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Female Submissive, 41, Houston, Texas
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About sassypet
I have found a wonderful owner leopardspots... he is my primary and wears my heart as I wear his.. though we do not meet eachothers entire requirements. I look for someone who is into some harder play that he only sort of likes and only because it pleases me. So I am looking for someone who is interested in that.. as well as I have found that I would like to explore the other side of myself which is to top a fem female. I believe that my skills are well there it's just something I need to accept about myself. The Dom can be male or female as long as it's masculant energy.. but females only aply to be topped for I am not interested in topping men.
I have been in to kink since I was 14, you do the math.. and I have been in lifestyle for longer.. I still have a lot to learn and am far from being trained.. you want someone who is already there.. it isn't me. I am extremely fiesty, bratty, whatever you want to call it. I don't trust right off the bat, it's earned! I have been in a lot of rocky places.. not sure if they were Dom or abusive.. couldn't tell ya. I know right now that it would be better to try and get to know me first then just to assume I am ready to do exactly what you say.  blessed be
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Well for me this place has gotten a little quiet which is prolly good cause alot of everything else is really busy... I am in negotiations right now with a female dominant who is open to me having others... everything is a little up in the air.. we get to see how things go. |
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So you never know when you will end up doing something stupid cause of stupid reasons... things I have learned.. never make an assumption based off of nothing but feeling, always ask first and try to make choices based on all parties not your own. Try to give strength to a relationship rather then tare it down before it's begun.. try to take baby steps rather then elephant steps you will get farther in the long run, being as you will not have to step backward.
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Oh wow.. today was so awesome.. I don't think I could have planned it better, though I am very sore now.. My friend and I went to gay pride.. it was totally cool.. we walked down the leather alley and met up with another friend.. someone wanted to get a picture of his work, I thought they meant his bondage work and I agreed, turns out he meant suspension.. omg.. that was the most outragous thing I have ever done.. I am normally chicken of stuff like that.. but I did it all in all it did happen... It was an awesome feeling being up there and such a head rush, wish I could put a pic but because it's bondage not sure if that would work *sighs* though now that it's said and done with I ache so bad, neck, back, arms thighs and between the legs... but it was an experience of a life time and I wouldn't go back on it.. I am hoping to some day again do it.. because it is thrilling! |
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Not that it matters but when is it okay to ask when or what a person offers.. how do you know what you offer and how do you know what is okay to ask of aew relationship? I feel so lost right now I thought I understood what was going on, turns out I knew nothing and I am scared and hurt and have no clue what to do next.. I wish I had done alot of things differently... I waited because I think very highly of her and I want to be a good submissive for her but I have no clue what is needed.. I feel like I have already hung myself.. some learning and growing that I haven't done is all eating me alive.. I am paniced and in fear of myself.. it sucks.. being a submissive is my hearts desire but fears eat my desires. |
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Lots has been happening in my life, I am getting to know where things fit.. scheduling things has become very difficult, my daughter is in classes to help her be more social.. don't want her to be a walflower like I was and then meeting with Miss and hers is always a challenge around everything else going on.. I have been throwing alot of my own little fits trying to figure out what is a need and what is a want.. what is it that I can live with out and what do I absolutely need and can I serve if I don't get exactly what I want.. I believe I can otherwise I wouldn't be a submissive, but yet my actions lately tell me I am not being very good. |
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Things have been so great recently.. I have met such an awesome couple on here.. I am so excited that I am playing with them.. it is a great experience for me and I love being able to serve again and play.. they are awesome and I am hoping to meet Miss's desires as she meets my needs. It was so fun the past couple of days.. that I have almost forgotten myself in it.. that is never the case recently before them.. I am so excited to see where this takes me.. |
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This is so awesome I am supposed to have my first play date in over four months.. I am very excited about that.. I hope it goes as wonderful I would hope  |
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I love life right now I have met some awesome people on here and can stop looking.. though I would still love to get to know people as I am always open for more talking |
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Well there is alot of exciting things going on for me.. I am meeting alot of cool people on here.. finally found some real ones.. that has been the hard and tedious task.. but it has finally happened I am so happy. |
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Sometimes things are rough and sometimes things are great.. this website has a lot of different things to show each person on here.. there isn't always great people or worse people, but it's finding that diamond in the rough that is worth it.. so remember making new friends and being aware of your surroundings is all you can do on here... |
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Well, still looking and feeling around myself to see if there is anything I am lacking and what I need to change.. it's amazing how working on yourself can be so tiring.. still looking for people to play with, still uncertain if I am able to top as much as people would like.. but hey things happen. |
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I found that it can be very stressful just to find the right people to play with, to find who you mix with and don't.. now I kind of understand why it can be so hard to find the right dominant.. it's good to know that each day is a new begining and new explorations wait you. |
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