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Describing myself is hard because in many ways i am a chameleon. i fit almost anywhere. i am comfortable at wine tastings and the symphony, but ride a motorcycle and love league bowling (not that i am really very good at it). i enjoy dressing up and going to a nice restaurant but also love the local bar where i shoot pool and listen to the local heavy metal bands. i love to read and when i get time i try to write music and stories. i have extremely eclectic taste in music and literature and actually enjoy everything from Tchaikovsky and Ravel to Rob Zombie and Metallica, from Homer and Virgil to Stephen King and Mercedes Lackey. i enjoy working around my house to renovate things and like almost anything i can do outdoors (gardening, sunbathing, hiking, swimming, some sports though i mostly play for comic relief). For the most part i will enjoy almost anything if i have people i like with whom to share it. Thats typical of mei will try anything if my friends are up for it. Summer league softball was a hoot since i can only pitch  can not hit a ball to save me lifebut we all had a great time because we were together and were there for that reasonso i had a great time swinging at every pitch all season and hitting one out of every 15 thrown!

My professional life is pretty well set and i recently changed it so i could have time to have a life beyond the hospital. What is attractive to me and about me isn't necessarily looks- its attitude and personality and being able to laugh and enjoy life to its fullest. Someone who can make me laugh and understand words of more than five letters will be much more likely to be a lasting interest to me than Brad Pitt.

What do i want in a Master? In some ways that is the simplest question ever asked and at the same time the most complex. When i think of a Master, the first thing that comes to mind is control - his control, not necessarily of me, but of himself. Good Dominants, are by nature controlled, and never let their anger or hurt control their actions.
From a S & M standpoint, i know i am edgy. i like intense things and i like the masochistic side of myself. People give me strange looks when i explain my first scene was with a single tail- and i loved it! i guess i got pushed in the deep endand swam like a fish..
i have recently accepted a collar from Master Kesslyx and am thrilled to have found what i what looking for - a wonderful friend, Dominant and lover with whom to share my life.

5/4/2006 4:44:49 PM
 Things have been very strange for the last few months - Master K and i relocated and while we love our new home the transition has been difficult for both of us.  We lost my grandfather,  to whom we were both close, and this has been a trial that i could not have borne with MK.  He has been a rock for me even when he was hurting himself. Despite my grandmother being ill (not unexpected given the loss of husband of 66 years), things are finally  looking brighter. We have the house mostly put together, our jobs are working out at last, and we are starting to make friends in our new home both in the vanilla and BDSM worlds.  While Collar Me can be a haven for posers and wannbes - it was also responsible for me finding the love of me life and one of the greatest people in the world. 
 "Some things have to be believed to be seen" -Ralph Emerson