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	About rosewiththorns Simply would like to meet a truly dominant man who wants a loving submissive woman to make his life better. If you have a wife, lover, girlfriend, mother or a submissive that dominate your life or you're just looking for someone or something to make you feel in control i'm not for you. "It is said" remarked the girl, "that every woman whether she knows it or not, longs to be a slave--the utter slave of a man--if not but for one hour.".............Nomads of Gor Submission does not indicate sexual promiscuity. Submissives are not sex crazed nymphomaniacs who cannot control their drives. Most are husbands or wives, mothers or fathers, friends, neighbors, workers, or family members who have a need to relinquish control of some aspects of their lives to someone they trust. It isn't a sex thing...it's a condition of the heart. "The mind determins what is posible, the heart surpasses it."

Wow, Where has the summer gone? Almost Labor Day and it seems ive not done anything summery.
Remember family reunions? Pepsi, Coke, grape and orange Nehi in glass bottles? Sunday picnics with watermelon chilling in the creek? Real fried chicken that didnt come in a cardboard bucket? Baked beans so thick with molasses they really wouldnt pour till next Janurary? Homemade chocolate cake with 2 inches of (what else) chocolate frosting between the layers and another 3 on the top and sides? Gallons of sweet iced tea and lemonaid with sweat on the sides of the plastic pitchers? Homemade potato, macaroni salad and deviled eggs in tuppeware? All covered in tin foil but if you were careful you could peek and maybe have a taste if you carried the lawns chairs from the car for an aunt? Going home late in the eveing, tired, but full and happy. Miss those days. Do you?

This phrase was on a 'can coozy' that i found packed away the other day. ..."Don't sweat the petty stuff and don't pet the sweaty stuff......." i just thought it was both cute and profound.
Hope everyone has a nice evening.
rose

i have been married for the past 30 years to ONE man who although is a good man and father simply has no ideas as to the things i need as a submissive. Only what he desires as a man and husband. He would be the first to tell you that i have been a good 'submissive wife' catering to his needs and whims ever since the day we got married.
i have also had a Master in the past. Although i have loved Him dearly it now saddens me as i am certian His interests too lie in directions that don't include me.

i am a very loving, caring and giving, person and need that in return, To feel loved. Cared for.

Yes i am married. And have a family, job and life. That wont change. Just as i wouldnt expect you to change yours for me. i just want to serve a strong, loving, caring man.

i have interests, some fun ones, i like outdoor things like camping and walking, working out in the yard in gardens and such. i also developed a love of motorcycle riding and traveling to 'out of the way' places. These are interests that wont change. Just want someone to SHARE all this and more with. Submissively.

There are many things on this world that make life beautiful. One only needs to look around. Open your eyes to the wonder of the sunrise, shining golden upon the fields along the highway. Languish in the scent of honeysuckle in the breeze on a warm summers evening. Marvel at the jagged flashes of lightning in the darkening sky as a sudden thunderstorm rolls across the valley.

This evening after work i pick up my daughter and stop by the store to get a couple of items. i grab a few dollars and my cell phone and get out of my car locking the doors with a swift 'click'. As soon as i hear the click i know what i have done.....yes, there are my keys in the ignition switch and my purse on the seat with the spare keys inside it. And yes here comes the rain....and lightning and thunder. So there we are, standing outside the grocery flattened against a corner wall for shelter against the wind as the storm pours buckets of cold rain and the mountians light up with streak of lightening like fire.
My daughter jokes with me as we wait the hour it will take for someone to come with the tool to get the car unlocked. We watch people come and go at the store. Some waiting for the weather to clear others braving the torrents of rain in mad dashes for their cars. A lady walks up to where we are standing, pushing her grocery cart. She has a plastic bag over her head and is holding her handbag up against her. As she waits and fumbles in her bag, I ask her if she would like to stand back in the corner with us so the wind doesnt blow rain on her. She moves back and talks awhile telling us about her kids comming over for dinner and cooking for her church supper all day. She seems anxious to get home. But happy to have someone waiting there for her to serve. Her family and friends. Despite the pouring rain and lightning, my daughter and I help her load her groceries into her car. She drives away to her supper and the rain stops. In a few moments someone shows up with the tool that unlocks my car and we go on our way.

Isn't it nice that when you have someone to serve, the sun shines through no matter how much it storms?

Trying not to have a negative attitude about things. Its not what becomes me.? There is definatly something 'missing' in my life right now. But i do not want to try to replace whatever it is with 'the first dom that comes along'. There are certian things about the one i might choose to serve that simply aren't up for negotiation. If we can not be compatable on the simplest of levels, how would we ever make it on a higher plain? i won't go into all the yeas and neighs about someone here. i will just say that if you are a good man with a sense of humor, sense of adventure, self worth, confidence in yourself and your abilities....(confidence.. not arogance....) and can be sponteaneously fun loving then we are probable compatable.?

Such a boring day. Cloudy and rainy. Same old things, make dinner, do laundry and get ready for another week of work. Talked to a few people here on CM....no one serious. Mostly seem to be just guys wanting to get laid and using D/s as a crutch to get what they want. Or (and i have to laugh at this one) guys thinking i will be their personal maid and secretary, and do 'anything' that their wives wont.
While i firmly believe that such services can be and are a big part of a D/s relationship between trusting Doms and subs, it in no way, is all there is nor where the relationship starts. Gentlemen, please have enough respect for us ladies, submissive or not, to realize that we are not idiots, nor are we just siting around waiting for some man to 'fuck us senseless', and the toss us aside. If we are true giving and caring subs, we need and deserve more.

WOW, what an arrogant Bs'er some people are online. If the first comment you make to me is to ask what size bra i wear just know that i am not interested in chatting with you. Don't give me along list of 'dom questions' to answer and then tell me you don't have time for my 'silly questions' if i ask you how many years of experience you have. Or any other question i believe is noteworthy. Grow up guys. i may be country but i did not just fall off of the turnip truck. i have a mind (a pretty keen one at times) and i use it. A REAL dominant takes time for any question his submissive asks him no matter if its the first conversation of the relationship, 3 weeks into it or 10 years into it. i am not an idiot, nor was i put on this earth to fall down at some guys feet online or elsewhere just because he says, "I am Dom."
IF you are dominant i WILL know in talking to you soon enough. If not, i will know that TOO. If you are rude or arrogant, thats not dominantion. Its just plain stupidity. Oh and pleeeeease don't tell me you 'know what i need"....and that its just a 'real man'.....because after i pick myself up off the floor from laughing i WILL give you a piece of that 'mind' i have.

i do not usually put much stock into thing like this, but this is my horoscope for today. i have to smile at it for obvious reasons.

"If you feel like your boss or another authority figure has been trying too hard to control you lately, you are probably right -- but that is what they are in your life for right now. Giving up some control over where you go or what you do isn't the end of the world, and it would be in your best interest to stop fighting so hard against them. They know more than you do, otherwise they wouldn't be in the position they are in. So if you want to know as much as they do one day, be quiet and listen now." ...........my reply......."Yes Sir!"

OK. Here is is for everyone who would still message me and try to persuade me that they are the perfect 'Master' for me.

No where does it say in my profile that i am seeking to enter into another D/s relationship or looking for a Master here on collar me. Yes i miss much that i shared and experienced in my former such relationship but i simply am not going to dive back into another one without a thourogh 'investigation into myself and my submissive heart'.

i do however know the type of Master i would wish to serve and the type of relationship i would need to share with him if i were seeking another.

If i were to describe him and that relationship here tonight it would be quite long and intense so for now i will just say i would seek someone who understands this phrase.......

"The greatest honor in belonging to You is not to die for You but to live for You. i will stand by You, behind You, in front of You or even up to You if it be what You need or desire.......but i would always be kneeling before You."

There are far too many good things in life to obsess with one or two bad ones.

All things in time come full circle.......

Never make someone a priority when they only view you as an option......

Don't sweat the petty stuff and don't pet the sweaty stuff.......

Live, laugh, and love while you can for you will never get out of this world alive.

The one complaint i hear on here more than any other is that people feel they are taken for granted. We each consider ourselves to be 'special' and when it seems to us that we are ignored or put off we feel taken for granted.
i especially hear this from submissive women who have just ended (or have been released from service) a relationship with a dominant. The dominant either just quits communicating with them for some reason or ignores them as a punishment for something. Either way it is the begining of the end of the relationship. In a lifestyle/life that is supposed to be filled with trust and communication for it to grow, some dominants just don't realize that just because they 'have control' of the submissive that it doesnt mean said submissive doesn't still need mentoring, teaching and reassurance at times that they are 'special'. Those dominant would not want their submissives to just quit trying to become better and learn more how to serve them so why should they feel it is ok to just quit trying to teach and mentor? If BOTH try to work on the relationship i firmly believe there is NO LIMIT to how high that relationship can go.

Where did you go Today? Yes we have all been hurt at one point You, i, everyone. i too believe in having that perfert fit. But just because you find something that fits perfectly doesnt mean you can afford to have it. Sometimes you just have to wait till it is within your budget and have FAITH that it is meant for to be. i have enjoyed our conversations. Be well.

When is 'enough, enough?' Don't people believe in conversation anymore? In consideration of others? In communication? In this age of faster mail, faster comunication, and technical advances why do people also use it as an excuse? Excuse to not be clear on points. Texting with abreviations. Partial words? Why do some even use it as an excuse NOT to communicate? "Oh my server was down", or "I didn't get THAT email." Well you got the six others about the play party but somehow the one with the time i would be available just didn't make it quite all the way to your computer.....hummm?

Had a birthday recently so i had to change my profile......(last birthday though....i'm officially reversing the numbers for the next 49 years.....lol)
Merry Christmas everyone......remember Santa only 'comes' once a year, so aren't you glad you aren't him?

Sometimes one can be totally surrounded by friends and family and still be so lonely. Just someone to hold, laugh with and love is such a blessing. Not gona find that on here though for you can't hold a pic, or please a profile.
It is so sad to have a heart filled with love and it not be wanted.

Submission is not a sign of weakness or inferiority. Some of the strongest, most successful people in our society are submissive in their personal relationships.

Submission does not indicate lack of intelligence or motivation. Most submissives are very intelligent, creative and are highly motivated people.

Submission is not a hidden desire for pain or humiliation. Some masochistic people may turn to the D/s or BDSM lifestyle in order to fulfill their needs for these things but there are many more gentle, loving individuals who are quite happy not to receive either humiliation or pain.

Submission is not the same as passivity. Submissives are not passive. They participate actively and are thinking individuals.

Submission is not something that can be demanded or forced. The definition of the word means it is a willing act. A submissive submits because they have chosen to do so, not because someone forced them.

Submission is not a miserable state of existence. Most submissives are happy, well balanced people who are simply fulfilling their nature.

Submission is not slavery. All slaves are submissive but not all submissives are slaves. A submissive has not given up their right to choose but has given some of those choices to another to make for them. They have input into their relationship and maintain their identity.

Submission does not indicate sexual promiscuity. Submissives are not sex crazed nymphomaniacs who cannot control their drives. Most are husbands or wives, mothers or fathers, friends, neighbors, workers, or family members who have a need to relinquish control of some aspects of their lives to someone they trust. It isn't a sex thing...it's a condition of the heart.

As i read this passage it made me honestly want to consider exploring being a 'Daddys girl' ...but from what i can see there aren't many men who view 'Daddys girls' this way......too bad......

Little girls are the nicest things that can happen to people. They are born with a bit of angelshine about them, and though it wears thin sometimes,there is always enough left to lasso your heart----even when they are sitting in the mud, or crying tempermental tears, or parading up the street in Mother's best clothes.

A little girl can be sweeter (and badder) oftener than anyone else in the world. She can jitter around, and stomp, and make funny noises that frazzle your nerves, yet just when you open your mouth, she stands there demure with that special look in her eyes.

A girl is Innocense playing in the mud, Beauty standing on its head, and Motherhood dragging a doll by the foot........

God borrows from many creatures to make a little girl. He uses the song of a bird, the squeal of a pig, the stubborness of a muel, the antics of a monkey,the spryness of a grasshopper, the curiosity of a cat, the speed of a gazelle, the slyness of a fox, the softnes of a kitten, and to top it all off He adds the mysterious mind of a woman.

A little girl likes new shoes, party dresses, small animals, first grade, noisemakers, the girl next door, dolls, make-believe, dancing lessons, ice cream, kitchens, coloring books, makeup, cans of water, going visiting, tea parties, and One Boy.
She doesnt care so much for visitors, boys in general, large dogs, hand-me-downs, straight chairs, vegitables, snowsuits, or staying in the front yard. She is the loudest when you are thinking, the prettiest when she has provoked you, the busiest at bedtime, the quietests when you want to show her off, and the most flirtatious when she absolutely must not get the best of you again.

Who else can cause you more grief, joy, irritation, satisfaction, embarrasment, and genuine delight than this combination of Eve, Salome, and Florence Nightengale?
She can muss up your home, your hair, your dignity, ----spend your money, your time, and your patience----and just when your temper is ready to crack, her sunshine peeks through and you've lost again.

Yes she is a nerve wracking nuisance, just a noisy bundle of mischief. But when your dreams tumble down and the world is a mess----when it seems that you are pretty much of a fool after all-----she can make you a king when she climbs up on your knee and whispers, "I love you best of all!"

Alan Beck

A smile can change ones whole outlook. i was really down today. Work has been the pits and just 'everything' had gotten to me today. Plus i just wasnt feeling 'pretty' or very attractive lately. i was feeling that i needed to talk to someone but no one was 'there' for me.
i stopped to fill my tank up on my way home from work and as i was pumping the gas i noticed a rather nice looking young man smiling and watching me. i wondered just why i had attracted his attention as i wasnt 'fixed up'. my work uniform is far from flattering and i don't usually wear any make up because its so hot at my job now. Anyway, i smiled back and continued to fill the tank.
As i walked in the store to pay he watched me all the way across the parking lot. i had to laugh to myself. This particular gas station has music playing under the canopy for their customers and the song comming through the speakers was 'Someone is Watching You'.....
There is humor everywhere and laughter really is the best medicine.
As i paid for my gas the male cashier was flirting with me about taking my whole $20.00 and when i walked out the door three gentelmen were coming in and all three 'noticed' me and smiled and spoke nicely.
All i needed to perk up my spirits and feel good about my self was a smile. One from someone else and to wear one my self.
Hmmmmm............ maybe tomorrow i will wear makeup to work........

What do i desire? Wildly tamed compassionate passion, gentle firmness, cruel affection, hard softness, playful work, creative imagination, massaging carreses, spontaneous plans, blinding sight, enlightened darkness.
Stoping to smell the roses, planting the roses, cutting the roses. The cutting edge. Give and take, love and hate, delighting in a job well done. Dancing as i dust. Dancing nude as i dust. Just dancing, just being nude.
Country roads, hiking off the country road, nude hiking off the country road, skinny dipping in the creek off the country road.
Sunset beaches. Sunrise beaches. Stormy beaches. Lighting skys, starry skys.
Holding hands, riding fast, walking slow.
Saying "yes Sir" while thinking "yes Sir!". Whispering "Yes my Master" while wanting to shout to the world, "yes my Master!"
my other side. The half that makes me whole....... that makes two O/one.

Out of suffering can emerge the strongest of souls. .......a slave should remember to give 10 X that which she receives. A master should remember to expect it. Both should remember that 10 X 0 is still 0.

Saturday was my birthday. Had to work but still had nice weekend with family and friends. Be well everyone,
rose

As this day starts I wish to thank all those who have messaged me and sent encouragement to me. I see so many profiles on here where the dominant speaks of ungreatful or rude submissives who do not answer messages with even a "thank you" It should also be noted that dominant should provide the same consideration and common curtisy that the expect from submissives. It is just one way a submissive gathers her 'first impressions' of a dominant. Just plain rudeness shouldn't be tolerated on either side. Anyway, again I thank each of you here now and wish you good luck in your searching.
be well, rose

This is a New Day.
Time to reflect and cherish old memories but also to look forward to new ones.
To Master A......No matter what road W/we each choose to ride, You will always be "my Sir".
Love You always,
rose

Well its Halloween, Maybe a bewitching day for me. In light of a very strange conversation I had last night I have come to the conclusion that I am just not ready to serve anyone new now. In fact I believe that aside from a very few close personal lifestyle FRIENDS I am going to avoid the D/s world all together.
There are just too many crazy people out there calling themselves 'dominant'. And while I may not be sure of all I need in a relationship the one thing I dont need is someone who judges me without really knowing me.
I wish each of you well and to be safe.
rose

This has been a most strange day> Work was the pits simply because it was a Monday. I saw my former Master in passing for the first time in month today. We both pulled up to a stop light at the same time. (At least I know He is still safe and well).
Last week I thought I had finally met on here someone that I could have a deep connection with again, but in one brief conversation that was gone. Its too bad. He made me smile to think of serving again and having some one genuinly pleased by me.
Anyway, I wish him well and whatever is bothering him I hope is only temporary.
I wish to thank him for a few brief days of happiness and for giving me something to look forward to again.
Be well L. and give Phelan a kiss for me.
rose

For pearls and pins.

If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.

If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.

If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient, love is kind.

It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.

But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
And now but these three remain: faith, hope and love.

But the greatest of these is love.

Well it is almost the end of July. Friday will be the birthday of a friend that i went to high school with some 30 years ago. i haven't seen him in that 30 years although i sometimes wonder where he is and what ever happened to him.  Why do i remember that date and sometimes can't remember what i had for breakfast? Could it be that i am getting old.
Naw...not me.   lol.....
Ok, on the note of 'age' i wish to thank everyone who has messaged me on this site. Please accept my appology if i do not answer right away or at all. i do read every message and try to answer as many as i can.
i do wish to say though that i am not interested in talking to everyone who messages me. This is especially true of the younger generation. i personally have found that i can relate best to people closser to my own age as we tend to have more in common than just the world of D/s. So if you are around the age of my children (mid 20s) or younger please understand that while i respect the roles you are choosing to explore on Collarme i probably will not be interested in discussing things with you.  I hope this doesnt not offend anyone or you view it as my being closed minded i just do not feel i should waste your time by answering more than a 'Thank you but no thank you' for your messages.
respectfully,
rose

After talking to someone who finally showed me some 'inspiration'...(smiles at him) i can see that it is about time i made some points clear here.
First point, No i am no longer 'owned nor collared' Sir made the decision to release me. The reasons are entirely His own. Sometimes things just 'can't be' no matter how one wishes they could.
Second point, This should be obvious to anyone who is truely a knollegable master based on what i said in the first point, however some i am sure will still ask....i am not looking for a new master at this time. Aside from the logical fact that no one should jump from one relationship to another very quickly, my heart is in no way ready to 'submit' to another.
Third point, When and if i ever CHOOSE to offer my submission to another, i doubt it will be to one who can't put a whole sentence together in a message to me. If you decide to write to me please be willing and able to carry on a conversation. my profile says i am only looking for like minded friends to talk to, so please be willing to actually talk and get to know one another.
Enough points now.
Please be well and play safe.
rose

i have reactivated this profile, with some changes as my life is changing now. Life and situations change constantly but the people in them seldom really do. They just learn to adapt.

December 5th, 2005,
Master has pierced me. Another sign that i am His. Although it had been discussed in the past, i was quite surprised at the decision to make it happen. Thank You Sir.

i suppose i should finally post here. i have recently become fully owned and am enjoying my position as Sirs collared slave. i am looking forward to all the new and wonderful things i can learn. This is very much a change for me as Sir and i have been friends for over 3 years now. Very difficult for me to 'keep my opinions' to myself and allow Him ALL the control. i do not wish to fail Him or myself. i am quite serious about serving Him.

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