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Female Submissive, 39
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Dominant Couple, 45, Olympic Peninsula, Washington
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Female Submissive, 40
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About sapphire03
I have only had my profile for about a month now and I'm not certin if I am going to keep it or not. I have been asked by everyone what made me choose this lifestyle. That is an easy thing to answer. Through a friend of a friend I met someone in this lifestyle that is also a member of a poly household. It interested me, so I began going to a few parties here and there. That's when it hit me. I watched the Dom's with their subs and they way they looked at each other. It was a beautiful thing to see. I started doing some reading and found out that I have a naturally submissive personality. I choose to surrender my will to another. I am by no means a week willed person. I am very much in control of my "vanilla" life. I am not into a lot of pain as I already deal with pain on a daily, so I need a Dom with a soft hand.
This is what a Dom/sub relationship means to me. First of all Doms and subs are equal, as they both have power. The relationship does not need to involve cruelty (verbal or emotional). D/s relationships should be based on trust and communication, as well as respect. A true Dom is a protector, teacher and a lover to the sub. A true Dom should care about the well-being of his sub by being loving, supportive and tender. Of course stern when it is needed. But, as a Dom you are our only sourse of pleasure and we should not be neglected no matter how busy your life is. We should be consider valuable to you as not just your sub, but also as a companion, your student and your lover.
I had someone tell me today, "No wonder I'm still single" I guess they were right. I want the dream I have in my head. I don't want to be just your fuck toy. I want you to care about me and know me as a person. I'm not saying I want to go with you to your holiday dinners but there has to be something in the middle.
I perfer someone around my age or younger. However no older than 45 please. Also, I love all types of people but I am only interested in playing with someone that is white.
I'm not into head games and if you are then you are too late. I know the games all too well and I HATE THEM. Also, if you are on here just to cheat on your wife then move on. I'm not the one. And, we are all adults and you know what I mean when I say cheat.
I am always 100% honest and I am looking for the same in someone. I don't do the whole drama thing. My life is really simple and I like it like that. If we decide to meet it can't be at my home most of the time because I have a daughter that lives with me and she knows nothing of my life style and does not need too. I work 6 days a week. I have a really hard job that is dirty. (I work with animals). I am just a country girl. Most of the time you will see me in jeans, t-shirts and tennis shoes, with no make-up. What you see is what you get. That is not to say that I don't like dressing up and wearing make-up, tanning, having my hair fixed and my nails polished because I do love that stuff. I just don't do it daily. I would also say that I can blend in just about everywhere. I think that's more than most women can say. LOL. Yes I am over weight but women have curves and so do I!
I'm not into one night stands and again I will not be treated without the respect I deserve. If you can't do that then save us both some time. Yes I can act like a slut in the bedroom but let me assure you that I am not a whore.
I don't have a fancy house or car or even great things but what I have is mine and that's what matters to me.
The more messages I get the longer my profile seems to get. There are many many people on here that I would be afraid to meet. If you are into drugs, have an STD, running from the law, or just got out of jail/prison please don't contact me.
I try not to use the word "Never" but some emails have left me with adding that word now. First of all, I will never allow the following;
1. Permentant marks of any kind.
2. Anything that draws blood.
3. You will by no means Ever and I do mean Ever Poo or Pee on me.
4. As I continue to read I'm sure I will add more. LMAO at some people.
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