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(((((((UPDATE))))))) I am currently seeking a Dom. Not just any Dom. The Dom I seek has a long line of experience in training a sub, understanding, firm, patient, and has intelligence. If all of these do not apply to You, then You should move on. With that being said, I'll tell You a little about me. I am a 40 year old wife and mother. I am a Cosmetology Instructor and absolutely love my job!! My family is first in my life and this lifestyle is second. Some may say that a true sub would put the lifestyle first, not me. I am married to a vanilla husband who does not appreciate that his wife is submissive. He doesn't understand or respect my need and desire to submit to him, so I come to this site to get what I need. I hope You understand. Thank You for taking the time to read my profile. If You have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask.

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6/30/2012 1:37:48 PM

Why does it have to be SO hard to have this?


“I want you sore, baby,” he murmurs, and he continues his sweet, leisurely torment, backward, forward. “Every time you move tomorrow, I want you to be reminded that I’ve been here. Only me. You are mine.” 
― E.L. James

Fifty Shades of Grey



6/30/2012 1:35:40 PM

“There's a joy in my helplessness, joy in my surrender to him, and to know that he can lose himself in me the way he wants to. I can do this. He takes me to these dark places, places I didn't know existed, and together we fill them with blinding light. Oh yes...blazing, blinding light." -Anastasia Steele” 
― E.L. James

Fifty Shades Darker


5/26/2012 2:26:22 PM

“Let me ask you something first. Do you want a regular vanilla relationship with no kinky fuckery at all?"
My mouth drops open. "Kinky fuckery?" I squeak.
"Kinky fuckery."
"I can't believe you said that.' 
"Well, I did. Answer me," he says calmly.
I flush. My inner goddess is down on bended knee with her hands clasped in supplication begging me.
"I like your kinky fuckery," I whisper.” 
― E.L. James

Fifty Shades Darker


11/21/2011 9:30:27 AM

I've come to discover something that really upsets me!! So many men claim to be Dom, yet they are the farthest from that!! Pussies!! Man up already!!


10/25/2011 9:56:21 AM

Why can't this be me???

 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?NR=1&v=Ahsh3ANwTWE



10/15/2011 8:01:33 AM

Some people never cease to amaze me!! Please stop sending me messages asking if I have found the "One" yet!!!! If I find Him or He finds me, wouldn't it make sense to say so in my profile?? If it says that I am searching, there is a good chance I haven't been collared!!! Sheesh people!!


5/11/2011 4:49:16 PM

Most people think that the best way to live is to run from the pain. But a much more joyful life, embraces the entire spectrum of human feeling. If we can fully experience pain, as well as pleasure, we can live a much deeper and meaningful life.

 

Quote from the movie, "The Secretary"...incredible film!!


5/1/2011 1:25:12 PM

Who's to say that love needs to be soft and gentle??


5/1/2011 1:19:29 PM

Ahh...Finally found a movie that defines the way I feel as a submissive!!! "Secretary"...a must see!! She craved Him in everyway!! Awesome!!


11/7/2010 11:22:48 AM

I'm really about to throw my hands in the air!! This site is relatively pointless!!


11/1/2010 6:54:56 AM

 

The submissive's Prayer
Allow me the strength to answer questions I can't fathom.
Allow me the spirit to know His needs.
Allow me the serenity to serve Him in peace.
Allow me the love to show Him myself.
Allow me the tenderness to comfort Him.
Allow me the light to show us the way.
Allow me the wisdom to be an asset to Him.
Let me be able to show Him each day my love of my service to Him.
Let me open myself up to completely belong to Him.
Let me accept my punishment with the grace of a woman.
Let me learn to please Him, beyond myself.
Grant me the power to give myself to Him completely.
Give me the strength to please us both.
Permit me to love myself, in loving Him.
For it is my greatest wish, my highest power to make His life
complete, as He makes mine.


6/23/2010 6:34:29 PM

The true strength of a woman is not measured by her compliance to being shackled to a bed that becomes a fortress of solitude, but her willingness to submit her very heart and very soul.


10/16/2009 6:56:52 PM
All I can say...Betrayal...sucks!! It is by far, the worst feeling ever! So...once again...I seek a real, let me say that again...REAL DOM!!! I'm beginning to wonder if finding Him or Him finding me is going to happen at this site!! And bear in mind...being in this lifestyle is farrrr more than sexual gratitude!!!!!!!!!  For me, being submissive comes from within...I live to please and serve...but I am not, however, a piece of meat...or phone sex buddy!!!! Jeeez guys!

9/2/2009 5:25:20 PM
Thanks for the birthday wishes! I appreciate them all!!

8/28/2009 11:20:08 AM
Wisdom doesn't automatically come with old age. Nothing does - except wrinkles. It's true some wines improve with age. But only if the grapes were good in the first place. "Abigail Van Buren"

8/28/2009 11:03:25 AM
Good people are good because they've come to wisdom through failure. "William Saroyan"

8/20/2009 7:24:14 AM
Had a terrible day yesterday!! 99% of that was on my part. We have to live with the choices and with our actions we make in our lives. Only we can be held accountable. I made a huge mistake, not sure I can correct. Feeling really blue today.

8/14/2009 3:27:00 PM

It is good to be without vices, but it is not good to be without temptation!  "Walter Bagehot"


8/14/2009 3:19:33 PM
Wow...what a day! Just for the record...for those of you who have a twisted little pea brain...I DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH ANYTHING NON-HUMAN!!! I think most of You would know what that means!! I have come to learn there are some sick individuals on CM! Makes me want to delete my account here. Other than the sicko who emailed me here, I had a pretty good day!!

Will be gone until Sunday night...drag racing!! woohoo...

I hope all of You have a happy, safe, and blessed weekend!!

8/13/2009 5:15:30 AM
Off to a better start today...

8/12/2009 6:29:03 AM
"You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try." ~Beverly Sills~

8/12/2009 6:26:21 AM
The hardest thing in life, is letting go of what you thought was real!!!

8/12/2009 6:13:25 AM
Lots of thoughts are running through my head this morning. Not sure where to go from here. Why can't things work in my favor for once? Why does it always have to be difficult?

Clouds lurking about...gloomy looking day. Perhaps something will happen and make things bright and sunny once again!!

Hope A/all have a great day!!

8/11/2009 5:12:02 PM
I have now started to think that perhaps this site is for entertainment purposes only!!! Every man on here says they have lived the lifestyle all their life. I'm not so sure I can believe that. Maybe they feel they have been Dominant their entire life. Who knows. Considering deleting my acct here. Everyone seems so full of shit. Get real people. This is something "some" of us take serious, or atleast try to.

8/11/2009 6:57:23 AM
"Without discipline, there's no life at all." Katharine Hepburn

8/11/2009 6:52:10 AM

"People gain self-esteem from serving others." H. Norman Schwarzkopf


8/11/2009 6:48:40 AM
You're not the only one who's made mistakes, but they're the only things that you can truly call your own.

8/11/2009 5:37:53 AM
Having a lot of thoughts running through my head this morning. Wondering if I have made an irreversable mistake. Must do anything and everything to make things right.

8/10/2009 6:47:57 AM

Had a pretty good weekend. Much needed rest was my reward yesterday. Today...busy once more!


8/7/2009 3:55:08 PM
Have had a long and busy day. Stressfull to say the least! I need a massage in the worst possible way. Thinking of Him...

8/6/2009 6:01:21 AM
My mind is running wild. I seem to be a bit confused in what I thought I had. Hmm...wondering!!

8/6/2009 5:27:03 AM
I am so sleepy this morning!!! I feel great though! Having many thoughts racing through my head about Him this morning. Good thought, of course!

8/6/2009 5:13:41 AM
Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in getting up every time we do. "Confucius"

8/5/2009 7:00:13 AM
I came across this article and thought many of you might enjoy it! I did....


You are driving along in your car on a wild,    stormy night, when you pass
by a bus stop, and you see three people    waiting for the bus:
1. An old lady who looks as if she is about to die.
2. An old friend who once saved your life.
3. The perfect partner you have been dreaming about.
Which one would you choose to offer a ride to, knowing that there could
only be one passenger in your    car?
Think before you continue reading...
 

 ..........................


This is a moral/ethical dilemma that was once actually used as part of a
job application.
 You could pick up the old lady, because she is going to die, and thus you
should save her first;
 Or, you could take the old friend because he once saved your life, and this
would be the perfect chance to pay him back.
However, you may never be able to find your perfect mate again.

The candidate who was hired (out of 200 applicants) had no trouble coming
up with his answer.
He simply answered: "I would give the car keys to my
old friend and let him take the lady to the hospital.  I would stay
behind and wait for the bus with the partner of my dreams."
Sometimes, we gain  more if we are able to give up our stubborn thought
limitations. Never forget to 'Think Outside of the Box,' the mind it a powerful thing !
[Author Unknown]


8/5/2009 6:56:29 AM
This always has made me wonder....you tell me!

Was she so loved because her eyes were so beautiful
or were her eyes so beautiful because she was loved ?

8/5/2009 6:53:55 AM
Many people will walk in and out of your life,
but only true friends will leave footprints in your heart.
To handle yourself, use your head;
To handle others, use your heart.
Anger is only one letter short of danger.
Great minds discuss ideas;
Average minds discuss events;
Small minds discuss people.
God gives every bird its food,
But He does not throw it into its nest.
He who loses money, loses much;
He who loses a friend, loses more;
He who loses faith, loses all.

Beautiful young people are acts of nature,
But beautiful old people are works of art.
Learn from the mistakes of others.
You can't live long enough to make them all yourself.
The tongue weighs practically nothing,
But so few people can hold it.
Friends, you and me....
you brought another friend...
and then there were 3...
we started our group...
Our circle of friends...
and like that circle...
there is no beginning or end..


8/5/2009 6:25:54 AM
Today begins a new day! I am very optimistic about the relationship that me and my Dom, Masterntn have established. I am very eager to learn more about submission and to put it into action. Wondering what will be next. Very anxious about what He has in store for me.

8/4/2009 9:43:30 AM

My day has started out very well. I talked to my Dom on the phone this morning. Went well. I truely believe He is the One for me! I'm feeling some better as I have been sick.


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BSheenasSlave
 
 Age: 43
 Salisbury, North Carolina