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About Savelle
Knowing myself is as important as being accepted for who I am. Its difficult to express to a stranger when first meeting them, that I have explicit interests and I'm still figuring myself out. I have room to grow; my heart is open to the possibilities- open to new ideas and always interested in learning.
The important things I have figured out, what I want to do with my life: I want to go to school, get an electrical engineering degree, have a simple nine-to-five job and come home to something more important to me than my career: my life. When I'm ready to settle down I hope to meet a woman who's got her life together.
I fluctuate on the dynamics of the relationship I want. I can't say I was raised to uphold the 1950s standard of a man provides for his family and a woman's place is at home... I disagree with that in the sense I'm up for the more modern view of a woman can, perhaps even should work. I still believe a man should do right by himself, his wife/family; that part of being a man is handling that responsibility. Yet in a relationship, particularly a D/s relationship (which, for me I believe there isn't much middle ground to have one without the other) I believe in the 'Victorian Household' dynamic, that a man is in charge of the home. I would like to oversee bills, expenses and have input on EVERY major decision. That aside, having a partner who doesn't ask about every little purchase or having one who's submissive nature needs to seek consent for everything are viable options as neither conflict with who I am
In terms of how much or how little control I want in a relationship over my partner its hard to say. I'm comfortable, perhaps would even prefer that she be her own woman. I'd like a woman who has her own interests, friends, hobbies that are completely separate from me. Yet obviously I'd like us to have a great many things in common that being together isn't a compromise on her part, nor on mine. I don't want to be over controlling or over bearing; where I am and who I'm with shouldn't matter, just as where shes at and who shes with shouldn't matter because in a relationship you should be able to trust your partner. I'd still always like to know when she'll be home and that shes safe.In that regard, these things are a two way street. I need to have a life of my own as well.
Some levels of Dominance should exist between my partner and myself unspoken: that she belongs to me, that she is mine both as my equal but also as my submissive should resonate in her just as her identity as a submissive should be a part of who she is. A woman who would submit to me should know her body belongs to me and her obedience to me should be because of her will to submit.
My kink: I'm a Sadist, and I say that with pride. I'm a Dominant personality who gets excitement and pleasure from inflicting light to severe pain to consenting persons. I enjoy restraining women with rope or leather, using devices designed to stimulate pain, pleasure and all things in between. The level of arousal and pleasure I take in what I do comes in two parts; the act and the response. To do what I love, the act of objectifying another person, pushing their limits and the sex, its all so erotic. The response, that's the high. Without the other half, without the masochist who moans when the cane bites into her ass, without the cries for more after when the vibrator gets taken away too soon, no without that... its just abuse and torture and that doesn't do a damn thing for me. So I say again, I'm a sexual sadist and proud of it.
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