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| twink, sissy, pansy, cuckold, slave, bitch
so many names to describe me, put me in my place.
i need to understand my purpose because so far nothing seems to make sense
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I just read through some of the new journals here, and while there is a wide range of topics/ideas to read - it strikes me as a waste of time that people flame each other back and forth. Surely you have something better to do than to try to "correct" the behavior to which you object, in a person over whom you have no sway?
That energy might be better used - as many do - to explain a few thoughts about themselves and their situation. It's a heartening approach.
There are disingenuous people everywhere. Train yourself to recognize them, and just ignore them. Isn't that really the best "revenge"?
Kudos to those with the sense of self, the humility, or the sheer ability - to share something, some part of their life or experience. That's really why i read these mini-multi blogs, anyway!!
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well, i've read some intriguing ads here.
i'm a little too nervous and insecure to do munches, it's just my makeup, i guess. stage fright, in a sense - but telling a bunch of strangers in a public place details about myself that i consider to be personal and intimate, well - it just doesn't work for me.
is it me, or do most submissives have a similar insecurity? i can see how a Dominant might wish to exploit or correct that, but there would be time for that... later on?
i see a growing sampling of "poly" Dominants here. i truly have no idea how that all works, how people can be deeply committed and yet have a casual concern as others are involved. Am i over-calculating the depth of commitment? It occurs to me that for this to work, there must be a commitment, a foundation. or is it more zipless, no-strings?
Interestingly, i'd hoped that people in the BDSM and D/s world might be less intolerant (read: accepting) of lifestyle choices. Indeed, i'd expect that they simply accept, though they need not embrace.
Do i care about the religious upbringing of the person placing me in bondage, chastity, raising welts on my skin, tightening the gag around my head? i can assure you, that is not where my thoughts lie at that moment. It does play a role in getting *to* that point, however, and that's where much of the fun of discovery lies.
Of course, there is always much, much more to discover. (smiling merrily)
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Many amazing people here, at least if the ads are accurate.
It's easy to weed the professionals from the lifestyle people - for the most part, but there's an increasingly wide range of interests/motivations here.
i'd just like to find someone open, and yet cautious. D/s is not about being treated cruelly, unless you're into that; there's a much deeper dynamic at work here that seems to be missed in many of the "I'll treat you like the piece of ---- you are/ you will do whatever i tell you without question" ads.
Reality. It's not just for writing checques. :-)
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| Age: 19 |
| Lakewood,
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