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Female Dominant, 35
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About Rutman
Hello and thank you for checking out my profile.? I have a good idea of who I am and who I am interested in meeting.? Primarily I'm a dominant in the bedroom, and I prefer a somewhat vanilla relationship outside of the bedroom.? I do not believe that dominant and submissive imply superiority and inferiority.? It's more of a question of control and power.? I want to be able to share both aspects of my life with a woman.? I want to be able to hang out with friends and family, make dinner together, travel and do all the things that a vanilla couple would do, plus I want to indulge and explore all things kinky as well.
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Primarily I am sexually adventurous with a strong tendency toward control during play.? That being said, I'm not looking for a 24/7 situation, and I am exclusively looking for something monogamous.? I'm much more interested in something long term than a play partner situation also.? In my vanilla life, I am kind and considerate, enjoy a variety of activities with friends, and try to maintain a good balance in life.?
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While I like to be in control and explore new things during play, I am not selfish about it.? Yes, there is power exchange and yes I'm in charge, but I will make sure you are satisfied in every way you desire as well.? That might mean I deny you, humiliate you, punish you or it might mean I comfort you and care for you.? Communication of some sort is necessary before, during, and after play.? It's the only way to make sure we both work toward something that is more and more fulfilling to both of us.? I want to find someone who is eager to incorporate kink into a healthy relationship and someone equally willing to try new things and push boundaries.? I am open the idea of a live in situation if it makes sense.?
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I'm interested in meeting someone who is adventurous, active, and intelligent.? I have my life together and I expect the same.? Drug and disease free is a must.?
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I take my privacy very seriously, especially on this site.? So I haven't posted a revealing picture of myself, but I have plenty to share if you are interested.
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