sassykat

My profile is forthcoming. I am trying to find the best words to describe myself & the dominant man I am searching for. So here is the start.

Above all please be single, straight and unattached in anyway (to another woman or man). This I can't and won't compromise on. I need to be with someone who will be my partner not someone elses.Local to Long Island (NYC possibly), at this juncture of my life relocating is not an option or desire. I'm looking for someone who will be a partner in both the vanilla & kink parts of my life. I am physically fit and active and need a partner to match me.

I've been described as having an angel's smile with the devil's eyes, a mouth that can kiss or kill and being an aggressive, submissive woman. A dichotomy that's me. I need to take care of people I care about, I nurture & mother a great deal for someone without munchkins. In most of my world I'm the one who takes charge and makes decisions and generally people tend to do what I want right away as they end up doing it that way eventually anyway. Not that I'm dictatorial (although I can be when the circumstances warrant it)but I have more practical ideas than others do. But in my intimate relationships that's not who I need to be. It's not good for me to be in charge all the time; I don't like how I get to be.
I'm looking for an experienced dominant man who can help me explore all the facets of my personality. A man who can earn my trust and submission, not expect it to be handed to him immediately. I need to be attracted to a man on different levels (physically, intellectually and personality). I have a brain and like to use it. Also please no drugs, been there, done that, never again!
I have a fair amount of experience in different aspects of BDSM but I will not put my likes and experiences regarding WIIWD on my profile. I want to find someone who is interested in me as a person not as a target or something to be used. As time & conversations progress I will gladly answer those questions which I deem appropriate at the time. I may be submissive but I choose who I submit to.
As I said this is a work in process and I will be describing more completely what type of a man I'm searching for. But I did want to make a start on describing me. Thank you for reading what I have to say.