sassysub15317


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	About sassysub15317 Hi! My name is Ashley. as you can read from my profile here, I am 33yrs old, I am a sub and I'm near Pittsburgh. I have a wide variety of interests - I like to read, write, travel, shop, museums, movies, see concerts, sit on my bum and watch the world go buy, people watch, scrapbooking, tennis. I also have an inner wild child in me that enjoys tattoos and piercings. I'm not out to turn my body into a walking, aging piece of art, but I like small ones (I have 3 right now) in nice places. As for piercings, I have my nipples and ears done for now. I am seeking an Intelligent Dom that wants a sweet, caring sub that will devote my entire being to your wants and wishes. I do have limits in a D/s but with the right Master, anything is possible. Right now I'm not seeking to be collared immediately, I sort of looking right now. So let's talk and find out the common interest and if things are good, maybe you'll be my next Master. BTW I am looking for friends, I'm new to the area here and would love to talk to others in the area to sort of connect to the community.

Ok, here is the latest on Miss Ashley.
As always work has me run ragged and a little worn out. I had a nasty little cold the past week and I got some cleaning done around the house, but still feeling crappy doesn't help matters.

As for love and life, I am seeing someone. His name is Brian and he's a nilla boy. He's fun to be around, and sweet but he lacks that deep dark passion that is only found in a Dom. I'm not sure how much longer this guy will last since I'm not feeling that "connection"

I have recently got a VCH piercing done from the advice from a Dom friend whose sub got it done for him. I have to admit, its a great piercing and it has helped the sex w/ the nilla boy I'm dating. Granting its not the same as being tied up and degraded, but it has heightened the orgasms. So Doms, I encourage you to have your subs go and get it done. It is simple and doesn't hurt worse than getting blood work drawn. Plus the heal time was super fast so have your sub do it. You and your sub will enjoy it.

BTW TY Malicious for suggesting it to me!

Well that's all from me for now. I must get ready and have dinner. Take care everyone! :)

Work has me swamped yet again. I haven't been able to spend more than 2 days at home since my last message. To make matters worse, I'm slated to fly back out tomorrow for another training class down in Louisville, KY. While I don't mind getting to go back home so much, I am starting to dislike how its resulting in a backlog of work. I do what I can from home and while out on the road, but sometimes you need to make that face to face contact with clients in order to smooth things over. Sadly, sending a replacement doesn't always seem to work.

I am enjoying the traveling though. I got to go out to Las Vegas for a few days and I got to go down to Dallas for a few days too. It's all for training, I'm hoping once I finish this stuff out, I can apply for a regional manager position. Its exciting, I'm really glad I moved up this way as I would have never been able to move up the ranks like this back home.

So yes, Miss Ashley is still around, just working her little tailfeathers off!

Its been a few months since I posted on here and I feel badly about that.
There were some men I was talking to and I just sort of stopped. Well due to work and some family issues, I was travelling alot and putting in some stressful hours with work.

I've gone on a few dates with men and they all seem to seeking the same thing - sex. Granted we all have an urge to scratch that itch when we meet someone attractive, but I need to feel some sort of connection with that person before I have sex with them. As a result the few dates I have been on since moving to the area have ended quickly and are not repeated.

I think this alone time with myself has let me get in touch more with who I am and allowed me to finally accept the vanilla part of my life that I thought I didn't want too.

What I am saying is I know that I am submissive, but at the same time I also know there are vanilla things out of life and love that I am seeking, too. As a result, I'm not scared to fight or speak up for them. I seek a balance of both worlds, is it possible? I'm not sure, but if it is - I will find it.

Am I looking now? Well, not for something very serious, but I would be contradicting myself is I said no. I'm open to talk and seeing where the conversation goes. If there is a connection, then we will see where it goes. Just don't expect much because there is just too much going on for me to dedicate my time to a person. If you want to talk a little bit, I will try and respond to be friends, but that's about all I can offer right now.

So ty for the messages and the kind words worrying about me. I do appreciate them.

Well my past few entries have seemed to help calm the masses with messages.
I also feel I must say this as well:

Yes, I read each and every message that comes in. If I respond, I respond and consider yourself lucky. IF I DO NOT RESPOND, it means I am busy or I don't want to talk to you. This DOES NOT MEAN SPAM ME w/ messages asking if I got your message, or bitch at me for not responding.

Also, I am not interested in meeting anyone from here at this time. I am still sorting out a mess from my past and I do not think it is fair to ANYONE to meet them and give the expectation that I am seeking a relationship or sex.

Furthermore, if you message me and you don't have the courtesy to introduce yourself and instead ask about my sexual habits, you will find yourself ignored/blocked.

I am NOT a piece of meat, I am a lady and I would appreciate it if I was treated as one.

Good DAY!

I like this Who's viewing me thing, but it freaks me out a little bit cause I can see who recently viewed me.

It disturbs me greatly that there are people that have messaged me a few times and fell off the earth with messages but continue to look at my profile and journal.

It especially bothers me that there are so many 'married' or 'in a relationship' already that message me. If you are married or in a relationship with your sub that you are completely happy with; why are you looking at me? Why do you contact me? I am quite confident that if you went to your partner/sub/playmate and confided in them what you tell me in 'anonymous' messages, they would appreciate it and it would strengthen, if not improve the quality of the relationship.

Futhermore, if you are recently in a relationship, your focus should be on your sub in consideration or partner. It shouldn't be here - looking at my journal.

I understand the aspect of poly groups and all that; but that is NOT my preference. Much love to you that can handle it; but I'm a jealous sub and believe that a good sub can please her Master to the point where he needs no others. If a sub can do that, then there is no need for more.

My apologies for the complaint, but some of you men, really do need to take a conscious step back and assess your lives.

On another note, I did spend a nice evening chatting with a new friend that has helped me realize that I still have much to learn about myself, relationships, and the D/s aspect of things. To you, Sir, I say thank you.

-Ash

I can't believe the audacity of some people on here.
I AM NOT LOOKING FOR SEX!!!
I AM ALSO NOT LOOKING FOR ANYONE OVER THE AGE OF 45!!!

I am sure you are a GREAT Master, and you have years upon years of experience, but that is not something this sub can deal with.

I have OCD with email and messages but thanks to this site, I am finally able to just delete messages without responding to them.
So if you want me to respond to you, you better give me a damn good reason to.
Sorry for being out of line here, but I'm very upset regarding a few messages I received from guys labeling themself as a Dom.

If you messaged me and I haven't responded like I normally have, its because your message got lost in the sea of garbage that I got from some people here. Please mesage me again and we'll talk.

Oh wow, I got bombarded with messages within 24 hours of finally opening an account! I try to respond to everyone cause I feel it is the polite thing to do but its taking time!

So please do not contact me if you:

Seek to immediate collar me

Relocation

Financial Domination

Are seeking sex only. If I wanted to just have kink sex, I would be out and about now, wouldn't I?

Yes, I am a strong willed powerful woman. You should know that I DON'T need a Dom to fulfill myself, I CHOOSE to submit to the One that I love because I feel it is the ultimate gift to the man I love. IF I should find that Dom here, so be it. If not, I can handle that, too.

I am familiar with how this works as I have been in 3 D/s relationships before. Each was different and unique and I am a better person from each of them.

So yes, I'm a strong willed sub, I will respect everyone but I will only call my One, my Master.

Right now, I am more about communication, talking to others like me and Doms about their styles and practices. If something evolves from it, great. If not, I'll live.

-Ashley

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