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Male Dominant, 42, Charleston, Missouri
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Male Submissive, 28, bangkok
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About ruinouslove
This is Our Ruinous Love. We are a sick, deviant couple who met on C-list, looking for NSA fun. What we found instead, was a love that we feel has to be shared with the world. We have started our own website, and it is going well, but this is only the beginning of our exploration of BDSM, love, sex, debauchery, and honesty.
Our Ruinous Love is: Catherine de Sade and K. Horrible things are done to Catherine: physical and emotional abuse, degradation and so much more. All in the name of love... |
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Does anyone know what the B in BDSM stands for? I'd guess bondage, and I'm pretty certain I'd be correct. What about the S and the M? Anyone? I'm going to guess Sadism and Masochism, or Sadistic and Masochistic. Now, when I think of Sadism, I don't think of some bland, boring woman, sitting on the sidewalk, fully clothed. I think of intense graphic images that might be horrifying to some. To me, these images are beautiful, and that is why I am interested in BDSM, and sites that allow me to be open about that.
What I do NOT enjoy, are the petty restrictions put on photographs. What constitutes "extreme" bondage? What is vulgar? And why in the hell, if this is for ADULTS, are the people who run this site so worried about us showing off our genitals? This has to be a joke, right?
I have tried to have three pictures as my main photo so far, and they've either been rejected or ignored. If this is the Largest BDSM community on the PLANET then it is gathered in the lamest spot ever.
This will probably been seen as a criticism, but it's not towards someone - or a person at all. What I fail to understand, is how this site can be called "The Largest BDSM Community on the Planet", and yet, I see the exact same faces, every time I log on. I widen my search, and I see the number of people this place claims-the number of WOMEN this site claims are a part to the site, and I simply don't see the evidence.
I'm new, and I'm bored already... |
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Violence Towards Women:
In the rainforests near the Amazon live a people called the Yanomamo. Their ethnographer, Napolean Chagnon, calls them "the fierce people". They pride themselves on their cruelty, glorying in it so enthusiastically, that they make a great show of beating their wives.
And the wives are just as much a part of the viciousness as the husbands. A spouse that does not carry enough scars from her husband's blows feels rejected and complains miserably about her unbruised condition. It is a sign, she is certain, that her husband does not love her. |
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