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Not a one trick pony // Optimism Prevails for a Figure Skater
Don't be thrown by the skater reference. I just enjoy physical activities requiring both brain and body be fully engaged. Rules of engagement also apply to Alt.com, it's not just the body, it's the mind.
I am fit and healthy. I want to find a connection on all fronts. Although I am not opposed to casual fun, ultimately I desire a relationship. Everyone deserves a fair chance in life as well as love. I am still optimistic... Are you?
I've posted a few pictures so you will know I am not a monster. Looks are not my primary interest in finding a partner or playmate, but denying physical attraction is part of the equation would be a lie.
I can understand why a lot of women don't post profile pics on Alt. It must cut down on the number of men sending mail and winks. But if you are taking the time to read this, then it's time to post privately.
I believe in the premise that most of what makes a relationship and attraction is in the mind. But if we were not a visually oriented species, genetic selection would have scaled back our optical faculties a few thousand years ago. My personal sentiment is little glamor and feminine mystery can go a long way to help a man's mind do it's thing.
Think this is a brash delivery. Don't panic I promise, I'm a big softy at heart.
I'm looking for ease of conversation. Sensitivity. The ability to read how a person feels from body language and vocal inflection not just words. The willingness to learn. The desire to teach. Physical and emotional resilience.
Ideally I would like to find a woman who enjoys being flexible. She may prefer being the top or bottom but doesn't live there. This is not a deal breaker, For me it is about the interaction. My demeanor generally moves in response to the signals of my partner's needs.
A relationship for me is more than one constant sexual identity. If I am drawn to a person, I adapt to the role.
I appreciate when a woman enjoys wearing lingerie, stockings, heels, and perfume. There is something glamorous and exotic about those feminine accessories.
I was always a sucker for the femme-fatal icons of 1930's and 40's movies. Film noir is still a favorite of mine. There is also a lot to be said for leather and other classic fetish wear. I hope these thoughts don't surprise or offend your sensibilities. But after all we are on Alt.com
What can I say.. I enjoy having my imagination sparked by some classic triggers. And I hope you would agree a little well placed sexual drama can be very exciting.
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