What feels excellent at the height of passion may be extremely painful were it to happen while you were having lunch at work.

I am an eclectic player, a sadist at times, sensual at times, and often mix both within a given scene.

I am divorced, 57 years old, yadda yadda yadda

I like to use the singletail whip, the violet wand, fire play, floggers, etc.

remember, your pain is my pleasure.

and have a pleasurable day.