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About s3xadd1ct
I once was aching to be Dominated believing myself only to be a sub. Looking back I was almost always topping from the bottom, orchestrating the scene as I would want it to play out, never giving the Top a chance to strut their creativity. I have met some truly wonderful and interesting individuals that have opened my mind further, broadened my experiences and encouraged me to grow as a kinkster. It's been a wonderful education about myself. I've learned not to be bound by labels such as: Top, bottom, submissive or Dominant. Labels such as the above do well to describe my interaction and dynamic with a given person; they fail miserably at categorizing me as an individual, for I am much more complex. I have a wonderful submissive who appeals to my Dominant side and an equally wonderful wife who appeals to my switch side. What I find myself lacking is a Dominant for my submissive side. I'm not picky as to male or female, one of the bonuses of being bisexual. Though, that isn't to say I am not picky. The right Dominant would have to understand that I am a Dominant as well, just not to them. Dominating me doesn't make you Dominant to my girls. Additionally my submission is not allowed to have a negative impact on my D/s relationship with My submissive. I have the capacity to bottom and even submit. I am a SAM as are my girls, this isn't to be confused with being a brat. Some quick things about me:
I hold honesty above everything else. It's better to tell me something I won't like than to be dishonest with me.
I'm loyal to my friends and family. To attack my friends or family is to attack me.
I'm 'detail-oriented' see: anal. I'm analytical to a fault. I analyze everything, but people.
I'm a research hound. If I come across something I don't know, I will look it up.
Bad spelling is a huge pet peeve. I will likely correct you if I notice it, I expect the same.
I'm almost always either at a computer or on my phone. I have access to my email on both.
I won't try something on someone I can't handle myself. I believe my type of sub primarily to be a pain slut, though I don't limit myself.
Something very important about me, I lead a vanilla life, I am very casual in my vanilla life. I will be nonchalant and maybe even flighty. I will chat online like I have known you forever. However when the situation calls for it, I adjust. If you have any aspirations of me incorporating my kink into my vanilla life beyond subtlety, don't contact me. I keep them separate for a reason. I'm an open book, feel free to contact me to get to know me better and if you are local, meet for coffee/tea or something. This blurb here is hardly the tip of the iceberg. |
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I haven't been on here in a long time. More often than not, I am on these days. There is a much larger Sacramento presence on there, as opposed to here. Also the majority of those on are on there because they are kinky and not because they are trying to make a buck or get laid. Kink is a very important part of my life and I take it seriously. If you don't, please pass on by.
Have a good one. |
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Patience young jedi, re-ordering the pics I have up, blame CM's lame management system.
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I need new pictures this much is clear.? The question is should they be vanilla or kink?? If kink should I be portrayed as the sub or Dom?
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Spent more time with the same couple.? We have an interesting dynamic, I sub and Dom my wife, the female half of the couple is my sub and a Domme to my wife as well as a sub to her husband, who is a Dom to my wife.? Did you follow all of that?
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Saturday we spent the day/evening/ and Sunday morning with the most wonderful couple. I had the opportunity to Dominate, which I haven't done in years. It made me realize that I am actually a switch, primarily a sub but with Dom tendencies. The rush I got as the Dom is very similar to the rush and release I get as a sub. |
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Just as i talk about my Wife admitting she isn't a Domme and never will be, she creates a profile on cm looking for a Domme to teach her the ropes. |
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