runnerdom

I am a trial-lawyer, living in a NJ suburb. Given the nature of my profession, I will not publish a pic on my profile – but one will be provided if real interest is established.

I invest a great deal of myself in my work, so when I'm away from work I need to get away from it all, recharge my battery, and most important, just have fun. My tastes are very eclectic. I enjoy going to sporting events, preferably baseball and football, but I also love a good Broadway play, museums (the Met & MOMA absolutely), and yet am very comfortable simply curling up at home to read or watch TV – or better still just to cuddle on the couch, or, of course, “play” with my slave. Not big on the clubbing scene and in public prefer some real discretion – but still expect to be obeyed (you’ll know from the look in my eyes if you’re in trouble when we get home).

Because I am in Court much of the time and am often under a great deal of pressure, I need a good escape with someone who is always compliant, completely submissive and instantly obedient. Thus, I seek a full-time, live-in, house-slave for 24/7 service - yes, a true pain-slut, fuck-meat, servant.

I fully appreciate that this level of submission only comes with real, deep trust, which can only be established with honest, clear communication, and that takes time. I do not expect some kind of instant surrender, but recognize that these things come in stages - first some e-mails, then some chats (say on yahoo - can't seem to use the Java feature on collarme), then if all feels right a few phone calls, eventually a face-to-face (in a public place) to see if the chemistry is really right. I also believe this communication does not end once my slave surrenders to me. Indeed, I will want to give her time to truly express herself, to hear her needs, fears, desires, etc - of course, I'll always expect obedience, even if she doesn’t like my decision, but she'll honestly know I've considered her preferences - perhaps they'll be accepted or rejected, but they will be considered.

I am very educated, well read, kind, considerate, and understanding, while at the same time I can be very strict, demanding, controlling and somewhat sadistic. I know exactly what I want, and I expect to get it. I believe a real slave is property and exists to serve and service her Master/Owner - I'll ask your complete surrender, but I also understand the real responsibility that comes with actually owning a slave. I truly believe in a real M/s relationship - and can live that knowing the difference in treatment in private & public - so that real life can occur as well.

I try my best to stay in shape – and, as my handle suggests, I run and exercise regularly and eat healthy (although chocolate is certainly a wonderful food-group). I enjoy all kinds of outdoor activities, including bike-riding, skiing, hiking, etc. Certainly, my slave should also appreciate these activities, and will share them with me. It would be great to jog with someone then come home, shower together and ... well, you know. And, while we’re on the subject – that’s sex, of course, I’m very sexual – that is an important aspect of this whole lifestyle. My slave should expect regular use, of each of her holes.