with women who smoke cigarettes.  I crave the site of a woman who has smoke coming out of her mouth. If you don't smoke, then that's not a deal breaker. It's just a kink of mine. I don't smoke anymore, by the way.   Like a lot of people on here, I also love anal. My ideal partner  knows  to how use a strapon, fingers and tongue in all sorts of creative ways. I am very oral. If you are lactating, you will be drained, repeatedly!   While I'm kinky, I'm also safe, sane, disease and drama free. What happens between us, stays between us. If you are married, I don't want to meet your spouce, nor should you expect to talk to mine. I am looking for a play partner and friend. While I recently changed my profile to Dom, I have played in all positions and love it whether Dom, subbie or switch. Life is too short to live by someone else's definitions. In other words, I believe that the chemistry between two people gives them an opportunity to define that experience. Who knows what it's going to be until it happens?   Obviously our relationship begins online. If mutually agreeable, then we move on to real time. I love to cyber too, so being local isn't really a deal killer. Ask for my yahoo address. Pictures will follow once we are talking.

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Journal Entries:
3/28/2012 5:53:53 PM

I'm really getting fed up with the fakery on this site. There is someone, probably only one or two people on here, that use all sorts of names. The pictures are of young pretty women who all respond to simple questions with almost the same canned bs that includes a yahoo name and a sexy challenge or tease. I think there must be a website that is trying to get customers, hookers who are trying to find Johns, or someone else trying to lure people into who knows what.

6/27/2011 4:59:36 AM

Every so often, someone says that they won't respond without a picture. I understand that because of the fakery on here. However, I won't publish my picture on here because of professional reasons. However, I will send pictures to your private email account, from my private email or from yahoo messenger.

5/29/2011 11:53:40 PM

People have been complaining about fakes lately. I actually met one tonight, I think. I was suspicious enough that I broke off contact with what could be the most beautiful woman in the world. Except, she was 28 and didn't know what a dildo was. Perhaps not a deal breaker, but come on, this was on Collarme and she was displaying her perfect naked body. I think she was teenager or someone a little off. Anyway, a good lession in reality.

4/14/2011 9:02:22 PM

I have a confession to make. I like pretty women! But there are some on this site who use professional models inplace of themselves in their profile pictures. Recently, there's been impossibly beautiful women (meaning professionally madeup and professionally photographed) claiming to be lonely and looking for a Dom. Right!

5/3/2010 12:40:08 AM
To the submissive who accepts my collar,  you will have access to more chocolate than you can possibly eat...ever. In fact, you can expect to bathe in it.

2/28/2010 12:18:14 AM
Why do some people here think a picture with a frown is more appealing than one with a smile? Also, why do some women who are bisexual or lesbian get upset when men send them an email? What's the big deal? Amazing.

1/1/2007 3:08:28 AM
Pet Pieve time. I see on this site many women who claim to be Dominants. Yet one of the true characteristics of being dominant is to be the true meaning of the word. I do not mean being rude...or discourteous...but condescending. If you claim someone is your inferior, or submissive, just because you put "Domme", or "Madam", or "Mistress" in front of your name, that doesn't mean you are one, unless a submissive says you are. In other words, you are not a dominant unless you receive deference, and acknowledge that. I believe the way to receive deference and submission  is to show common courtesy here on this site. If I, or anyone else, spend the time to send you an email complementing your picture or something you've written, then a return note saying "thank you" is courteous. Dominants, or anyone else for that matter, who think that they shouldn't do the simple things like "thank you"s  are a waste of megabites. Have a nice day.

12/25/2006 4:43:05 AM
Happy Holidays everyone!!. Best wishes to you and your family and/or play partner(s).

7/14/2005 10:36:04 PM
Recently in our local news, there have been stories about child and animal abuse. I think these people are sick and deserve to vaporized. I really do. If there is someone on this website who gets off by harming the innocent, then please accept this special invitation to hell!

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