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About RespectfullyDom
My professional title is Zombie hunter... But my day job is landscape sales/design/project management. I enjoy my job, and think of it as a career rather than a pay check. I love to hang out with my family... I am the eldest of 6 siblings! I spend time camping and on my parents farm as much as I can, I studied and am certified in wilderness survival. I like solo sports, PARKOUR, snowboarding, mountain biking, golf, etc. like cooking and trying new foods and eclectic/fancy restaurants. I'm a closet nerd (M:tG/PnPDnD/FPS&RPGs/Settlers etc.) if you got any of that then you know what I mean, and if not then I'm still successfully closeted. Exploring this city (and others) for hidden gardens, parks, and spaces not designed for human consumption is a fantastic pass time, call me a Flâneur or Urban Explorer. I hitchhiked to St. Johns Newfoundland when i was 19, and I did my first solo trip around the world this year and doubt it will be my last.
Kink (if you are looking for more of an insight into who I am, may I suggest my writings) I have an unreal attraction to small girls, girls who are willing to learn... or be forced. I have recently realized that I have always had these desires. I struggled at first with my identity when I discovers this, and did a lot of experimenting. But I have now been able to say that all my life I have wanted my own little slut, my own little fuck toy who aims to please, loves to cuddle, but most of all loves to be used sexually. I am now coming to terms with the fact that with the right girl, I become and insatiable monster looking to hurt, satisfy and comfort; Ravage tease and cuddle; Corrupt, punish and love. I decided I would describe the few things I enjoy ... People seem to like hearing about them. The first is having you tied to my bed, and using a Hitachi magic wand on you, making you ask permission to cum, punishing you if you don't. I do this until you have had so many orgasms you are begging me to stop... and not stopping ;) I like Forced orgasms, orgasm denial, training orgasm control... Things like telling you have to wait until I count to 10 before you can cum. The second is deepthroat.. Having you on your knees with your hands bound and my fists full of your hair. Holding you down on my cock while you squirm and twist against your restraints. Holding your head while you gag and struggle for air. If you are good at it that's fantastic, but I also love training a girl to do it, it is one of the most satisfying things... for both of us ;) I I have also recently discovered that I have a very sadistic side, but in order for it to come out I need to know that my partner enjoys it on some level. I enjoy inflicting pain for the purpose of pleasure, punishing naughty little brats is a lot of fun, but true masochism is a huge turn on for me. I love spanking, flogging, slapping, biting, nipple clamps etc. but only if you like it. I like checking to make sure your getting wetter as I hurt you... I love getting you to the point that your literally dripping wet and haven't even touched your pussy yet. The problem with examples is that they are specific, and I think each person is very unique. But in a more psychological sense, I love learning about someone, their inner desires. The dark thoughts and cravings they don't share with anyone for fear of judgment or ridicule. I find a way to satisfy that desire, and then make you beg for it... Hence my wanting you to start to share more ... Intimate details about this kind of thing... Now you Tell me what your into, I'm open to basically anything! Im also on FL more than here ... https://.com/users/1857302
(taken July 2014) You Scored as Sadist Urban Dictionary: Sadist: One who gets pleasure (often sexual) from the suffering of others. Sadist 96% Dominant 93% Experimental 86% Exhibitionist / Voyeur 64% Switch 50% Bondage 32% Masochist 11% Vanilla 7% Submissive 4% |
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I am surprised to see you show up at my door. It's late, and I was not expecting you. You are wet, dripping actually, it was raining outside. I open the door and let you in, "I'm surprised to see you, it's late!" You look up at me from under the hair plastered to your face from the water "my phone died and I wanted to see you" is all you say before taking your boots off and walking towards my room.
As you walk I reach up and take you jacket off your back and hang it up, then I get you a towel from the closet. As you dry you hair I mention you should really get out of your soaking wet clothing or you will get sick, you look up and me and grin as you start to undo your pants. I gently stop your hands and say "let me". I turn you around and reach in front of your stomach and gently peal your your shirt up over your head, and press my body against your skin. I pull your hair to one side reach up under your arm to hold your throat with one hand and reach to the top of your jeans with the other and pull while I kiss your neck and nibble your ear. Your head falls back against my shoulder and you close your eyes. I watch your breasts and chest heave and one of your hands reaches up and grabs the back of my head.
I Lift you off the ground by your jeans and turn you around and kiss you hard with a fist full of your hair in one hand and another squeezing your ass. I reach up and pop your bra off and slowly start to kiss down your neck and between your beautiful exposed breasts. I use one hand to cup one of your breasts as I kiss and lick my way towards your nipple, and after gently sucking it until it becomes hard and sensitive I bite hard enough for you to flinch and gasp. I continue kissing slowly down your ribs and stomach to the top of your jeans and tug at them with my teeth. The button pops open and I pull away to undo the zipper. I can see your hips quiver as your fingers run though my hair. I reach up behind you and peal your pants down over your perfect ass, being careful not to remove your sexy lace panties. Your pants drop to the floor, and I kiss your hips and down your thighs, up one and down the other. I ask you to spread your legs, you gladly oblige standing with your feet well apart. I lick up the inside of your thighs and stop just short of your panties, I kiss your belly button and run my tongue down again stopping just above your panties. I look up and you and you say "please alex, I want to feel your mouth on my pussy" i grin and say "I bet you do" I grab your panties with my teeth and pull them down to your knees you close you me legs and they fall to the floor, before you know what's happening I have an arm between your legs, one behind your back and have you off the ground. I toss you into the bed and am on top of you before you have a chance to blink. I spread your legs and push them up to your ears so you are on full display. With another evil grin I bury my tongue into your cunt, swirling and licking, running my tongue up to flick your clit, sucking it into my mouth and nibbling it until your back arches. I use one hand to fit 2 fingers into your pussy, "your so tight!" I say, as they make contact with your g spot and your clit at the same time in rhythmic motions, Your back arched and your chest heaving it is too much for you and you whimper "please alex can I cum?!" And I say "yes you can, you have been such a good little girl, you can cum for me" and I feel your cum salty and sweet run over my tongue and fingers. When you have stopped spasmming I drop your legs to the bed and climb into your chest pining your arms with my legs and say "now suck" it is a difficult position for you but your are eager to please me so you struggle to get me into your mouth, eventually I grab your head and force it down onto my cock, slowly at first and then building speed, until your head is moving so fast you are a little dizzy and are gagging uncontrollably. I let go of you head and it falls to the bed "very good girl!" I say smiling down at you as I climb down to between your legs. I grab both of your wrists and pin them above your head and slap you, and say "now I'm going to fuck you, hard and fast, and you had better cum if you know what's good for you" I rub the head of my cock on your clit until your hips start to leave the bed trying to fit me inside, I look down at you and say "oh so you want me inside you!?" and I thrust into you in one hard fast motion. You are so wet and ready it slides in with easy and you don't even cry out until I am buried to the hilt and pressing into your cervix. I lift your legs onto my shoulders and grab your throat and fuck you harder than you have ever bed fucked I your life. It's so hard it is painful and pleasurable at the same time. It's not 10 seconds before you are screaming "I can't stop it alex I'm cummminnnggg!!" I feel your pussy squeeze me and it sets me off, I fill your pussy with my cum, and wait for you to stop pulsing before piling out reaching down and filling my hand with the cum dripping out of you and telling you "open your mouth" and I let it fall into your mouth. You eagerly swallow it and I grin down and you "you are such a good little girl, I'm very pleased"! I kiss your eyes, cheeks, forehead and mouth and stroke your hair as you fall asleep. |
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Share...
I tend to be willing to share my darkest thoughts and desires... although they do tend to scare some people, I find sharing quite liberating. Basically if someone knows the darkest most horrible things I have in my head and can still accept me... then I am willing to accept anything about them, and the relationship becomes orders of magnitude stronger. Once you share that with someone, and they do the same I feel like there is a connection a trust that is developed. Only good things have ever come of it for me, especially when those desires are mutual.
In my case, I am both unwilling or unable to judge someone for their desires no matter how depraved, and I am willing to attempt to fulfill (or help to fulfill,) most desires. I have herd and seen a lot of the horrible/wonderful things some people like to do to each other, but as long as you are sane, and the things you do are consensual, I don't have the capability to judge you. Even if you want to do something without consent, and you don't actually do it I will not be the judge of anyone's psychological morals. My brain just doesn't work that way.
So, what would you like to share?
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I apologize for my gender.
Although within this world of kink there may be a slightly higher fraction of decent men. I am constantly reminded of the horrible nature of the gender I belong to. I will give only two examples this, first from a girl who I met a while ago who had no previous experience in the world of kink. The second from someone I was speaking to who I connected with on . I could give dozens more as I'm sure any of the decent men reading this could.
1)I was lying in bed with a wonderful girl after sex one night. Talking to her about what she liked about the experience, asking her what could have been better, what she liked, what she had always dreamed of doing. Asking her to share her desires and fantasies. As she struggled to find words to share her thoughts, I explained that talking about these things will only lead to good experiences. When she told me this,
"I supposes this is hard for me because no one has ever asked me what I liked or wanted in bed"
... now I don't know about the rest of you but this made me laugh our loud at first but as soon as the shock wore off, a bitter hatred for my gender began to bubble up under the surface. I chalked it up to me just being a great guy who wants to make my partners as happy as they make me, whatever that means to each individual person I am with. I was sure I was not the only guy who thinks this way, they are just few and far between.
2) The context of the conversation was discussing each others kinks, I had asked her about anal sex. she told me she enjoyed it, especaly the thought of it, but it always hurt. I explained that although some pain is to be expected it should not be overwhelming and should really result in pleasure rather than pain. Than she hit me with this,
"the last guy I was with just shoved his dick inside and made me bleed."
I was astonished this sweet innocent little girl of less than 20... what man could be so stupid/naive/dishonorable/selfish. by doing that he has warped her view on the subject of anal sex, and probably on men in general. I voiced my views and she then hit me with this
"its okay, he tried to say it was my fault because my own wetness should have been enough"
... I was at a loss for words... can men like this really exist? As I mentioned in my lifetime I have heard stories from dozens of girls about rape, abuse, and just plain stupidity on the part of men in their lives. I have learned to deal with it by doing my best to make each and every person I come into contact with a happier person for having known me, weather its complete sexual satisfaction, safe exploration and discovery of sexuality, or just friendship advice and mentoring. Over time however, this has bothered me more and more. I can feel the same distaste for the jerks that prowl online dating sites and bars, as the girls I am approaching in these places and I think to myself, "These girls are made of stronger stuff than I, if this kind of shit happened to me on a regular basses I would learn to love girls, or become celibate" how could it possibly be worth the physical and emotional pain to wade though the scores of douchebags to find the very (very) few decent guys?!
While stewing on this I had an amusing thought that I decided I would share...
Imaging the idea of "sex licensing". men must carry a card that allows them to even talk about sex or sexuality with other human beings. Plenty of educational materials would be made available to anyone who desired it free of charge, sorted by levels of difficulty. The system would be graduated (beginner/intermediate/ etc) and would include everything from proper polite conversation, to safe extreme play guidelines. Men would apply to a collective of women and men (top level card holders) for the privilege of receiving a card, or upgrading the card they have. Girls, just imagine looking at a dickhead in a bar who just slured a vulgar pickup line at you and saying "excuse me, but I only talk to men with intermediate or higher licenses." and walking away! Oh how much harder bad men would have to work! And how much easier good men would have it!
Again, I apologize for my gender.
Sincerely,
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A *Really* Good First Date.
This actually happened, this is not erotica!
I picked her up around 8. We drove to a place with a nice booth that I like, and great drinks. On the drive we talk about some superficial chit chat until we get there.
We connected well over a couple of drinks drinks, we talk for hours about past relationship, what we are looking for, what turns us on. After three and a half hours and two drinks you ask, "what would you like to do?", I respond with, "Lets just say I'm glad we are in a public place, it would be much harder to restrain myself from doing what I want to do if we were not." you blush. I ask you what you want to do, you blush harder and say, "I cant say it", I want you to say it but I want you to know I know its hard, so I go first, "I will tell you what I am going to do and then you can tell me what you want to do" you reluctantly agree. "I am going to pay and when we are going to walk out to my car, when we get there I'm going to grab the back of your head by your hair and pull you down against the car, I'm going to kiss you hard. With my other hand on your throat, squeezing just hard enough. Then I am going to put you in the can and drive you home, because anticipation is important." you respond with, "your killing me. But i don't think I can say what I want" I say "we are not leaving until you do" you look down at your hands and oh so quietly say, "I want you to fuck my throat" I gasp a little, I knew you like this based on our correspondence but I was not expecting that to be what you wanted by the end of our first date! I am very impressed and I am so off balance,, as i get up to leave I tell you to grab your sweater even though your already wearing it. My hand is on the small of you back as we walk to my car. I follow you around the to passenger side grab your hair and slam you into the car with the other hand on your throat. I come in close but don't actually kiss you for several seconds letting the electricity build with our lips less then an inch apart. Then i slam my lips into yours, kissing deep, your knees buckle a little and i push you down holding you against the car by your throat. Then i release, open the door, and put you in the car. You look up at me with wide longing eyes, eyes that want more. I close the door on them.
We drive in silence for a while, eventually I reach over and touch your knee and start to drag my nails up and down your inner thigh. You instinctively move your hands from your crotch, and place them beside your legs so I have better access. I however, do not use the access. I get ever so close but stop just before. after some time I gently brush against you clit thought your jeans and your hips pivot naturally. I pull away immediately and tell you, "I want you to touch yourself" your expression changes to one of frustration, I know you wanted me to touch you, but i squeeze your thigh hard, and you react by starting to put your hand down your pants. I stop you and tell you, "No, above your pants" and you obey. after some time I tell you, "Do you want me to touch you?" you nod, and i say, "Then tell me", "I want you to touch me" "Say it again" "Please, I want you to touch me", I smile and say, "Open your pants a little so i can get my hand down them" you obey and I start to touch your clit. I realize you are wet, right though your pants, and my actions only make it better. after a few minutes I can tell you are getting close, so i pull my hand back and lick my fingers. A moan escapes my lips. And I glare at you.
as we get close to your place I ask, "is there somewhere we can go for a walk" you explain there is a path into the ravine nearby. We park and start to walk, I place my hand on your neck and walk with you just in front of me out onto a pedestrian bridge. its dark, late, and a little chilly. about halfway across the bridge I stop and grab your hair and pull it around the railing holding her throat with the other hand kissed you hard, I reach down the front of your pants and get my finger wet with your cum pull my hand up and stuff them in your mouth, you moan and i slap you lightly in the face and say "your a dirty little girl aren't you" you gasp and I spin you around pushing you into the railing by the back of your neck I spank your ass hard. your back arches. I hit you several more times and then run my hand up your thigh to feel you crotch, your soaked through you pants. You were look at me with pleading eyes and whimpering, I ask, "what do you want?" in a low voice she responded, "your cock" an evil grin crept across my face, "you cant have it..." I said followed by a very hard spank. I grab you by the hair and start to lead you back to the car telling you, "I think that's enough for now young lady" as we walk you begin to squirm, you begin to moan, and I say, "oh did you want me to spank you some more? then say it." "Please spank me again" I glare at you, I want to devour you, but I gladly oblige pulling your hair down so your bent at the hips and hit your several times very hard, rubbing your gorgeous ass between strokes. after a few more i pull you up. your shivering, I ask, "are you cold?" as i take my blazer off and drape it over your shoulders. You just nod and pull the blazer tight around you. we walk back to the car your shoulder wedged under mine and my arm around you as we walk.
We get in the car and I lean over grab you hard get very close and say, "your going to go home and touch yourself now, and your going to think about me while you do it." you respond with "im not going to think about anything else for a long time..." i smile and say, "your my little slut aren't you" you nod and say in a mouse like cute quiet voice, "yes I am your little slut" I grin even wider, "Good Girl"
I drive you to your house, park on the street lean over and kiss you on the mouth while my other hand reaches down your shirt finds your nipple and pinches hard your back arches and you inhale sharply. I pull away from your lips and your nipple at the same time look at you, practically panting and tell you to have a good night and wait for you to get out of my car. you look at me with the sweetest eyes, that are craving more. I just grin and wait. You reluctantly get out of the car and wave as you walk up the driveway, and I dive off. I'm sure we will see each other again...
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You get home from a night out with your friend a little tipsy, the kind of drunk you are after a few beer followed by a few shots and then a few more at closing time, you wave goodbye to your friends as the cab drives off and stumble with your keys at the door, and make your way in. Through the kitchen getting a glass of water on your way to you room, you chug half the glass before passing out barely getting your Shirt off before passing out.
You awake with a start as you feel a hand on your mouth as a ball gag is forced on to your head. You catch a glimpse of your assailant and see a ski mask under a black hoodie, Just before he starts wrapping tape around your head to blindfold you.He grabs you by your hair and begins to drag you from your bed. You realize as you grab the hand in your hair and try to stand you are still quite drunk. He drags you to the door and you realize it was open, he takes you out into the back yard and as the drops fall on your skin and the wind hits you, you realize it has started to rain quite heavily. The fact you are in a bra and skirt means you are almost immediately soaked and cold.
You have almost no time to think and you are still a little drunk so you don't even realize what's going on before your hands are tied to each other and then pulled up above your head. Your legs and fastened apart. The rain is pouring down now, the wind whipping your wet hair into your face. You feel a cold blade slide against your face and you try to scream but your muffled cries are lost in the wind. The flat of the blade slides up your face and under the tape, in a hard yank the tape is cut and falls away and as your eye focus on the face of the man in front of you there is a flash of lightning and you see my grinning face under the hood of my sopping sweater, a dark evil grin.
You glance around and realize you are tied to a limb of the tree in your back yard, another flash of lightning lets you see your legs are tied by long ropes the the boards of the fence several feet in each direction. I approach you again with the knife and cut your bra off in one quick motion, the grabbing your skirt in one hand slice that off as well. You are left shivering wearing just a pair of white panties.
I toss the knife aside and reach into a bag at my feet that you only just realized was there and pull out a large rather plane looking white vibrator. I get down on one knee and pull your panties aside to insert the vibrator. You are so wet the thing slides in with little resistance. It's too big so it is still sticking out 3 or 4 inches when I can see you grimace in pain, I pull your panties back to cover the vibe and hold it in place. Although it is still not vibrating yet your enjoy the sensation, but it is hard to focus on in the cold and wind. I look into your pleading eyes and see the drool coming out around the ball gag and smile, and slap you hard across the face. You are still drunk so it takes the sting out of the slap, but it still shakes your head around. Dazed you look down and see me pulling a crop from the bag.
I walk to your side and you strain to look at me. I stand with the crop on your ass and wait... And wait... You start to struggle and moan... And I wait. So much time passes you think I might not hit you. But the I do, it's the hardest you have ever been hit. You let out a muffled squeal and twist against the ropes. I tell you I want you to beg me with your eyes and hit you again.... I want you to cry for me. And again and again you feel the sting of the crop, the alcohol no use in covering this sensation. I look into your eyes and your body is convulsing in sobs that are wracking your body and realize that you are. I put my hand on your face and smile, good girl I say with satisfaction, and reach down and turn on the vibrator. The feeling is so intense Your body is instantly wracked with an orgasm that lasts for what feels like an eternity and I shut the vibrator off. You go limp against the ropes heaving for breath. I cut down the rope and catch you set you down in the wet grass and untie your legs, I carry you to the bed close the door and climb in with you leaving you hands tied and we fall asleep together
"good night sweetheart"
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