ResonantMindsets

• Married and have been for thirty years. We spent ten years together, separated (not legally), and remain married for financial advantages, agreeing we'll amicably divorce if the other ever wants to re-marry.


• We meet once a year, sign tax documents, enjoy a nice dinner and catch up on the previous twelve months. No children.


• Live in Metro Chicago within easy walking access of Lake Shore Drive and Lakefront Trail. Prior to Chicago the cities of Charlotte, LA, NYC, Seattle, Washington DC, Dallas, Memphis, and the Silicon Valley area were all home for various periods of time.


• Political Science degreed professional, workaholic, specializing in policy, systems, and feasibility analysis.


• Career has allowed visiting all fifty states and many foreign countries. Over the years, between work and vacations, I've visited seven continents, the favorites being Europe and Australia.


• Travel for work 44 weeks of the year and spend approximately 24 weekends a year at home.


• Height/weight proportionate, workout daily or as schedule allows, currently have far more suits than jeans or casual wear and look forward to retirement far away from city life.

• Intelligence is an aphrodisiac, especially when it’s subtle and displayed in a confident manner without any hint of arrogance or superiority. Overt displays designed to self-promote are not attractive.


• Few things are sexier than well-worn laugh lines that crowd out frown wrinkles.


• Negativity is a huge turn off. There will always be annoying people and situations that can’t be avoided, but recognizing their voice and allowing it in our lives is a weakness that plays into their wheelhouse. Don’t allow yourself to be brought down to their level, make them rise to your level.


• Contrary to popular opinion, a well-developed sense of self is the first step on the path to D/s.


• How you express yourself matters. If your profile is rife with misspellings, abbreviations, or demonstrates a tenuous grasp of grammar, you’re doing yourself a great disservice. Avail yourself of the opportunity to simply and clearly express your thoughts.


• I’m well past the point where I’m looking for play partners. If your focus is being a bedroom or sexual only submissive, I’m not interested.


• Be quick to laugh, quick to praise, and slow to criticize.


• Does your profile or journal contain reposts of offensive messages you’ve received or rants about how life is unfair and has wronged you repeatedly? Take the time to assess the image you wish to project.

Absurdum est ut alios regat, qui seipsum regere nescit.