I will say this once and only once: I do not engage in anything
remotely close to pedophelia. PEDOPHELIA IS NOT AGE PLAY!!!
In fact, that's what my ex is finding
out, because I am unashamed to relate that I turned his vile self over
to the local Sheriff's Dept for possession of child pornography.
I can, and will, report ANYONE into kids to CM.
If you're an adult, have some decency and self control--
AND DO NOT HARM OR EXPLOIT CHILDREN!
GrGreet
Greetings to any and everyone reading my profile. My name is Ril'riia, which when put with my last name is dark elven for "daughter of darkness". I am very quirky with a rye, sometimes dry or dark sense of humor. I'm often mistaken for goth, but goth is a lifestyle and subculture, not a style of dress or type of music, strictly speaking. I am an artist and wanted to decorate my profile with lots of beautiful stuff I created years ago for it, but alas, CM is having issues with images...? I am a legacy geek goddess, but I haven't touched Win 10 with a ten foot pole. I'm also a human rights activist because I hope to leave the world a little better than it was when I got here. (I'm non-partisan and am thoroughly disgusted with both major political parties.) I am also coming out of a ...traumatic 2-year relationship that was supposed to be Daddy/girl but ended up damaging cherished beliefs and tenets I hold about the Lifestyle. As such, I'm not looking for anything other than friendship. Please respect that. I am also unsure if I will ever be able to engage in age play again. It will take a lot of time and a lot of healing. Right now, the very concept makes me nauseous. Plus, I am having to rebuild my life, but I am confident that I will do so and make it even more amazing then when I was ...sidetracked. (Google "Stubborn Irish Girl". I'm pretty sure my picture accompanies the definition.) I am pretty traditional in my association with the Lifestyle, but not Old Guard. I believe that for anything D/s, and especially for M/s to work, the first core tenet is and must be trust. Without trust, there is nothing. Without trust, the act of sex is just kink; physical without the emotional quality to give it depth and substance. And, to be honest, I'm not stupid enough to consider letting someone bind or injure me if I don't trust them. That's just stupid. From there, mutual respect must be in place. Or again, there's nothing, because it will damage the trust over time. We are all, by our respective natures, drawn to this life. And while some may use that concept to claim being a 'natural Dom' or a 'natural sub', desire alone to be something does not make it so. This Life is as much about hard work as anything, and also about commitment to a path and the fortitude to see it through. That being said, I will likely need retraining if I ever decide to pursue a relationship. And I will not consider anyone who has not had actual training on technique and the actual mastery of another human being. From my original profile: I am not looking for a quickie, easy sex, poly-anything, or b.s. I seek something deeper. Friendship first, then everything can work out after that. To CollarMe, yes, that is my artwork. To everyone else, no you may not download or use it or keep it. Thank you for reading! I hope this was a reflection of where I'm at, where I hope to be, the hard work it will undoubtedly take, and also demonstrate that while I am not happy with my present situation, I do have a positive outlook on life. Have a wonderful day! ~Riia.
12/3/2017 4:04:13 AM
Ugh, apparently some of the would-be pedos here are taking my statement as a challenge. I just reamed, reported and blocked the second one.
The sick bastard even tried to put the blame on us "well meaning activists". Look, it's pretty simple, the concept is called 'raping a child'. If you have a problem with the stigma your actions cause, or the fact you look like a predatory asshole who targets people too young to have fully developed brains, here's a novel concept...
Don't.
*shock, gasp, faint* Don't? What is this don't concept I speak of? Am I implying that it is a choice--and one that utterly damages and destroys a human being for the rest of their lives? Am I saying that you, as an adult, have the moral obligation to be ...an adult, and say 'no'? Am I saying that there are other methods to deal with your screwed up psyche, like getting blow up dolls or anime?
Yes, yes I am. Because at the end of the day, what it boils down to is "RESPONSIBILITY". For those who are unfamiliar with this concept, let me illuminate the meaning for you:
re·spon·si·bil·i·ty
rəˌspänsəˈbilədē/
noun
the state or fact of having a duty to deal with something or of having control over someone.
synonyms:
authority, control, power, leadership
"a job with greater responsibility"
the state or fact of being accountable or to blame for something.
"the group has claimed responsibility for a string of murders"
synonyms:
blame, fault, guilt, culpability, liability
"they denied responsibility for the bomb attack"
the opportunity or ability to act independently and make decisions without authorization.
"we would expect individuals lower down the organization to take on more responsibility"
In other words, adults have a responsibility to children not to harm them. In other words, adults have a responsibility to other adults not to try to trap them or force them into a pedo relationship. (And I am so glad I don't have kids!)
In other words, if you think you're a Dom and doing this low-level horseshit, you have NO IDEA what a Dom truly is.
And for the record, no, I don't feel sorry for anyone who brings this crap to my table. You bring it, I will do what you are unwilling or unable to do, which is to protect the community from your bad choices (because BDSM takes enough of a hit in society) AND to protect those of us too small and too weak by their very being to have a voice.
