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About RespectfulDD
I've been here before. More than once. I find myself coming back because I've gotten to a point in my life where I know I can't do strictly vanilla anymore. It just leaves me unfulfilled and wanting more. To be honest, I think at this stage in my life it would be irresponsible and unfair to my partner for me to pursue a vanilla relationship. It's not what I want.... and I would have to get rid of so many toys.
I am a 34 year old Daddy Dom. It's taken me about ten years of failed relationships, both vanilla and kink to figure this out. I am looking for a babygirl. My babygirl. I'm looking for something longterm, not a flash in the pan, no casual no strings attached play. I want to build something, and invest time and trust in a partner. The truth of the matter is that while I do want someone devoted to me, I want the collar to be taken off from time to time. To be able to come back down to reality. I want my babygirl to have a voice, and know that she will be heard. And I want to devote myself to her as well.
I believe strongly in monogamy (at least one of the Christian values beat into my head stuck) when it comes to my relationship. I'm hoping to meet a partner who does as well. I have tried to live a polyamorous lifestlye, and while I condone, accept and embrace it as a lifestyle people choose to live, I know that it is not for me. If you have your heart set on a poly household, I don't think we will be compatible.
In terms of kink, I'm very open minded. I enjoy rough play and sex, but harsh punishments would only be doled out when needed. If it's something my babygirl wants, she will have to do something naughty to earn it. I am not abusive, and I will not lash out for the sake of lashing out. I believe very strongly in a system of punishments and rewards. This system would be tailored to meet the needs of my babygirl. One requirement however, is gentle play. I'm a big cuddler, and a softie at heart. I probably shouldn't give away my Achilles' heel, but I have caved to puppy dog eyes, downcast looks and quiet apologies in the past, and I probably will again in the future.
If you are honestly looking for a thoughtful, loving (but stern) Daddy dom, then please message me. I'm friendly, and a good listener, and for the most part, very patient. If you're looking for online play, or something casual, I'm really not interested. Please be real, and not a time waster. While I am patient it does have it limits.
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