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Hello everyone,
I decided to finally sign up and post my own personal ad. So…this is me.
I’m a 21 year old guy living in the UK, and I’m looking for a Domme willing to take me on as her online sub. This would be my first real experience of any kind of Domme/Sub relationship. My previous experience of BDSM is limited to a few private conversations in chat rooms etc. Although I found these to be extremely exciting, ultimately I want something more; a real relationship that can grow and develop, where I can explore the new side of myself that I’ve discovered, in service of a Mistress. Anything that gets me as exhilarated as I am typing this right now has to be worth exploring.
I’m looking for a Domme who delights in obedience. A strong, strict, sensual Mistress who knows what she wants and is prepared to use more than a little discipline to obtain it from me. Somebody who likes to be flattered and is generous with her affection, but only when it has been thoroughly earned. Age, location and appearance are unimportant, although somebody at least a few years my senior would be great. I’m not looking specifically for somebody in the UK. A relationship with a Domme with experience and patience, someone who is prepared to teach me thoroughly and build something special, is something I have dreamed about for years. I finally feel as if I am ready to try it.
Ideally, an online relationship would include the following, as well as anything that might come to my Mistress’ mind:

Email/letter exchange. I recently finished a degree in English, and I love to write and receive long, intimate, descriptive emails.
Conversations over MSN or Yahoo messenger, or on the phone.
Picture exchange. I’m particularly shy about sending pictures of myself to others, but one of the reasons I’m looking for a Domme is to fully explore this new side of myself, a side I’m just beginning to uncover. I’m more than prepared to have my boundaries pushed.
I love the idea of being set tasks and assignments by my Mistress. What they might be, I’m not sure. That’s part of the excitement for me. Pushing my sexual or behavioural boundaries, leaving my comfort zone, knowing that my obedience will please you. I think this may be the greatest thrill of all for me. Like I said, I’m almost completely new to this kind of thing, but just the thought of my obedience bringing pleasure is very exciting for me.
Perhaps eventually, something that goes beyond the internet. A meet-up or live-in situation is not something I’m looking for right away, although the notion that it might be a possibility is exciting…

As for my turn-ons and turn-offs, I guess you’d have to send me a PM to ask…
Apologies if this ad is a little lengthy. I just really wanted to state clearly what I’m looking for and what I have to offer, which is my obedience, willingness to learn and eagerness to please. I’m not weak-willed or willing to grovel constantly. I’m looking for something more meaningful than just verbal abuse. I hope I’m explaining myself okay, although there’s no doubt I’ve gone on for too long. If anyone out there wants to know more, please don’t hesitate to PM me. Finally, I just want to make it clear that this is not just a passing fancy for me. It’s something I’ve been thinking about for a long time before posting this ad. What I’m trying to say is, please don’t write me off as a young guy who doesn’t know what he wants and will only waste your time…
bisheslave4BLACK
 
 Age: 28
 Medicine Hat, Canada