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About Scaramouche
I'm no longer looking for a partner at this time. Since this site does not tell me when I get messages, it may be months before I respond. I may still meet submissives for casual play or to train Dom/sub couples. However, I'm not actively looking.
First off, don't contact me unless you're interested in a real world experience. I am not interested in a solely internet or phone relationship. Our first real world meeting must be discreet and public for safety sake. If that's not possible, move on.
I am a single STD free Dominant male, who has been in a BDSM lifestyle for about 12 years. I have an in home dungeon/play room with St Andrews cross, spanking bench and bondage table. Ultimately, I am looking for a female submissive for 24/7, long term relationship. Until that happens, I am looking for a play partner(s) that can be either straight or bisexual submissive or switch female(s). While predominantly interested in female submissives, I have occasionally sessioned with male submissives alone and with Dominant females and will again. I am an exhibitionist and like discrete consensual public play. I like to play with others watching or assisting but that's not required.
I am NOT interested in scenes involving scat, blood. I don't like breath control or strangulation or other "edge play". Except for conventional piercing or consensual discrete tattoos, I have four, I am not into permanent body modification including scaring or permanent marking, however, play piercing and discrete temporary marking is not out of the question. I am not interested in age play.
I like sensuous and hot caning, spanking, strapping and OTK, bondage, erotic domination, humiliation but not degradation, flogging, light abrasion and light scratching, CBT for males and light female genitorture, waxing and ice, and like partial (difficult to get a high enough ceiling) suspension. I like to put my sub in restrictive bondage and torment them sexually, withholding or delaying orgasm. I like oral and conventional sex but although some anal play is fun, I'm not into Anal Sex at the moment.
I believe in using punishment that the sub doesn't like, so if you act up to get spanked because you like the sensation and attention, you're likely to get swiftly and harshly paddled/hot caned, put in the corner and ignored. You might also get bound, gagged and tickled mercilessly (.
Vanilla, I am politically Libertarian, don't like socialists/fascists, theocrats or other authoritarians. I like to go to the movies except horror or cartoons. I read science fiction, economics, history and mixed erotica. I enjoy going to Ren Faires once in a while as well as Art fairs and other exhibitions. I like all music except Rap, Hip Hop and Opera. I enjoy impressionist art, particularly Renoir as well as black and white nude photographs. I don't get up early unless it is to go fishing and don't enjoy formal events. When I was younger I was an athlete and was offered an full athletic scholarship. While I wish I could say I still have a swimmer's build, that's not the case. For those who like smart Doms, I have a BS degree in Applied Science, Nuclear Engineering Technology (major, Nuclear Physics and minor in Electrical Engineering.)
If you're a female 30 - 60 and want either a long term 24/7 relationship or just a casual once in a while play partner, then I'm interested. If you're a Domme and want to mix in a Dominant male to help with your fem/male sub once in a while, then I might be interested. If you're a novice Dom/sub or sub/sub couple and are interested in a mature experienced male Dominant to show you the ropes or what BDSM is like, I might be interested. I have experience training Dom/Domme novices in BDSM basics and some areas of advanced play.
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