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Male Switch, 52, Perth
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Male Submissive, 32, Alberta
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Female Submissive, 41, Harrisburg Area, Pennsylvania
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About RestrainedLife
I have a fascination with the design and creative use of various kinds of restraints. Call it a hobby, or an obsession but, in my early twenties, I started dabbling with fashioning collars, cuffs and other simple bondage devices from pet collars, leather, rubber and steel. From there I moved on to the trying to design a complete bondage "lifestyle" for the women who were willing to submit to my experiments. What I enjoy is the ability to exert strict control over my subjects and create for them an experience of helpless surrender to an inescapable situation.
The women who've served as my subjects so far have been willing to treat the experience as a play exercise but, over time, I've come to desire something more serious and longer term. Ideally, I'd like to find a woman who craves being kept bound, plugged and restrained for extended periods of time. And, dare I say it, surrender to a life in which everything about her daily life is strictly controlled and regimented. A life in which I would create, fashion and force her to wear increasingly restrictive restraints, such as tight fitting corsets, posture collars, breast harnesses and invasive plugs and gags. In this way, I would transform her into my perfect bondage doll to use and enjoy as I saw fit.
Obviously, this kind of bondage is tricky to employ safely, and should not be abused, but I would like to find a woman who experiences pleasure from tight restraints and the idea that her ability to escape is completely beyond her control. It is this mental aspect of restrictive bondage that truly fascinates me and the ideal candidate would be a woman who is aroused by having this choice taken away from her. For me, this level of control extends outside the bedroom and defines the entire relationship. Having grown up in the 50s, I'm of the opinion that the man of the house sets the rules and the woman follows them.
Therefore, I'm looking for a woman that respects boundaries, not one the seeks to push them in order to get a response from me. I will tolerate a certain level of rebelliousness, but not anything overtly disrespectful and I am not reluctant to use punishment to enforce my rules. However, I would prefer not to have to resort to this and, instead, to have a woman that enjoyed a subservient role rather than one that had to be forced into it. Unless, of course, she needs me to force her to surrender completely. |
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