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Female Submissive, 35, near KY/WV border, Ohio
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Dominant Couple, 34
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Female Switch, 32
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About SaphireDragon80
FIRST OFF DON'T ASK FOR MY E-MAIL ADDY OR MESSENGER NAME! DON'T GIVE ME YOURS UNLESS I ASK FOR IT OR WE TALK ABOUT EXCHANGING THEM! I DO NOT SHARE THIS INFORMATION TILL I AM COMFORTABLE WITH YOU! I WILL BLOCK YOU IMMEDIATELY! I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A BOOTY CALL!!!
WARNING: Any institution or individual using this site or its associated sites for projects or personal - You do not have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action. (I suggest the rest of you post this notice.)
NOTE: I AM CURRENTLY NOT LOOKING FOR ANY SUBS!!!
ABOUT:
Hello. My name is Lady Saphire. I am 31 years old. I am a mother of 3 and I am married. We have an open marriage. He is a Top and is fairly new, we don't usually play together but we may try new things out on each other just to get a feel for it, see if we like them and to perfect our techniques before using them on others. My family comes first. I am bi-sexual. I have a Girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. I am into Yoga. I am a very open and honest person, I have been told sometimes to a fault. I am into many things, I love sex and I love bondage. I like to experiment and try new things, I will try most anything once. Smiles. I am a mix of races including but not limited to African American, Creek-Cherokee Indian, Irish and Caucasian. I have a family history of Plantation workers and owners as well as Gypsies and Witches. I love to make new friends and, unlike some Dommes, I have no problem having a friendship with some subs/slaves that I think are worth the time to speak to. I enjoy intelligent conversation with anyone who can keep it interesting. I do NOT Cam unless you are one of my subs/slaves or a trusted friend, If you ask or demand me to cam or any other deed I find disrespectful, I will block you. I am still considered fairly new to the lifestyle, but don’t think that means I am naive or gullible. I do not currently have any subs/slaves. I will consider one if that person, male or female, fits well with me and my way of doing things. I am not looking for whiny subs/slaves who don't know what they are getting into or can’t make up their minds of who they are going to serve. I have rules all my subs/slaves MUST follow! The biggest one is to NEVER lie to me!!! I will dismiss you in an instant! If you want to know more about me feel free to ask!
SUBMISSIVE/SLAVE APPLICATION:
Now, I require all submissives who want to be considered to be my potential subs to fill out a questionnaire. Being my submissive is self explanatory. I control you and who you are, what you do and how you do it. For the ones who wish to apply for a FIN slave position, you too will have a questionnaire to fill out. There are many women on here who call themselves 'Fin Dommes' who don't have any type of relationship established with their slaves. The slaves get cheated out of the experience of domination and that is NOT okay. In my opinion, a Domme has to be a woman who is stern, harsh but can also be kind and willing to understand her subs/slaves needs, if there is no mutual understanding, it is not a true D/s relationship. It's plain out abuse and not for a fetishes sake. For Fin subs, It's abuse for money's sake. Fin Domming is not an easy task. There are procedures for those of us who actually do care about establishing our D/s relationships and that takes TIME and effort. I like to talk to my potential subs/slaves, find out their likes, dislikes and know what makes them tick to better myself at being able to control those aspects in their lives. I expect potential subs/slaves to be as full and explainative as they can be when filling out the questionnaire. If you are interested please message me.
CONTRACT:
I will write a contract for every sub/slave I decided to take ownership over. When you submit your application you are agreeing to sign a contract if accepted. Each contract will be private. Meaning only I will see it. The contract is custom for every submissive/slave as they all have different needs when it comes to what they are looking for in a good Domme. The contract will highlight any such issues such as minimum monthly tributes expected (for Fin slaves) and any fees (for Fin slaves) or punishment that may be applied for certain types of behavior. Copies of the submissives/slave’s agreement will be E-Mailed to both myself and the submissive/slave. The submissive/slave is expected to keep this E-mail for the remainder of the contract.
ASSIGNMENT & TASK VARIATION:
Submissives/Slaves will be required to perform tasks unless otherwise noted. Many tasks and assignments will require some kind of proof or evidence such as photo or video documentation. Also, I do require many of my subs/slaves to be locked into chastity devices. They will be worn for extended periods of time and a key mailed to me unless otherwise noted. Some forms of tasks I may give range from daily hygiene to what to shop for and document it for proof.
LIKES & TURN ONS:
Financial Domination | Female Supremacy | Ass Worship | Sissy Boys | Foot Worship | Foot play | Teasing| Sensual dance | Breast Worship | Voyeurism | Cuckold | Online Dating | Leg Worship | Lip Tease | Anal Sex | Hair Pulling | Candle Wax | Biting | Role Play | Edge and Impact Play | Chains | Spanking | Strap-ons | Whips | Oral Sex |
DISLIKES & TURN OFFS:
Scat | Vomit | Cutting and Blood| Anything else illegal or deemed disgusting by me.
QUOTES:
"All I require from you is a slither of a moment. To have you not by force, but simply as a man and a women. To see in your eye, that simple truth, that you give yourself to me freely. Not because you have to, but because you want to." - Sucker Punch
"childhood is over the moment you know your going to die!--the crow"
"The universe is full of magical things patiently waiting for our wits to grow sharper." - Eden Phillpotts
"Quod Me Nutrit Me Destruit!"
The 10 Kink Commandments:
1. All activity must be safe (we do not cause true harm), sane (we only engage in activity when we are clear of mind), and consensual.
2. We must always be respectful of our partner’s safe word (red/yellow/green) and their hard limits.
3. We only enter into activities after we have gained trust, education, and an open mind.
4. We must always be polite and ask questions.
5. We must not touch other people's equipment without permission.
6. We must always be clean, hygienic, and mindful of our own equipment.
7. We must always be mindful of aftercare.
8. We do not engage in humiliating and degrading scenes for solely our own amusement.
9. We always protect each others anonymity from the harsh eyes of the vanilla world.
10. Most importantly, we do not forget to have a good time.
(If you agree with these statements, re-post them in your profile.)
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I have taken the quiz you see around FL and I got Switch :
Experimental 89%
Switch 89%
Bondage 75%
Dominant 68%
Sadist 64%
Exhibitionist / Voyeur 64%
Masochist 54%
Submissive 54%
Degradation Lover 29%
Vanilla 4% |
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Breath-Poem I Wrote
A tight constricting pressure
Unable to breathe
The feeling of helplessness
Washes over me
I trust you with every
Fiber of my being
But still I fight,
Fight to breathe.
The world is fading
And going dark
I want to scream
Ok release me.
Instead I relax myself
My body and soul
Give into the darkness
That takes control.
I hear you whisper
I love you so….
Then the darkness
Has taken over
Everything goes black
And all is gone.
I lay there limp
And you release me
You begin to move
And oh such feeling
My body awakens
And my mind races
The pleasure consumes me.
I gasp for air
And breathe again
My whole being
Is tingling and alive
My eyes fly open
And I grasp your arms
Looking up to see
Your beautiful face
Smiling back at me.
You hold me close
As I tremble and shudder
You say I love you and hold me closer.
My body tightens
And I scream in pleasure.
You hold me close
My body racked in tremors.
As I tighten around you
Your body responds
Moving quickly
You lose control
Your body tightens
You moan out
And we shake together.
As the waves subside
And we come down
Our breathing slows
And we know
That our trust is true
And we are bound together
Our love will always
Last forever!
By: Patricia
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