scifisub42

Male Switch, 58, Kokomo, Indiana

Female Dominant, 28

Male Submissive, 23

bloody hell, EVERYTHING is happening this weekend! Beltane Bash, Hamvention, a friend's Birthday Party, and probably 3 other things I can't think of at the moment. A dominant I know is coming into town for Hamvention. I wonder if I can get him to go to the munch? I guess times like this, ya gotta have fun or be dead! :)

ooof, Home from Pennsic, Yayy!  Work tommorrow!= augghhh boo hiss It was an 'odd' Pennsic, the numbers were down, according to the newspaper we just got over 10,500 people onsite. The weather was pretty  good: it wasn't TOO hot most of the time, some of the nights were  chilly, we DID have some rain but it wasn't too bad, except for the rain on sunday morning, I had to pack up my tent wet - but I'll get it dried out ok. there's just been too many people dying though, my group lost several members, or relatives of members, and that just bites... I know that as you get older, the people you know grow older too,and this is all  just a part of what happens in life, But does it all have to happen at ONCE?

I gots a HAT!!! And it's  leather, and spiffy, and I got it for  only a  buck and a half since it was on sale.. and I thinks I looks GOOD  in it... It seems to be what is called an 'Ivy cap' or a 'driving cap' It's got a bill, and the top of the cap sort of squashes forward down onto the bill.... If you can't  picture it.. try an image search for either name.... AND I'm in a silly mood and taking entirely too much pleasure in my spiffariffic cap.  But darn it, it's nice to enjoy the little things once in a while..

I saw a sign on a church today... " Don't borrow sorrow from tommorrow".... I'm not sure what they meant by the phrase, but it gave me pause.   It's good wisdom, you see, while one should look ahead and make provisions for the things that will come, One should NOT mourn for what's coming until it gets here... Example, if you know someone who's slowly dying from a disease,  you know they are going to die short of their 'normal lifespan'...  but if you keep thinking about the loss that's coming, and grieving/crying. Well, it's sort of like losing them over and over in small bits. Lots of small bits that I guess eventually means you put out a lot more sadness and pain into the world  than if you mourned when the person actually dies...  Cuz you'll mourn them when they die, as well as before.. The thing is, that's not always an easy thing to do.. 'not mourning' what is coming... Perhaps I am being too introspective? I dunno, the phrase is so simple, and has so many subtleties.

WOOT WOOT!!! Marcon Is here!!! I'm gonna be there,  where are YOU? LOL   I'm off to the convention tommorrow, munch in Columbus thursday night, and lots of science fiction geeks and stufff... wanna meet me? (grin) well, show up there!! btw, it's three dubyas,  marcon dot org a very cool sf multimedia con...

ok, a copy paste of my old text here,  since I'm redoing my text 3-16-07  You should always be careful about what you ask for, My life has gotten very busy for a while, as my Dad passed yesterday unexpectedly...This is piled up upon some other difficulties (including a trip to Urgent Care for me)  They say things come in threes... (good, bad, or otherwise) I'm wondering if I got my three, and am working on ANOTHER Three, And I'm not sure I wanna see the last one if I haven't already reached my third. 3-1-07  Yeah, my friend pointed out to me that I haven't updated my profile in quite a while... (puts that on the list of things to do) I'm available, and looking,  though I'd like to point out that I've found the online thing pretty discouraging...  Anyway, I hope you have a great day, whoever you are! 10-31-05 ) Definitly available, please be a real person when you contact me, and not an asshat. 10-1-05  (sigh) well, I'm sort of available again...  Damnit, 9-10-04 Hello all, I'm currently exploring with a partner, but am open to meeting new people and making friends.. 8-10-04 update: Folks, I'll  be delayed in getting back to  your messages.  I'm busy with life and other assorted crap at the moment, AND I'm going on vacation, even if I can't afford it. I'll be back near the end of the month, so don't worry if you don't hear back from me right away. thanks, scifi Hello! where's my dominant? I'm a feisty and fun loving sub who is looking for that special person to be mine. I'm looking for someone with a sense of humor, and   intelligence who can kick me in the butt when I need it. I need the direction and guidance of another, One who can keep me on track and encourage me to grow. Someone who watches my back and looks out for me, even as I do the same things for him... 043004  update I was doing some discovery quizzes on another site, and it said that I like 'silver foxes' and 'bears'   (and I like people wearing glasses too!)  So.. You older doms DO have a chance!  email me!

I'm in the middle of moving to a new place, so replies will very likely be delayed for a while. Please be patient, and contact me later.. Oh, yeah, I'm available, too.

Whoops.. I'm back from vacation... and I really needed a vacation to recover from my vacation!!! Instead, though, I'm working weekends out at the Renfair and pulling some long hours at my regular work... Oh.. and I've met someone Who I'm currently exploring with...  (smile)

to anyone contacting me...  I've got some things going on at the moment, and I'm busier than a one legged man in an ass....   Well, you get the idea, I hope. I've got some things going on that I have to take care of, So please don't be upset if I don't respond right away... thanks scifi

BOORRREDD!!!! Where are all those sexy, serious, and wonderful dominants that are going to sweep me off my feet and take me away in blissful chains? Hell, if you are a serious (meaning real life, and not online fantasy masturbator)  then damnit... drop me an email!!! (silly grin)

This past weekend I went to a most wonderful and fun convention in Michigan (penguicon) Instead of AFL. (Anything for Love) which happened  locally, AFL is a scene convention but is rather expensive...  Peguicon is a linux and science fiction geek convention..This was the second one ever, and I'll definitly go back! It's kinda interesting.. there are people in the scene in SF... (the do's and don'ts of some convention program books specifically address scening in public spaces)  There were kink people there, there was even one dealer selling kink related materials in the dealers room. Yet, locally, I don't  find many science fiction people in the scene....SF fan kinksters don't seem to mix a lot with 'mundane' kinksters.... this seems odd to me... scifi

I have those days sometimes..... Where, when  you are at work, and you are thinking and getting depressed about life... And you get this inspiration while thinking about a friend of yours who used to cut themselves.... (no, not cutting  yourself) And even if it's not going to help with the depression, You think about getting someone to play  hard with you..... so you have bruises and pains....  And  you think that somehow, even though it won't fix anything.. that somehow it will give you some release.......

Well, I had something to be thankful for on thanksgiving!!!  I have now had sucess in vaginal fisting!!! previous to this I had tried but not suceeded...  I must admit I was a bit too surprised  (and concerned about something suddenly hurting)  to really    be able to relax and let go...  but wow...

(sigh)  Waiting waiting waiting for a reply to an email (GRIN) I'm going to a convention called MFF- Midwest Fur Fest this weekend... Yep, a FURRY convention.. Now, for all  you CSI viewers who saw that show... It isn't like that (trust me) Too many women, too many people who looked physically fit, too many costumes .(and they don't wear fursuits the whole time) and NO ONE in their right mind would line one with latex, they are too damned hot to begin with... And there is more to these conventions than 'scritching' and 'yiffing'.. there is artwork and comics and games and books and a LOT of other stuff... That guy who wants to be a tiger? He's gonna be there, nice guy. ok that's enough ramble for the moment (GRIN) SCIFI

I've been seeing a bunch of changes here, like the colors of the user names..  I'll have to go and see if they've added anything to the interests lists.. On other notes... the neighbor downstairs is going to be moving out, It would be nice to have a kink-friendly person in there. scifi

Hey! it looks like they added something new! An interests list!!  It's a bit limited, but it's a great start! scifi

Well, it's been a quiet few days.  I went to a munch last night and talked with someone about radio control toys...  there are LOTS of possibilities... SciFi

Well, I set up an account yesterday, and have gotten some interest already.   This site seems kinda limited, I guess because it's mainly just for posting ads, and that's NOT a bad thing, I guess.  It's just that I've used other sites where you gave more information. I can't help but worry that I'm gonna have to filter through the same wankers and hosers that I've found elsewhere though.. People like this... (whoops, gotta run, will try to post it later)

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