I've been in the r/l lifestyle for several years now. I've just recently gotten back online and am looking for a play partner.
I'm married and my wife knows exactly what I do and who I do it with. For more details see our joint profile TripleTrouble here on collarme. Don't waste my time or yours if you're sneaking around on your S.O. I am open about my relationships. You must be too. I don't have the patience for lies or unnecessary drama. I also don't have patience for people who bring these things along with them.
I'm a sadist at heart and truly enjoy the suffering of my play partner.
This looks like a good place to put my BDSM motto. SSC Safe Sane & Consensual
Safe sex and STD testing are a must before anything more than casual play can occur. I have 2 other people whose health depends on me making informed, safe choices.
I'm looking for a local masochistic female play partner with submissive tendencies. (local to Memphis or Jackson, TN as I have a tendency to migrate between the two occasionally)
A sense of humor is a must. If you can't laugh with the person who's beating your ass sometimes, what's the point? (not during of course, that's just asking for trouble)
My life is happy and full just occasionally boring. I'm not searching for someone to complete me, you shouldn't be either.
I am looking for someone to have fun and learn with. Someone who considers pain a major part of good foreplay and who isn't afraid to speak her mind.
My ideal partner would be: (this is an ideal, not a checklist) A girl who is comfortable with herself, funny, in touch with her own inner slut, bisexual, a smartass, already a member of the local dungeon and a total painslut.
Need to know more, you'll have to ask :)
BTW: do you know how hard it is to find a decent picture of yourself when you're always the one behind the camera?
7/1/2008 8:09:52 PM
Still floating from this weekend. It's been a long time since I'd been the bottom. Played with (okay, was played with by) one of my wife's long time friends at the dungeon Saturday night who I haven't seen in forever. Ended up in a sniveling little pile of tears on the floor and can't wait for it to happen again. The wife *really* needs to do bad things to me and soon, dammit. Part of it was the new, part of it was her style is completely different and far more aloof than I'd gotten used to. Whatever it was, I was tripping over my own tongue trying to please this woman. I have got to learn from her. Better yet, I've got to get her and da wife to gang up on me and make me cry some more.
Yeah, that'll be my new goal in life. :)
6/23/2008 4:17:29 PM
I'd planned on updating the profile, but not much has changed since I wrote it.
