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Gay Male Switch, 57,  Pawtucket, Rhode Island
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I love seeing guys all tied up!

The Basics

Im 62, 220 lbs., SP thinning hair, 6 cut, DD free.

As For Labels

GAY I consider myself gay because I am not sexually attracted to women at all - only men however, I dont like to bottom and I dont like sucking cock (more about that later).

EVOLVING In the past I had acted primarily as a Rope Top with brief periods of time once every few years where I had the urge to submit. To date I have been tied up twice and spanked twice the last time being January 2018. I now feel this is something I want to explore regularly while continuing to tie up guys. Although I consider myself a switch, I dont like the idea of switching with the same guy. If i submit to someone, He will always be the Dom.


My first exposure to BDSM happened during a Boy Scout camping trip when I was 12. One of the kids brought his brothers porn on the trip. I was already strongly attracted to boys and conditioned to believe it was wrong, but the desire to make physical contact was very strong. The magazine he brought was full of black and white photos of a naked guy tied spread eagle, face up and he was being worked over by a Domme. I saw bondage as the answer to my problem. If I tied up the guy, he couldnt hit me or run away. Dont forget, I was 12 at the time.

But back then being into kink meant you were mentally ill (as was homosexuality - I had two strikes against me). Homosexuality was cured in the 70s, then AIDS came in the 80s and bondage was being promoted as a way to make safe sex more exciting. Now if the other guy was tied up I could control where the fluids went however, if I were tied up . . . so I focused on being a Top (that period may also be the reason I have an aversion to being penetrated).


As a Top I use blindfolds to heighten sensations for the sub. I also tend to be non-verbal during play indicating what I want by pushing, pulling, lifting, etc.

Hard limits blood, knives needles, fire, scat, FF, marks that last more than a few hours (a bruised ass is acceptable), and anything unsafe.

As a submissive, Im interested in bondage and spanking. If I were to be required to service the Dom orally keep in mind I give a blow job like a straight guy doing it for the first time. (which can be a turn on for some guys).

Non-Kink Stuff

*Somewhat educated

*Fairly well traveled

*Appreciate the arts

*Something of a film-buff

*Preference for Thai and Indian cuisine


Dec 10, 2016 - Test Results

Results from

98 Rigger

97 Dominant

97 MasterMistress

97 Owner

87 Non-monogamist

85 Brat tamer

84 Sadist

82 Rope bunny

82 Voyeur

77 DaddyMommy

76 Experimentalist

75 Switch

74 Primal (Hunter)

68 Degrader

57 Submissive

53 Masochist

53 Exhibitionist

47 Ageplayer

38 Slave

31 Primal (Prey)

23 Brat

19 Vanilla

18 Pet

15 Degradee

12 GirlBoy












 Male Switch


 Rhode Island

 6' 2"

 220 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant male

Sub / Slave Male

Switch Male

 Lives For:





 Art Galleries




 Anal Play



 Eye Contact Restrictions


 Hair Pulling

 Orgasm Control




 Historical Shows







 Canes and Crops


 Genital Punishment

 Sensation Play

 Outdoor Bondage


 Horror Movies


 Science Fiction


 TV News

 Intellectual Discourse

 Curious About:


 Hard Limits:

 Erotic touch

 Fire Play

 Modern Primitivism


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Journal Entries:
2/25/2016 9:32:02 PM
SM 101, p47

Consent is one of the most important issues, perhaps the most important issue, in SM. Before you can do anything to another person, they must agree. Touching another person, or even their clothiug, without their consent, regardless of the degree of force used - even if it's minimal - is a crime.

2/25/2016 9:01:17 AM
SM 101, p 48

Informed consent includes an understanding about limits, how much or how little experience both parties have, how long the session will last, safety measures, and what specific acts will or won't occure.

2/24/2016 10:06:46 PM
Wiseman, Jay, SM 101 (Greenery Press 1998) p 40
SM defined in one sentence. SM is the use of psychological dominance and submission, and/or physical bondage, and/or pain, and/or related practices in a safe, legal, consensual manner in order for the participants to experience errotic arousal and/or personal growth. 

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