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Male Dominant, 47, central iowa, Iowa
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About RespectedSir
Looking for slave to own, degrade and humiliate...
Let's start with the main points:
- You should be intelligent but want to be treated as mindless.
- You should be extreme but discreet.
- You should be classy but not above being used as a human urinal.
- You should be attractive but not expect to be treated as such.
- You should long to please but not expect it to be reciprocated.
- You should be independent but want to be owned.
- You should find the idea of a life long existence as property exciting.
If you are these things, perhaps you can be My property.
Are you serious?
Now that I've dispensed with the BDSM D/s or whatever-you-want-to-call-it rhetoric, and since you've read this far, I'd like to speak more candidly, with little to no self-editing. My hope is that it will help clarify who I am, what I'm looking for, and whether I am "for real" and truly trustworthy. It's cliché, but the truth is meeting someone here for what I have in mind requires a lot of trust and maybe even a small leap of faith. I hope my efforts below will help narrow that chasm.
A little about me?
Alright, physically, I'm 6’ and 195 lbs. I have short black hair and dark brown eyes. I'm of average build. In the looks department, I like to fancy myself as above average but I suppose it's really quite subjective. I have intense dark demeanor but tend to lighten up and reveal myself further as I get to know someone. Intellectually, well, you'll have to decide that one for yourself.
What brings me here?
This one I can go on & on about. In a nutshell, I enjoy humiliating and degrading submissive women. Ideally, I'd like to find someone who harbors a darker side that is at odds with their everyday outwardly image.
Am I looking for a partner and/or a long-term relationship?
Yes and no is my best and most honest answer. I know, it's vague and rather lame. Truth is, I have plenty of friends and a healthy romantic life. It is my erotic life, so to speak, that I wish to address here. And so if you're looking for a husband, a lover or a life-partner, those all translate into some form of equality and I do not offer that, thus I am definitely not the one for you.
What I am looking for is ownership, a slave, tpe, no rights, no choices and no limits, and that, by definition is long term. To that end I would consider children with the right slave.
Alright, I get your modus operandi, but what about the specifics?
Well, I will control every aspect of your life. I will choose the clothes you wear (and when), the way you do your hair, your schedule, your friends and who youspeak to or spend time with. You'll specifically be required to serve orally..frequently, very frequently..alright, constantly. In fact, you'll be expected to service and satisfy the whims and perversions of a selfish and twisted dominant. And in return, you will get slapped, spat on and verbally abused. You will be made to wear outfits that would make a streetwalker blush. You will be collared & leashed and appropriately made to crawl on all fours. You will be fed from a dog bowl. You will be used as anything from a maid to a footstool, from a cook to a urinal. You will have things written on you with lipstick that will run chills up your spine and tears down your cheeks. You will have your face covered in cum and your head push into a toilet to wash away semen and self-dignity. You will be called upon as easily as you are ignored. You will lick shoes as much as balls. You will have your boundaries pushed and your desires repressed. In short, you will be mine to do with as I please.
Don't you think you're being unrealistic and/or contradictory?
Not any more so than a person who feels that way and reads this far. I realize that I'm asking for a lot, and just about the only thing that I can offer in return is duality. The rare duality of a person who is twisted but not a psycho, whom you can fear but trust, whom you can hate but desire, who has a dirty mind but a clean bill of health, who can be strict but open to discussion, a friend but not an equal. I seek what I offer: a person that can slice through these contradictions, make sense of them, give them meaning and harmony.
Openly dominant and practicing this lifestyle since age 17, I view this not as an activity or a game but rather who I am. I have dealt with most of my own demons (does anyone ever deal with them all?) I have adjusted to living in the real world while remaining true to who I am.
If this sounds like what you are searching for, we should begin a dialogue. I am ARespectedSir on yim |
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Just saw (again) one of my favorite quotes from deSade:
“When she's abandoned her moral center and teachings...when she's cast aside her facade of propriety and lady-like demeanor...when I have so corrupted this fragile thing and brought out a writhing, mewling, bucking, wanton whore for my enjoyment and pleasure.....enticing from within this feral lioness...growling and scratching and biting...taking everything I dish out to her.....at that moment she is never more beautiful to me.”
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