My name is Kevin. I am 30 years old. Many of those years have been spent thinking about kink. I have been active in kinky communities for the past 5 years. My involvement grew from curiosity to helping run a large active group.

I started my journey into BDSM with wide eyed curiosity. My personal nature is submissive. At first I identified solely as submissive. In fact I did not think I could bring myself to hurt someone else at first. After learning more about myself I have found that enjoy I switching even though my nature is submissive.

Submissive: I enjoy service. It does bring me great joy to help other people at many levels of my life and that certainly applies to kink. Bondage is another big hitter for me. I do really like the helplessness of bondage, not to mention possible discomfort and certainly the vulnerability. Punching, canes, and a well aimed single tail are just a few other activities I enjoy. I have played in more casual scenes, that have allowed me to find what pain or sensations I like and dislike. Casual play or scening can be very enjoyable and rewarding, but my desires are for more then a casual play partner.

Dominant: I tend to think of myself as a service oriented Top. What that means is that I get gratification from giving others what they want, not constantly pushing them into the things they don't like to do. Like I said before I am very into bondage. I love binding people up. I have many ideas and application of predicament bondage. Some tested and some untested. :-) Canes are a personal favorite instrument for me to use. I like that I can touch the person at the same time the cane strikes, I can feel their body react.