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" Never mistake kindness for weakness"

My ways are a little different than most Dom s. My sub will still serve at my pleasure but it will be because it is her desire rather than her duty.
I am very definitely NOT a " fall to your knees and worship me" kind of Dominant

Any relationship whether lifestyle or no is about peoples needs. Each has needs they want fulfilled, when the two compliment each others needs then everyone is happy.

I am not sadistic but I am very strict and firm. I would much rather give praise than punishment, but can when needed.
If your looking for a Dom that will beat hell out of you on a regular basis then we wouldn t be a good combination.

I am a firm believer in quality v. quantity, in other words I am selective in my partners.

I prefer someone that is desiring a LTR rather than just play time.
I do not play games with peoples emotions. Never have and never will. I do require the same from those I associate with. With that said, games within the realm of BDSM can be alot of fun. I enjoy a Great Mind Fuck very much. But don't believe in lasting scars, physical or emotional.

No, I am not always serious, while my sense of humor is a little strange at times, it s always harmless .

With almost 20 years of real time experience I know what I like, what I want and what I expect. Rather than " taking what I want" I much prefer it be offered!

Below are my hard rules, they are not open for debate. If you can handle those then by all means we need to talk.

The main requirements are simple.
Be honest, no head games, be happy with yourself, be intelligent and a good communicator.
NO play involving children, scat or life threatening activities. The rest we can discuss and work out.

Remember to keep smiling, it makes people wonder what you are up to !

I do have a life outside of the lifestyle, which is filled with diversity. From living history re enacting to making music to flying down the highway on my Harley, I live everyday to its fullest and squeeze every drop of happiness out that I can.

It is not the kiss of the whip, but the whispered word... To please one's flesh lasts but a moment; to touch one's soul
lasts a lifetime....

"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways,

A drink in one hand and my baby in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming.....
Hot Damn, what a ride !!!


Recently I have gotten emails from several male subs, seeking training. Made me go back and check my profile to make sure that my sexuality still said  " Straight".

Makes one curious. And in case anyone else is interested, I Do Not train males either Dom or sub.


Still just busy being me

I usually scan/read profiles just for the amusment of what some people write. I have noticed a trend lately that piques my curiosity.

Many people are listing their ethnicity as " Native American" yet their photos show no resemblance to that heritage at all.


Contrary to what seem to believe, listing your self as 'Native American" is incorrect if you are simply born and raised in America.

Well, here it is the start to a new year, one which I welcome with open arms.

Yes I have been absent from this site for several months. A break well needed. The drama, BS, lies and fakes just got to be too much to put up with.
Here I am , a year and a half after my accident, fully healed, mentally as well as physically and ready to get back into the swing (no pun intended) of life.
Just a note, I am no longer willing to deal with anyone I consider to be fake or a liar. If thats the case I will simply tell you so and discontinue any contact what so ever.

To everyone else, I am just as friendly and easy going a person as you ll ever meet.

Live Large and enjoy the ride!
Well, I see that it has been quite a while since I posted anything here.
Between all the normal , day to day tribulations and my accident last summer, I am about as healed up as I  can hope to be.
I still have a few things that remain beyond my ability, physically, but am still working toward a complete recovery. As I said to a friend recently," there isn't anything I could do before that I can't do now, just something take a bit longer".
In other words, I feel finer than frogs hair and ready to once again tackle my little part of the world.
Such a feat is possible for me but would be so much easier if I had an accomplice, anyone feel brave enough ???
I am just in a " coasting along mode" for the time being. The last few years have left me wondering if ANYone is really who and what they say they are. So for now I'm just going to drift along, chat and visit with friends and see where the ride takes me.
I recently discovered the song " A beautiful ride" on ones profile.
I think it tells the story better than most things I have seen.

Life ain't always fair, but What a Beautiful ride"

Speaking of riding, here is my version of the same thought,

"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways A drink in one hand and my chick in the other - body  thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming.....Hot Damn what a ride"

Amen  Brother
Why is it so hard for people to be real ? If you say you are then be what you say. And, what has happened to common courtesy ? I answer ALL inquiries, whether I am interested or no. It only takes a  moment to to reply to an email.
Lets be a little more considerate out there !