I prefer not to have labels and don't like being called by any other name but Ken

 "Master" unless there has been an agreement to full time ownership and that a long term commitment to something close to what they would call M/s roleplay.  This would be reserved to a 24/7 relationship, if at all.

"Sir" is ok for some D/s bedroom roleplay but overdoing it is irritating, sitting next to me on the couch fully clothed and out of the scene to me is unwarranted, and certainly is not for someone I have only met via corespondence. Usually a sub has to kneel next to my bed  to askpermission to get into it. right about at that point of begging the term should be considered.

"Captain Ken" is a nickname that everyone who knows me uses at one time or another.  I have never demanded to be adrress as it. Although in retrospect it does carry some ranking I suppose.

"Daddy" has been used a few times, still not sure how I feel about it, or how to respond to it. There was an instance that was very strange, because the girl was half my age, and I felt like uncomfortable because I was actually old enough to be her daddy.

"Lord" is rediculous unless its part of a complete rennesance/ victorian lifestyle, actually, no its rediculous no matter what.

Ok, some people have told me to do this Journal thing so here goes....

Am I a Dom?

To me this is a title or a label, "Dom" is used as a noun, like "am I shoe" or "am I a Democrat"

I am none of these things. Here are some things I am. an Artist, a musician, a goofball,a weirdo,   a hockey fan, an advocate, a friend.

Now if you want to do adjectives, sure I am dom-inant, deviant, sadistic, twisted, witty, silly, friendly, and a bunch of other good ones.

Here are a few other things about me,

I get heartburn from bad italian food and cheap booze.

I am opinionated but went to vocational school so my spelling and grammar arent the best.

I drink, I smoke pot, I gamble, swear and chase loose women.

I dont eat my veggies or call my mom enough.

I don't watch TV unless its sports or something animated, i.e. family guy, spounge bob, little mermaid.

I guess this is good to start, looks like I can keep adding, so I will do that later...stay tooned....hehehe